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Indian Royal Amar Singh on a mission for equality



Actress Marlo Thomas tells this story about a trucker and a feminist sitting next to each other in a bar, getting drunk and arguing over women’s oppression, equal pay and whether a woman should be president. They agree on nothing. But one thing they have in common—they both are men.  The feminist, Thomas says, is “a guy who gets it.”

The story is instructive when thinking about Amar Singh, the 28-year old straight Harvard graduate Indian royal, born and raised in Britain, who is passionate about art, investments, targeted philanthropy—and aggressively but smartly championing women and LGBT rights. Without intention, Singh encapsulates the charismatic concern of presidential candidate Robert F. Kennedy during his trips to long-neglected Harlem—that family sense of noblesse oblige tossed to the wind as RFK humbly grasps the outstretched hand of a poor black woman desperate for someone to do something, not just pontificate on the hell of poverty.

Singh gets that, too. “There are three tiers of suppression: female, LGBT, and caste—which is actually meant to be illegal but prevails very heavily in India,” Singh, a member of the Kapurthala Royal Family, told The Los Angeles Blade recently over tea at SoHo House in West Hollywood. No matter one’s talent, education, or aspiration, the caste system dictates work and social relationships.  It perpetuates the notion of the “untouchables” common during colonial imperialism.

Singh wants to change that—along with the oppressive state of women and LGBT rights. And here’s where Thomas’ story is again instructive: he’s working to change the culture—and with it, the political landscape—through one-on-one conversations.

(Photo courtesy Amar Singh)

For the past several years, the art collector and dealer has simultaneously created his boutique Amar Gallery  in London and funded a clandestine campaign in India to educate and change people’s minds. He says he’s building “an army of love.”

“My grassroots group in India helps spread a message of peace in support of LGBT and women’s rights because the reality is the majority of the country is being suppressed,” Singh says. “A population of 1.1 billion and the majority of the country is suppressed. Now imagine if they were championed. We could have one of the greatest forces on earth. We certainly have the resources but when you have 800-900 million people who are downtrodden—how can we progress?”

Singh says he hasn’t yet spoken with Prime Minister Narendra Modi about women’s and LGBT rights—but he would like to. Modi assumed power in 2014, shortly after India’s Supreme Court reinstated the repealed British colonial anti-gay law, Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code, that forbids “carnal intercourse against the order of nature” with punishment up to 10 years in jail.

There was cause for optimism at the prospect of the law being overturned during the recent pride parade in New Delhi, VOA News reported Nov. 18, after word spread that the court may review the ruling.

“Five out of the nine judges, it was a nine judge bench, actually questioned the validity of 377. To me that is amazing. I feel a little easier after the privacy judgment,” Anjali Gopalan, founder of the Naz Foundation, told VOA, adding that the gay community felt “abandoned” in 2013 when the law was reinstated.

Singh, normally a very optimistic guy, is only cautiously optimistic. “I hope the prospect of abolishing the 377 penal code is not another false alarm,” he says. “I hope the drums of India’s pride parade beat louder and faster until the voices of hate are drowned out.”

He is very confident, however, in “the power of conversation.” As a parallel example of his initiative, he refers to the PBS documentary Accidental Courtesy,” the story of blues musician Daryl Davis’ journey to convert KKK members from racism to at least friendship with a black man.

(Photo: Screen grab from “Accidental Courtesy”)

“Daryl Davis is an inspiration because he befriends over 200 members of the Ku Klux Klan,” says Singh. “He actually, through conversation and education, asks the question: ‘how can you hate me when you don’t even know me?’ And they transform and realize their ideals were wrong because their ideals encroached upon human rights. And these former Klan members are better people for that.” Davis, he says, “did it so masterfully, I think I could learn a lot from his example.”

But unlike Davis who can put his journey on television, Singh says his grassroots movement “is secretive because if people knew the individuals championing and spreading the message of peace and LGBT rights, their lives would be in danger. It’s as simple as that.”

And yet, they speak to thousands of people a year, sometimes at rallies, sometimes door-to-door, sometimes in their shacks.

“Education is the key,” Singh says. “You have to educated people that it’s OK to be gay, to support people who are part of the LGBT community, and to reason with those who are against it within, hopefully, safe parameters.”

“I’m a passionate individual who truly despises that there are human rights atrocities which are carried on a daily basis,” he says. “I’ve lost my cool in the past when meeting individuals who’ve said to me—and there have been many—‘gay people deserve to die.’ ‘Gay people must be locked up.’ SINGLE QUOTE MARKS Same thing for women. And I’ve realized over the years, since I was a teenager and certainly a little bit more overzealous, that we have to get to a neutral point to help each other progress.”

Amar Singh in his gallery. Photo courtesy Amar Singh)

People in India, while intensely patriotic, sometimes need to be reminded of their exquisite history, religious texts and contribution to humanity—and the fact that India was one of the first countries in the last century to elect a female as Prime Minister—Indira Gandhi, Jan. 19, 1966  and elect a non-national as head of a political party,’ he notes. In 2015, India also elected Madhu Bai Kinnar, a trans woman from the lowly Dalit caste, as mayor of Raigarh, in the state of Chhattisgarh.

Since Singh is funding the initiative “proudly out of my own pocket,” he has determined to be careful and strategic in his philanthropy while still fueling his passion for equal rights.

“In the past, I’ve raised and donated a lot of money to organizations in India—but truthfully, most of the money never got to where it needed and I was just fed up. I was sick of burning money,” he says. “And I reassessed the situation and thought how can I really make an impact? How can I effect change in a positive way, which is going to help people’s lives?”

Prince Manvendra Singh Gohil (Photo screen grab of Karen Ocamb’s May 2014 interview for Frontiers )

Yes, there are good charitable organizations such as his gay friend Prince Manvendra Singh Gohil’s Lakshya Trust  that helps people with HIV/AIDS. “But now, I don’t answer to anybody. I answer to myself and it’s all my own money and it gets to people who need it,” he says.

David Foster, Veronic Berti-Bocell and Andrea Bocelli with Amar Singh. (Courtesy Amar Singh)

Additionally, once every three years, he picks a charity he can back. This year it is the Andrea Bocelli Foundation for whom he is an advisor and ambassador. “The reason I chose it is because it focuses on Haiti,” he says, “and the money raised goes to the people who need it.”

Singh got the idea for his grassroots movement in 2008-2009 when he was speaking around the country in support of LGBT rights and movement leader Prince Manvendra Singh Gohil.

“I was getting contacted by people through Facebook, email, in person, mostly, saying, ‘we live in fear. We live in fear of our parents, even.’ That was the thing that always got me – that there are so many parents that just wouldn’t be accepting. Singh And then I would meet people on the other side who would say what I’m doing is ‘disgusting and filthy supporting LGBT rights. It’s not right,’” Singh says.

That’s when he began to examine the impact of his philanthropy and re-think how he could serve both “the person who needs a shoulder to cry on, the person who lives in fear of their own parents—and the parent who says it’s disgusting, who is willing to maybe even kill his or her own child. That’s education—that’s grassroots and that has to be done carefully.”

So he hired gays and allies to go town to town to find people who “might just be willing to have a conversation, maybe even a debate in a low-profile setting” over women’s and LGBT rights.

Singh credits his family for instilling in him his drive for justice and equality. “I’ve been raised by a family who has been dedicated to improving India and human rights,” he says.  “My grandmother was a women’s right’s activist and she came to England with my father. Born in 1920, she died this year. “She was a princess and she championed the everyday person. She was also an educator.” And she saw first hand the horror of civil war, having been in Lahore, Punjab after India got its independence and divided into India and Pakistan.

“She was right there, at the center when the bloodshed was taking place,” he says. “She lived with us in our family home in England, so I was raised by her. And by my mother, who was an inspirational and strong female figure who always believed that there is no difference between male or female.”

Because she wasn’t from a royal family, Singh says, his parents endured some opposition to the marriage. “So you begin to see that even within my nuclear family—there’s a strong sense of human rights, equal rights and justice to serve people,” he says. “So growing up in that environment from day one, I was liberal and I believed that as long as no one was getting physically or emotionally hurt – they should do whatever they want – gay, straight or otherwise—and everyone should have equal opportunities.”

Mrs. Vijay Thakur Singh, Ambassador of the Republic of India, in Ireland, presented her credentials on Dec. 13, 2016 to Mr. Michael D. Higgins. (Photo courtesy Embassy of India)

Singh’s father’s brother, Kanwar Vishvjit Prithvijit Singh, “a chief minister and a great politician in India who was also dedicate to ameliorating the country,” passed away on Aug. 6, 2017.  His wife, Vijay Thakur Singh, is the current Ambassador from India to Ireland.

Singh, who has been an art dealer for eight years, celebrates his heritage and the diversity of artists—explicitly promoting women and LGBT artists—in his gallery, which opened in London January 2017.

But he is also intensely cognizant of the “fervid” patriotism in India and the wonders of that country.

Gandhi  was a patriot. So was Nehru.  We reclaimed our country back [from the British] through patriotism. Unfortunately, the country was divided,” he says. “I view people in Pakistan as my brothers and sisters. But it is a shame that the country was divided—and that was an act that [British Prime Minister Winston] Churchill was instrumental in and led to the blood shed of millions of people.”

While history portrays Winston Churchill as perhaps the greatest leader against the Nazis in World War II, there is a darker side that history tends to ignore.

“Talking about the Bengal famine in 1943, the Prime Minister who led Britain to victory in World War Two, said: ‘I hate Indians. They are a beastly people with a beastly religion. The famine was their own fault for breeding like rabbits,’” wrote the Independent UK.

That famine, caused by British imperialism, caused up to 3 millions deaths from starvation.

For Singh, it’s not just history, it’s personal—the partition of India and Pakistan in 1947 that resulted in between 12 and 15 million Hindus, Sikhs and Muslims being murdered  is like an ancestral scar. “Sikhs mostly remained in Punjab and I’m a Singh, which is of Sikh heritage. And they are the ones who were really butchered because they were traveling back to parts of the country which was being divided. And they were being killed on trains—these are stories that are throughout history,” he says. “It’s a great shame a whole country was divided based on religious conflict.”

This December 22 a new movie about the “darker side” of Winston Churchill is coming out. But it is unlikely to show the racism that kept him from being the first choice for Prime Minister.  That was left to the others during the commemoration of the 50th anniversary of his death in 2015.

“On the subject of India,” said the British Secretary of State to India:   “Winston is not quite sane… I didn’t see much difference between his outlook and Hitler’s.”

When Mahatma Gandhi launched his campaign of peaceful resistance against British rule in India, Churchill raged that Gandhi: “ought to be lain bound hand and foot at the gates of Delhi, and then trampled on by an enormous elephant with the new Viceroy seated on its back. Gandhi-ism and everything it stands for will have to be grappled with and crushed.”

In 1931, Churchill sneered: “It is alarming and also nauseating to see Mr. Gandhi, a seditious Middle Temple lawyer of the type well-known in the East, now posing as a fakir, striding half naked up the steps of the Viceregal palace to parley on equal terms with the representative of the King-Emperor.”

Even a person of immense privilege can feel the sting of racism and otherness. For Singh, that awareness has lead to passionate empathy and the calling to seek justice.

Singh says he grew up around gay people—his family’s friends and well, “it’s just England. It was normal to me. Two men, two women—very normal to me.”

So it hurts him when he receives messages from young gays who are suicidal because of rejection from their parents. He has helped these young people “realize it is OK to love whomever you want to love. These people are so abused that they don’t even realize they can love. And that is powerful to me. I have to work smart. So at this point it’s about building my resources through art, through investments to get a full army of love – thousands of soldier supporting and championing these individuals. That’s my goal.”

Singh is angry with politicians who try to legislate anti-gay laws, especially with so many other issues to deal with, such as possible nuclear war with North Korea and climate change.  “Why is it that millions of people around the world in positions of authority are dedicating their time to anti-LGBT legislation?” he asks. “What is the world without love?”

Therefore, Singh says in an almost hushed voice, he hasn’t ruled out running for office himself.

“I’m not ruling out my own political involvement,” he says. “And it might not even be in India. It might be in my country of birth—it might be in England. Impact.”

Then the spark catches fire. “There’s just a lot of nonsense I see in political spheres in England and India,” Singh says. “There are politicians who are not fulfilling their pledge as a public servant. They’re self-serving.

“I believe in unity. I’m shocked at the far right in England and the state of affairs. I live in Shoreditch and I’m not proud to admit this—but I live in fear. In the last three months, 12 brown men have been attacked with acid by ignorant people in the far right who are attacking people they believe to be Muslim. Those attacks have happened in a one-mile radius from my apartment. India has acid attacks but it’s happening now in England. And it was just released last week that 50% of police stations in London are being shut down because they’re underfunded.

“Somebody needs to rise up and say ‘Enough of this nonsense! There’s all this talk. We need action! We need to actually have a system in place that helps those who need it. We need a system to champion every person working across the UK so they can understand how to save for their futures,” Singh says, as if developing  a campaign out of his pure passion. “And racism is on the rise. I haven’t ruled it out.”

If he ran, it would be a “real people’s campaign—one where I mean it when I say I’ll be a public servant. I consider myself a public servant now. I think anybody who’s been born into privilege should be,” Singh says. “But with politics, you can at least stand up legally for the people. And maybe even come face to face with those other legislators who are trying to oppose LGBT rights. It’s not just India. We have a big fight to overcome.”

Singh ended the enlightening conversation without coming out as a feminist. But he sure could pass as one.

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Newsom signs bill making Vote-by-Mail permanent for registered voters

“The bill will permanently expand access & increase participation in our elections by making voting more convenient”



Governor Gavin Newsom (Blade file photo)

SACRAMENTO – Governor Gavin Newsom signed a package of legislation on Monday to increase voter access and strengthen integrity in elections, including a bill to send all registered voters a vote-by-mail ballot. 

In a move to increase access to democracy and enfranchise more voters, the Governor signed AB 37 authored by Assemblymember Marc Berman (D-Menlo Park), permanently requiring a vote-by-mail ballot be mailed to every active registered voter in the state.

The practice of sending vote-by-mail ballots to every registered voter first began in California in 2020, and was extended through 2021, as a safety measure to counteract pandemic-related disruptions and resulted in record voter participation.

“As states across our country continue to enact undemocratic voter suppression laws, California is increasing voter access, expanding voting options and bolstering elections integrity and transparency,” said Newsom. “Last year we took unprecedented steps to ensure all voters had the opportunity to cast a ballot during the pandemic and today we are making those measures permanent after record-breaking participation in the 2020 presidential election. I extend my thanks to Assembly Elections Committee Chair Assemblymember Marc Berman for his leadership on this issue.”

“The bill will permanently expand access and increase participation in our elections by making voting more convenient and meeting people where they are,” said California’s Secretary of State Dr. Shirley Weber. “Vote-by-mail has significantly increased participation of eligible voters. Voters like having options for returning their ballot whether by mail, at a secure drop box, a voting center or at a traditional polling station. And the more people who participate in elections, the stronger our democracy and the more we have assurance that elections reflect the will of the people of California.”

“When voters get a ballot in the mail, they vote,” said Assemblymember Berman. “We saw this in the 2020 General Election when, in the middle of a global health pandemic, we had the highest voter turnout in California since Harry Truman was president. I want to thank Governor Newsom for signing AB 37, ensuring that every active registered voter in California will receive a ballot in the mail before every future election. As other states actively look for ways to make it harder for people to vote, California is expanding access to an already safe and secure ballot.”

Newsom also signed SB 35 authored by Senator Tom Umberg (D-Santa Ana) making changes to the distance within which electioneering and specified political activities near a voting site are prohibited; AB 1367 by Assemblymember Evan Low (D-Campbell) increasing penalties for the egregious personal use of campaign funds to up to two times the amount of the unlawful expenditure; and SB 686 by Senator Steve Glazer (D-Contra Costa) requiring a limited liability company (LLC) that is engaged in campaign activity to provide additional information regarding the members and capital contributors to the LLC.

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Southern-Central Asia

Columbia University researcher helps evacuate LGBTQ people from Afghanistan

Taylor Hirschberg working with Belgian lawmaker



Taylor Hirschberg (Photo courtesy of Taylor Hirschberg)

NEW YORK — Some of the 50 human rights activists that a Columbia University researcher has helped evacuate from Afghanistan since the Taliban regained control of the country are LGBTQ.

A press release the Los Angeles Blade received notes Taylor Hirschberg — a researcher at the Columbia Mailman School of Public Health who is also a Hearst Foundation scholar — has worked with Belgian Sen. Orry Vandewauwer to help 50 Afghan “activists leave the country.”

“The refugees included those who identify as LGBTQI+ or gender non-conforming and their families,” notes the press release.

The Blade has seen the list of names of the more than 100 people that Hirschberg and Vandewauwer are trying to evacuate from Afghanistan. These include the country’s first female police officer, the independent U.N. expert on Afghanistan and a number of LGBTQ activists.

“There are many more human rights advocates we are still trying to get out of the country,” said Hirschberg.

Hirschberg has previously worked in Afghanistan.

He and Vandewauwer were also once affiliated with Skateistan, an NGO that works with children in the Middle East and Africa. The documentary “Learning to Skateboard in a Warzone” features it.

Two men in Kabul, Afghanistan, in July 2021 (Photo courtesy of Dr. Ahmad Qais Munzahim)

The Taliban entered Kabul, the Afghan capital on Aug. 15 and toppled then-President Ashraf Ghani’s government.

A Taliban judge over the summer said the group would once again execute gay men if it were to return to power in Afghanistan.

The U.S. evacuated more than 100,000 people from the country before American troops completed their withdrawal from the country on Aug. 30. It remains unclear whether the U.S. was able to successfully evacuate LGBTQ Afghans from Kabul International Airport, but Immigration Equality earlier this month said it spoke “directly” with 50 LGBTQ Afghans before the U.S. withdrawal ended.

Secretary of State Antony Blinken on Sept. 13 during a House Foreign Affairs Committee hearing expressed concern over the fate of LGBTQ Afghans who remain in the country.

The Human Rights Campaign; Immigration Equality; the Council for Global Equality; Rainbow Railroad; the International Refugee Assistance Project and the Organization for Refuge, Asylum and Migration have called upon the Biden administration to develop a 10-point plan to protect LGBTQ Afghans that includes prioritizing “the evacuation and resettlement of vulnerable refugee populations, including LGBTQI people.” Canada is thus far the only country that has specifically said it would offer refuge to LGBTQ Afghans.

Hirschberg on Monday told the Blade that he and Vandewauwer have charted an airplane to evacuate Afghans, but they have not secured a “third country” to which they can bring them.

“Currently, we are working towards a multi-country collaboration for resettlement,” he said. “Our work has now expanded to include election officials and women activists, including those from the LGBTQI+ community.”

Hirschberg also urged the U.S. and humanitarian organizations to do more to help evacuate LGBTQ people, human rights activists and others from Afghanistan 

“I understand that this is complicated and that I do not have all the working pieces but why does the United States ignore those who helped in building their agenda in Afghanistan. The same goes for multilateral organizations,” he told the Blade. “Why are neither funding charters and creating agreement with partnering states? If they are why have the not contacted the countries that we are creating collaborations with?” 

Editor’s note: Hirschberg is a Blade contributor.

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California Politics

It’s official- Rep. Karen Bass enters race to become the next mayor of LA

If elected she would be the first Black woman & second Black mayor after legendary Tom Bradley who served as 38th Mayor from 1973 to 1993



Rep. Karen Bass (D-37CA) (Photo Credit: Bass campaign provided0

LOS ANGELES – Congresswoman Karen Bass officially announced her entrance Monday as a candidate to replace her fellow Democrat outgoing Los Angeles Mayor Eric Garcetti.

“Our city is facing a public health, safety and economic crisis in homelessness that has evolved into a humanitarian emergency,” she said in a statement announcing her candidacy. “Los Angeles is my home. With my whole heart, I’m ready. Let’s do this — together.”

If Bass were to win election she would be the first Black woman mayor and the second Black mayor after Thomas Bradley, the legendary politician and former police officer who served as the 38th Mayor of Los Angeles from 1973 to 1993.

KABC 7 noted that she would be the first sitting House member to be elected mayor of Los Angeles since 1953, when Rep. Norris Poulson was elected. Then-Reps. James Roosevelt, Alphonzo Bell and Xavier Becerra lost campaigns for mayor in 1965, 1969 and 2001.

The 67-year-old member of Congress currently represents the 37th Congressional District, which encompasses Los Angeles neighborhoods west and southwest of downtown including Crenshaw, Baldwin Hills, Miracle Mile, Pico-Robertson, Century City, Cheviot Hills, West Los Angeles, Mar Vista and parts of Westwood, as well as Culver City and Inglewood. Bass was a member of the California Assembly from 2004-10, serving as that body’s speaker from 2008 to 2010.

Bass is entering an already crowded field of candidates including Los Angeles City Attorney Mike Feuer and two members of the City Council – Kevin de León and Joe Buscaino – who have already announced their campaigns for mayor.

When speculation as to her running surfaced last week, Bass spokesman Zach Seidl told the Los Angeles Times that her running was due to the fact that “Los Angeles is facing a humanitarian crisis in homelessness and a public health crisis in the disproportionate impact this pandemic has had on Angelenos,” Seidl said in a statement. “She does not want to see these two issues tear the city apart. Los Angeles has to come together. That’s why the Congresswoman is considering a run for mayor,” he added.

That seems to be the focal point and whoever is elected will face the city’s massive homelessness crisis.

Bass acknowledged this in her candidacy announcement statement this morning, writing “I’ve spent my entire life bringing groups of people together in coalitions to solve complex problems and produce concrete change — especially in times of crisis.”

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