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Black men’s body parts for sale

Ed Buck case is about a warped sexual fantasy involving a mythological appendage

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The deaths of Gemmel Moore and Timothy Dean and the near death of several black men in the West Hollywood home of Ed Buck are indicative of an artificially created, heightened demand for that mythological black male appendage below the belt.

Let’s be clear: this is not a desire for the individual black man, his personality or his looks – it’s a craving for just the appendage. And many white and brown gay men are willing to pay large sums of cash to possess it, even if only for a short period of time.

To some gay black men like me, this hunting for a distinct black male body part feels much like the African elephant being hunted to near extinction for its ivory tusk, which is ground up and used to ostensibly enhance sexual prowess. It is proof of the power of marketing on the human mind.

The marketers of the porn industry and con artists in the American media know how to market this appendage very well — creating the sexual desire for black men that poor black boys are pursued to fulfill. Most white men know that they don’t possess the natural ability to attract the desires of black men unless money is part of the equation: it’s almost a given that if you’re a gay black boy in a predominately white gay world you will be offered money for sex.

Too often, it becomes easier and much more lucrative to offer up your body than to try and get a job within the broader gay community.

If an individual Asian, Latino or white man decides to make a little money by doing a porn scene, their entire race is not identified by their individual actions. Unfortunately, however, that does not transfer to black men.

The general perception is that each individual black man must be like all black men, even though not all black men can all play sports, rap, dance or have a penis large enough to fit the commonly held mythology.

The horrible blowback from this sex marketing mindset is largely to blame for the deaths of Gemmel Morre and Timothy Dean. In the city of West Hollywood, there are scores of white gay male escorts. When the term “sex worker” is applied to them, they are basically offered a modicum of respect.

But it took the deaths of two black gay men — one a known escort — and the near death of a third black gay escort, before the known white suspect was ever taken into police custody.

This screams of racial disparities and prejudices about how black men’s lives are devalued. In this case, it is particularly ugly to see the legal power structure that promotes the belief that Gemmel Moore and Timothy Dean’s deaths were self-inflicted — accidental overdoses, according to the coroner — as if black men devalue themselves so much that they would choose to die in Ed Buck’s apartment.

I do not believe their deaths were “accidental.” I believe they died because of Ed Buck’s warped sexual fantasy about a black man’s penis.

The powerful elite that owns and operates online and offline media with an objective and mission to monetize the public’s appetites and desires knows what sells. They have also led in the messaging of what and who black gay men are.

We gay black men do not possess a metaphoric megaphone to shout to the world: WE BLACK GAY MEN ARE NOT WHAT YOU’VE BEEN TOLD.”

If we did, then I’m confident our perceived identities would not be so sexually skewed.

We black people once again have to take control of our own identity and once again, like the civil rights movement of the 60s, create a new black LGBTQ movement.

Check out LosAngelesBlackLGBTMovement.org or see the Facebook page.

 

Paul Scott is founder of the Los Angeles Black LGBTQ Movement.

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United Methodists use anti-LGBTQ+ law to stop Jewish couple adopting

Here we go again with taxpayer-funded bigotry- Denying state services because of religious affiliation is unquestionably unconstitutional

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By James Finn | DETROIT – A Christian adoption agency that’s part of a progressive denomination just used a Tennessee law to stop a Jewish couple from adopting a child, who now languishes in state care. The same agency had already used the law for its intended purpose — to refuse to work with prospective LGBTQ parents. The agency is partnering with one of most notorious anti-LGBTQ hate groups in the United States. How did a progressive Christian denomination end up in bed with extremist Evangelicals associated with the Trump movement? Depending on your perspective, that’s either a cautionary tale or a horror story.

Two years ago, responding to demands from Christian constituents, the Tennessee General Assembly passed House Bill 836, which “prohibits, to the extent allowed by federal law, a private licensed child-placing agency from being required to perform, assist, consent to, refer, or participate in any child placement for foster care or adoption that would violate the agency’s written religious or moral convictions.”

Lawmakers made clear during debate that the “convictions” they meant were Christian “convictions” that LGBTQ people are unfit to foster or adopt children.

Denying state services because of religious affiliation is unquestionably unconstitutional, a direct infringement on the free exercise of religion guaranteed by the First Amendment.

This year, Holston United Methodist Home for Children used that law to turn away Elizabeth and Gabriel Rutan-Ram because they are Jewish. And now, a boy who should be part of a loving forever family is stuck in the “system.”

Anti-LGBTQ+ foster agency discriminates against married Jewish coupleLast month, some parents and other community members railed against creating a GSA at a Lakeland School Board meeting…www.losangelesblade.com

The couple were unable to adopt because Holston United Methodist was the only agency where they lived that could provide mandatory state-certification services. The couple just sued the Tennessee Department of Children’s Services in state court, alleging they are being denied services by a taxpayer-funded agency solely because of their religious affiliation. Click here for the full text of the legal brief.

Anti-semitism and anti-LGBTQ bigotry walk hand in hand

I don’t know what part of this story makes me more angry, that Tennessee passed a law designed to make it hard for LGBTQ people to foster or adopt, or that an agency affiliated with the mainline United Methodist Conference (UMC) stirred in anti-semitism to hurt a child.

Jaw-droppingly, this story is not about Evangelical Christians, but about a denomination widely viewed as on the cutting edge of progressive Christianity.

Apparently, the Christians at Holston United Methodist Home never got the progressive memo. The agency’s status within the UMC is unclear. A spokesperson for the Holston UMC Conference told knox news the home is “no longer an arm” of the Conference, but did not respond to questions asking if the home and affiliated church are members of the Conference. Neither the Holston Conference, the UMC, nor the adoption agency responded to my inquiries yesterday asking if the agency remains affiliated. Going by the agency’s web page, the answer is yes:

“Holston Home is proudly affiliated with the Holston Conference of the United Methodist Church, an area that covers all of East Tennessee, the western-most 17 counties in Virginia, and a little bit of territory in North Georgia. In that area, more than 873 United Methodist Churches make up the Holston Conference.”

Holston Home United Methodist Home for ChildrenHolston United Methodist Home for Children provides hope and healing for a brighter future by sharing the love of Jesus…www.holstonhome.org

Holston UMC Home is partnering with a hate group

Last December, the Holston United Methodist Home sued the Biden administration over HHS rules that do not allow them (as the recipient of federal funds) to refuse to place children with same-sex couples.

In both legal cases, Holston UMC Home is being represented by lawyers with Alliance Defending Freedom, certified by the Southern Poverty Law Center as an anti-LGBTQ hate group. ADF is notorious for championing extremist Christian hate, on the record claiming a “homosexual agenda” will destroy Christianity and society. Among other things, the Alliance pushes:

  • False notions that LGBTQ people are more likely to sexually abuse children.
  • The recriminalization of sexual acts between consenting LGBTQ adults in the U.S. and criminalization abroad.
  • State-sanctioned sterilization of trans people abroad.
  • “Religious liberty” legislation and case law to allow denial of goods and services to LGBTQ people in the U.S.

This isn’t the ADF’s first rodeo with anti-semitism

I’ve written before about the Miracle Hill adoption agency in South Carolina that fought successfully in 2019 for a federal waiver to allow them to turn away Jews, Catholics, Muslims, agnostics, and atheists. When Lydia Currie sued, saying she was turned away for being Jewish, ADF jumped into the thick of the fight, championing Miracle Hill’s right to discriminate against Jewish people.

Trump Trashes Adoption Equality Rule excludes LGBTQ parents as National Adoption Month begins medium.com

Lydia told reporters at the time that, “Boys with a history in the system are hard to place in families because of the assumption that they might be violent… We decided that we wanted to give one of them a home.”

Because of where she lived and the fact that Miracle Hill had a near lock on child-placement services, Lydia was unable to care for the hard-to-place boy she had already identified. She eventually fostered but was unable to help the child who needed her.

Elizabeth and Gabriel face exactly the same problem. They want to adopt a boy from Florida who desperately needs a home, a boy they identified and stepped forward to help, but they can’t, because Holston UMC Home won’t certify Jews, and the couple have no other local options for training and certification.

Let’s be clear about the true freedom interests in this case

The Alliance Defending Freedom say they are vigorously defending religious liberty, but is that true? Holston UMC Home bid for and won a state contract to train and certify foster and adoptive parents as an agent of the Tennessee Department of Children’s Services.

This is the standard model for child placement in the United States, which in many ways is an historical accident. Before about the mid-twentieth century, most homeless children were cared for by private religious agencies funded mostly by church donations. Uneven levels of service that often led to neglect and abuse sparked reform, roughly coincident with President Lyndon Johnson’s Great Society initiative.

Today, private agencies contract with the state to spend taxpayer dollars to provide the bulk of services to children in need. Many of the agencies remain religiously affiliated, but all of them are primarily or exclusively funded by the state, supervised by the state, and required to meet minimum state standards of care. They are, for all practical purposes, agents of the state.

Many of them, like Miracle Hill and Holston UMC Home, hold monopolies or near monopolies in the areas they serve.

So when they insist they must have the “religious liberty” to turn away prospective parents who don’t share their religious views, they are acting as agents of the state discriminating against people on sectarian religious grounds. This ought to be a no brainer. Denying state services because of religious affiliation is unquestionably unconstitutional, a direct infringement on the free exercise of religion guaranteed by the First Amendment.

The people having their freedom snatched away are Lydia, Elizabeth, and Gabriel. The people having their freedom snatched away are LGBTQ people, many of them practicing Christian. The people having their freedom snatched away are children denied loving parents.

Holston United Methodist Home has no liberty interest at stake, contrary to the ADF’s tortured arguments. Holston United Methodist Home is not a person with religious beliefs. It’s a legal entity that bid for and won a state contract to spend taxpayer dollars to perform state services.

If the people who run the agency believe LGBTQ people and Jews are unfit to be parents, they are perfectly free to step aside in favor of people who do not hold those views. They are perfectly free to not bid for state contracts in the first place, especially if their religious views preclude them from fulfilling their duties as agents of the state.

Some adoption agencies in the U.S. have closed for that reason, and in every case, neutral players have stepped forward to bid for and execute state contracts, to care for needy children without religious bias.

What’s happening in Tennessee violates American values and Christian values

Denying services to people because of their religious beliefs is antithetical to American values. We as a people have a sad and sometimes brutal history of racism and anti-semitism, a history with deep Christian roots. As a gay man, I’m far too personally aware of our history of oppressing LGBTQ people. But these sad facts stand in opposition to our ideals of liberty and individual freedom, ideals we most fight to advance.

As for Christianity, I’m certain I don’t need to quote any words of Jesus for Christians to understand that denying families and homes to children in need stands in direct opposition to the message of the gospel. Two children in this story lost the chance to join a loving family because Christians denied it to them. Two children ended up stuck in “the system” because Christians denied them love.

I have no idea how any member of the progressive United Methodist Conference can look a the name of the Holston United Methodist Home for Children and not feel great sadness and shame. Would Jesus deny a loving Jewish home to a child in need?

Of course not. But United Methodists are doing it right now, in his name.

If I were a United Methodist or a citizen of Tennessee, I’d be blasting out messages to my religious and political leaders. Since I’m neither, who can help me do that work?

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James Finn is a former Air Force intelligence analyst, long-time LGBTQ activist, an alumnus of Queer Nation and Act Up NY, a frequent columnist for the LA Blade, a contributor to other LGBTQ news outlets, and an “agented” but unpublished novelist. Send questions, comments, and story ideas to [email protected]

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The preceding article was previously published by Prism & Pen– Amplifying LGBTQ voices through the art of storytelling and is republished by permission.

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Same clap from same stale perennial candidates & former office holders

WeHo City Hall never closed- to protect health & safety of staff/community it shut to in-person transitions & activated virtual operations

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LOS ANGELES – I have tried to understand the recent criticisms aimed at the City Council and government of the City of West Hollywood.  I can’t help but see it as the same clap from the same stale slate of perennial candidates and former office holders who make their case the same tired way.  

No matter what era, the narrative of these forces is always the same, always omitting the obvious successes of the place we call home and love while trying hard to raise a false flag on what they call failure.

Much of the criticism is just hollow and some of it is just willfully uninformed.  Economics, for starters.

While the on-again-off-again shut downs and pandemic mitigation measures have had economic consequences for all of us, the measures have been necessary and not a situation unique to WeHo.

Mayor Meister, the City Council and managers of West Hollywood, whether its critics or its Chamber of Commerce agree or not, did the best it could to protect the intersections of resident’s rights, their health and well-being, commerce and local economy. And that includes the many thousands of people who risk travel here every day by public transportation to do jobs that might put them at risk of exposure to Covid-19, a still potentially deadly pathogen.

Dishonest economic critiques will not serve anyone well.

Quote:The city is digging into it’s reserves to stay afloat, which is a massive difference from where we were just a few years ago when we were considered one of the best run cities in America.”

Followed by:We’ve now been living with COVID since March 2020; you’d think by now that the city would have figured out a way to manage the pandemic and move forward with city business, yet City Hall has been closed to the public and Council meetings are being held virtually. It was hard enough before for the public to get face time with their Councilmembers or city staff, but now it’s literally impossible. City Hall is supposed to be closed till the end of this month but perhaps beyond; who knows when Council meetings will be held in person again? At this point it’s absurd when we could easily resume business with masks, vaccine requirements etc.”

Lot’s of charges are just silly season of politics motivated. The City is accused by one critic and perennial candidate of rejecting their commercial offer of masks.

The truth is that West Hollywood was rightfully mindful of the needs of the regions medical professionals and their protective wear needs in the early days of the pandemic. The mass sale of N95 masks would have jeopardized hospital workers and KN95 masks had already been deemed insufficient, potentially even disastrous.

Oddly, none of this recognizes the profound nature of life in a pandemic and nor does it recognize the change of generations that is occurring, manifesting itself in the election of Mayor Pro Tem Sepi Shyne and Councilmember John Erickson.

Many of the same arguments are being made by the right wing media, politicians and bloviators about any politician or government that has tried to navigate constituencies safely through Covid, aiming especially hard at President Joe Biden and wrongly blaming him for the Omicron induced Covid-19 resurgence.

But, how Covid has been handled IS a fair way to measure a politician or local government over the past two years of upheaval, so let’s set aside the political jockeying for some actual data and fact.

In March 2020 the City of West Hollywood declared a local emergency due to COVID-19. As public health directives and information related to COVID-19 evolved, the City of West Hollywood worked quickly to adapt and adjust its operations, its levels of service, and the delivery of key services to the community.

West Hollywood City Hall was never closed for operations. Rather, to protect health and safety of staff and community members, City Hall was shut to in-person transitions and the City activated virtual operations to conduct City business and emergency response plans safely and effectively.

After the State of California restrictions were lifted in Summer 2021 – and once it was deemed safe to do by decision-makers in the City of West Hollywood – the City reopened in-person services by appointment. In-person appointments were temporarily halted (but virtual services have continued) during the current steep Omicron case surge this month in January 2022; the City is scheduled to re-open City Hall to in-person services on January 31.

Approximately one year into the pandemic, the City published a COVID-19 Retrospective Report, which is more than 200 pages and which provides a comprehensive account of the cumulative actions taken by the City to respond to the COVID-19 crisis.

The efforts outlined in the report represent the City’s commitment to sustaining community health, preventing housing displacement, providing health outreach and education, prioritizing the safety, welfare, and quality of life of community members, and fostering community and economic resiliency. Here’s a link to the City’s COVID-19 Retrospective Report:

https://weho.granicus.com/MetaViewer.php?view_id=22&clip_id=3594&meta_id=199851

The City of West Hollywood remains in a strong financial position. During the pandemic, the City took the unprecedented action of adopting a one-year budget, which had not been done since the City moved to a two-year budget process in fiscal year 1996-97. The one-year budget provided staff with the opportunity to further evaluate the impacts of the rapidly changing crisis without projecting too far into the future.

The City did conduct a drawdown from General Fund reserves and the City balanced this with an array of cost-saving measures that provided relief to the City’s financial capacity ensuring no staff layoffs and allowing the allocation of emergency reserves to provide emergency services to community members in need of support.

The City’s revenue growth has been strong and projected FY22 revenues are similar to revenues received in FY17 and FY18. The City anticipates that revenues will improve over the next two years as the local and regional economies recover from pandemic-induced economic constraints. Over the longer term, revenues are expected to rebound as travel resumes, retail businesses re-establish, and public health restrictions ease. Here’s a link to the City’s financial forecast, which is part of the FY22 Operating Budget:

https://city-west-hollywood-ca-budget-book.cleargov.com/fy22-budget/2022/funding-sources/financial-forecast

Throughout the past two years, the City prioritized creating a strong and supportive environment for residents and businesses. Early in the pandemic, the City approved a Residential Eviction Moratorium (in March 2020) and a Commercial Eviction Moratorium (in April 2020).

The adoption and implementation of the City’s eviction moratoriums helped to protect public health and prevent transmission of COVID-19, and they were essential to avoid unnecessary displacement, to protect the City’s affordable housing stock, and to prevent housed individuals from falling into homelessness, especially given state and county directives to remain at home as much as possible at that time.

The City’s emergency rental assistance program has, throughout the pandemic, provided financial assistance to West Hollywood renters who are unable to pay rent due to issues related to COVID-19 (illness, loss of employment, reduction on working hours, caring for a household member with COVID-19, etc.). 

Renters can apply for assistance to cover 25% of their rent for one month up to $1,000, which will be paid directly to the management company/landlord. A maximum of five grants are available to those who qualify. Since March 2020, the City’s Social Services partners have received 2,224 emergency rental assistance requests and have approved 1,930 grants totaling $1,598,838.

In addition to providing emergency rental assistance, in July 2020 the City started an emergency eviction defense program. To date, 201 clients have applied for eviction defense and 140 cases were resolved.

The City’s business programs have supported West Hollywood businesses in recovery, reinvention, growth, and hiring during the pandemic.

In recognition of the City’s commitment to supporting businesses, the City was awarded the Los Angeles County Economic Development Corporation’s 2021 Most Business-Friendly City Award at the 26th annual Eddy Awards in November 2021.

The Most Business-Friendly City Award recognizes demonstrated outstanding contributions to economic development in the region in business, education, and government throughout LA County and this year’s award honors the community’s extraordinary resilience and collaborative efforts during the pandemic, in celebration of economic reinvention by creating more equity and inclusion.

Details: https://www.weho.org/Home/Components/News/News/10039/23

Finally, the City of West Hollywood continues to monitor the positivity rate of COVID-19 cases in the region, as reported by the Los Angeles County Department of Public Health. West Hollywood City Council meetings throughout 2020 and 2021 have been mostly conducted as virtual teleconference meetings in order to protect the health and safety of community members.

The City Council has established that when the COVID-19 positivity rate in LA County falls below an average of 1.5 percent, the City will consider options for in-person City Council meetings. When the positivity rate is above this threshold, meetings will take place via virtual teleconference.

The City’s viewership engagement in virtual teleconference City Council meetings is high: for City Council meetings held in October, November, and December, there are 3,259 combined City Council meetings views (YouTube 1,963; City website 1,118; and SmartTV streams 178). This does not count the community members who join City Council meetings via Zoom to view and participate in public comment.

Looking forward, the City of West Hollywood continues to balance its response to the COVID-19 pandemic – especially during current moments such as the steep Omicron surge – in delivering essential services, programs, and support to the West Hollywood community. I hope this information is helpful in providing a fuller picture of the work the City is doing each and every day to excel its deep commitment to residents, businesses, visitors, and the community at large.

Here are links to the City’s two latest ratings updates, which each represent the City’s extremely sound fiscal management policies:

In May 2020, Fitch Ratings and S&P Global Ratings affirmed the City of West Hollywood’s highest-possible ratings:

https://www.weho.org/Home/Components/News/News/9304/

In July 2021, S&P Global Ratings assigned an upgraded AA- Long-Term Rating to the Successor Agency for the West Hollywood Community Development Commission:

https://www.weho.org/Home/Components/News/News/9856/23

Some recent awards:

The aforementioned LAEDC 2021 Most Business-Friendly City Award (which was featured in the Blade):

In 2019, the City was honored with the prestigious National Civic League All-America City Award, recognizing the work of communities in using inclusive civic engagement to address critical issues and create stronger connections among residents, businesses, and nonprofit and government leaders.

https://www.weho.org/Home/Components/News/News/8644/

This joined a variety of 2019 awards: https://www.weho.org/Home/Components/News/News/9012/

In 2020, the City’s sustainability leadership at the local, regional, and national level was recognized with three prestigious awards:

https://www.weho.org/Home/Components/News/News/9424/23

In 2021, the City’s funding study work for the future Northern Extension of the Metro Crenshaw/LAX Rail Line won an International Infrastructure ‘Finance Project of the Year’ award:

https://www.weho.org/Home/Components/News/News/10041/23

Most recently, the City was recognized by 3CMA and by PRSA-LA for its outreach and engagement efforts related to relief and resources during the COVID-19 pandemic:

https://www.weho.org/city-government/communications/awards-and-accomplishments

Enough said.

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Troy Masters is the owner & publisher of the Los Angeles Blade.

Masters has been involved in LGBTQ+ media since the late 1980’s and has founded five publications in addition to the Blade.

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Alana Chen’s suicide shows Canada did not outlaw Christianity

For as long as LGBTQ young people keep suffering and dying, laws against Christian conversion therapy will be critically needed

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Joyce Calvo (L) and her daughter Alana Chen, who killed herself following years of conversion therapy. (Screenshot: KMGH-TV ABC7 Denver )

Editor’s Note: Frank discussion of LGBTQ mental health crises and suicide follow. If you’re a young person in crisis, please reach out to Trevor Project, where trained counselors are waiting to help you around the clock. Or call the National Suicide Prevention LGBTQ Lifeline.

By James Finn | DETROIT – Canada just outlawed conversion “therapy,” making it a crime to “provide or promote services intended to change or repress a person’s sexual orientation or gender expression.”

The law is probably the toughest on the globe, much tougher than any state ban in the U.S. It leaves little wiggle room for religious exemptions, and many Christians are furious. Thousands of pastors across Canada and the U.S. spoke from pulpits last Sunday in a coordinated condemnation of Canada’s new law.

Canada outlawed Christianity and nobody noticed,” screams the headline of a popular podcast on iHeartRadio . . . As if engaging in counseling and pastoral practices guaranteed to produce severe mental health crises and suicide are a necessary or desired part of Christianity.

Let’s talk about Alana Chen, a young woman dead by suicide

I’ve followed Alana’s tragic story since her death in Colorado in 2019, but her family made headlines again last week as Christian leaders lined up to condemn Canada’s conversion therapy ban. Alana’s mother, Joyce Calvo, just shared portions of her daughter’s journal in a wrenching column for the National Catholic Reporter as she works to shed light on the tragedy, point out that similar tragedies are unfolding right now, and urge Catholic Church leaders to leave LGBTQ adolescents alone.

Joyce makes several important points:

  1. Contrary to popular belief, Catholic dioceses in the U.S. often promote conversion therapy and even sponsor conversion therapy organizations like Desert Streams Ministries. She writes, “My goal for this essay is twofold. I hope it will alert Catholic parents to beware the devastating impact the church can have on their LGBTQ+ children. And I hope it will persuade people speaking for the church to abandon their misguided and dangerous attempts to alter what God has made.”
  2. Nuns and priests encouraged Alana for years to use conversion therapy techniques to suppress or eliminate her attraction to other teenage girls. These nuns and priests met with and counseled Alana in secret, subjecting Alana to what her mother calls, “rules and regulations, spiritual/mental abuse … shaming and degrading her.”
  3. Nuns and priests urged Alana to hide the counseling from her parents. When Alana was 14 and first admitted to a priest that she believed she was a lesbian, he urged her not to tell her parents because he was afraid they would affirm her. Instead, he counseled her for years to confess and suppress or eliminate her attractions.
  4. Nuns and priests continued to urge Alana to suppress or eliminate her attraction to women after she was hospitalized over plans to kill herself in church. Alana told her sister then that she felt “defiled” and “impure,” terms she learned in her pastoral counseling, during which she was instructed to confess any particular incidents of attraction to women before receiving the sacrament of communion.
  5. Nuns and priests referred Alana to conversion therapy programs like Desert Streams and to a licensed psychologist who specialized in conversion therapy.
  6. The Catholic Church in Colorado continues to promote and practice conversion therapy for adolescents, in spite of a state law banning it. They deny their efforts to change/eliminate “unwanted same-sex attraction” amount to conversion therapy and they claim pastoral counseling is not subject to the law.

Of course pastoral counseling is conversion therapy

Desert Streams Ministries, whose staff provide training to Protestant and Catholic clergy and lay people across North America, say they, “help Christians suppress or extinguish sexual/romantic attraction to people of the same sex.” That is the definition of conversion therapy, and the results are as tragic as they are predictable.

As Alana’s private journal reveals, the counseling she received, to extinguish her same-sex attraction or suppress it to the point she no longer noticed it, is the definition of conversion therapy. The fact that she received the toxic counseling from nuns and priests doesn’t make her any less dead.

This old, toxic story just won’t go away

For decades, ever since we LGBTQ people started standing up and telling the world we no longer consent to being silenced, shamed, suppressed or oppressed, Christian organizations have insisted we’re “choosing” our attractions, have insisted we can un-choose them through counseling, prayer and faith practices.

For decades, the Christian organizations making these claims have collapsed, closed up shop, and even apologized for misleading people. The only verifiable outcomes of services organizations like Desert Streams offer are severe mental health problems and a high suicide rate.

Alana Chen is not the exception, she’s the rule.

The harder LGBTQ people sincerely try to eliminate “unwanted same-sex attraction,” the more likely they are to try to end their lives. Data show that teens forced into conversion therapy are actually more likely to emerge mentally healthy than teens who enter programs because they want to. Neither subset of teens emerges with any change in how they experience sexual attraction.

Conversion therapy is like snake handling

When I was a kid in rural Alabama, my Baptist preacher dad met a family who attended a fringe Pentecostal church where people didn’t just “speak in tongues” and engage in “faith healing,” they brought live rattlesnakes to church and passed them around in a show of faith.

Dad took me to visit one of the families, who for Christian reasons refused to allow their kids to be treated with antibiotics or blood transfusions. They believed if people got sick, they should have enough faith to pray for healing, and if they didn’t heal, then their death must be God’s will.

Dad’s voice shook with emotion on the ride back home. He told me, “If any of those kids die, from a snake bite or because they got sick and their parents wouldn’t take them to the doctor, watch me do everything in my power to see the parents put in prison. You don’t hurt kids. You just don’t.”

Generally, in the U.S., the law has come to mostly agree with Dad. Christian faith does not excuse putting kids at risk. If you take your kid to a snake-handling service and they get bit, you’re in big trouble and your faith won’t legally extricate you. Ditto if you deny medical treatment to your child on Christian grounds, like the Pennsylvania parents whose two-year-old died in 2018 of an easily treatable bacterial pneumonia.

Hurting people on Christian grounds doesn’t make the hurt acceptable

We have enough data to be certain the kind of conversion therapy nuns and priests subjected Alana Chen to is as dangerous as snake handling, with outcomes as predictable as withholding antibiotics from a sick toddler.

That’s why Canada’s federal government passed a criminal ban on conversion therapy ban so tight some Christian pastors are afraid it will criminalize pastoral counseling.

News flash: it’s supposed to.

Pastor James Coates, a Canadian pastor jailed last year for refusing to comply with covid-19 public health guidelines, told Fox News that the Canadian ban is “anything but loving,” claiming it will “shut the LGBT community off from the saving and transforming message of the gospel of Jesus Christ.”

Coates doesn’t get it. Like thousands of other Christian pastors last week, he apparently refuses to look at data that shows Jesus’s transforming message has zero track record of changing sexual orientation or gender identity. It’s almost like Jesus is telling people they don’t understand his message. Coates could open up his eyes and see if he chose to. So could the nuns and priests in Colorado who falsely insist they can help teens like Alana Chen stop being gay.

For as long as LGBTQ young people keep suffering and dying, laws against Christian conversion therapy will be critically needed. But that doesn’t mean Christianity has been outlawed, just like laws criminalizing Christians for withholding medical care from their children do not outlaw Christianity.

As a matter of fact, contrary to Coates’s assertion, the U.S. and Canada are bursting with Christian churches that share Jesus’s love without condemning LGBTQ people, without falsely claiming that faith can change or suppress same-sex attraction. Want to find a church like that? Check out Church Clarity, a crowd-sourced database of thousands of LGBTQ-affirming Christian congregations: https://www.churchclarity.org/

Christian practices that cause severe mental health crises and death deserve no respect or protection at law. You don’t hurt kids. You just don’t.

Christian conversion therapy is as dangerous as snake handling. Pass it on.

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James Finn is a former Air Force intelligence analyst, long-time LGBTQ activist, an alumnus of Queer Nation and Act Up NY, a frequent columnist for the LA Blade, a contributor to other LGBTQ news outlets, and an “agented” but unpublished novelist. Send questions, comments, and story ideas to [email protected]

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The preceding article was previously published by Prism & Pen– Amplifying LGBTQ voices through the art of storytelling and is republished by permission.

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