January 31, 2019 at 10:00 am PST | by Rabbi Denise Eger and Tyler Gregory
Open Letter to Task Force CEO Rea Carey

(Editor’s note: During Creating Change’s opening plenary on Jan. 24, a handful of protesters took the stage to demand that the Task Force allow them to discuss their “Free Palestine” cause. At the end, they chanted “From the river to the sea, Palestine will be free!” – a slogan widely construed as calling for the elimination of Israel. Rabbi Denise Eger of Congregation Kol Ami in West Hollywood and Tyler Gregory of A Wider Bridge were furious and demanded an apology from Executive Director Rea Carey.  Here is their letter. – Karen Ocamb)

January 25, 2019

Ms. Rea Carey
National LGBTQ Task Force
1325 Massachusetts Ave. NW
Suite 600
Washington, DC 20005

Dear Ms. Carey,

We are deeply troubled that an uninvited group of disruptors breached the opening plenary of Creating Change to voice hate speech and slander against the Jewish community and our institutions, without action or consequence from the leadership of the National LGBTQ Task Force.

Video evidence and firsthand accounts of the incident describe anti-Semitic insinuations about the work of A Wider Bridge as “Pinkwashing,” falsehoods about the important work of our partner, the ADL (Anti-Defamation League), and about motivations of donors to the LGBTQ Task Force itself. The fifteen-minute disruption ended with calls of “from the river to the sea,” an anti-Semitic dog whistle from those wishing to see the Jewish State and its inhabitants disappear.

These actions were anti-Semitic, homophobic, and transphobic:

The continued silence in response to chants calling for the destruction of Israel is dangerous for those living in Israel, Jews and non-Jews alike, for Jews around the world, and for those who care about and are committed to democracy.  This type of hate speech allowed to go unchecked festers into discrimination against American Jews and Israelis.

Slandering our valuable institutions like the ADL with invented charges like the perpetuation of violence against the LGBTQ community, is another divisive dog-whistle that echoes anti-Semitic myths of the all-powerful Jew wreaking havoc on the oppressed. This is similar to recent dog whistling from the leaders of Women’s March, Inc. against the Jewish community.

Hate speech against LGBTQ Israelis goes unchecked at Creating Change. Would the Conference allow activists to proceed with slander against LGBTQ activists of any other nationality?

To the extent that few expressed disappointment to the Task Force about this disruption, we are not surprised. Many LGBTQ Jews reject Creating Change as an unfriendly environment for authentic engagement. And those that remain are unwilling or unable to express themselves on this matter.
Echoes of 2016 Creating Change in Chicago

This incident echoes events that transpired in 2016, when A Wider Bridge’s reception featuring leaders from Jerusalem Open House (JOH), the city’s LGBTQ Center, was violently disrupted and shut down by a similar uninvited group of disruptors. These remarkable LGBTQ leaders from Israel had spent the last six months helping their community heal and recover from the trauma of anti-LGBTQ violence at the Jerusalem March for Pride & Tolerance. They expected to be supported and embraced by the U.S. LGBTQ community at Creating Change. Instead, the protestors denied their humanity and silenced their voices, and the conference tragically did little to provide for their safety and security.

After the 2016 event, dozens of LGBTQ leaders, civil rights attorney Roberta Kaplan sent a letter to the Task Force, signed by LGBTQ leaders across the country, to unequivocally express collective and deep concern about what transpired.

A Wider Bridge reached out to the Task Force to address these issues and create a welcoming and safe space for all LGBTQ people, including Jews and non-Jews, who care about Israel. While the Task Force asked A Wider Bridge to reflect upon the events that transpired, were never consulted about any proposed policy changes affecting the Jewish community at the Conference.

It is not surprising that this silence has created an ugly situation once again. Once more, the marquee convening of American LGBTQ activism has been hijacked by a small, vocal group that seeks to silence diversity of identity and thought.

A Call for Change
Our aim is not to silence dissenting voices around the issues of Israel/Palestine with which we disagree. Accepting and providing space to differing voices around the conflict should be encouraged, especially to resolve our differences. We recognize that the lives and experiences of LGBTQ Palestinians and Arabs are just as much a part of our rich and diverse community as LGBTQ Israelis and Jews.

Anti-Semitism, slander, and chants calling for the erasure of Israel must not go unchecked at Creating Change. If so, what kind of change are we creating? Are we truly building the inclusive future the National LGBTQ Task Force claims to be working to achieve?

We call on the National LGBTQ Task Force to issue a formal apology to the Jewish Community, remove these hateful activists and all forms of hate speech from the Conference, and develop a permanent solution that excises this festering problem from our community.

We look forward to hearing concrete steps from you so that together we can move forward to create a more accepting and welcoming community.

Thank you,

Rabbi Denise L. Eger,
Founding Rabbi
Congregation Kol Ami
Immediate Past President of the Central Conference of American Rabbis

Tyler Gregory,
Executive Director
A Wider Bridge

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