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Underage gender identity is a family matter in “A Kid Like Jake”



When Daniel Pearle’s “A Kid Like Jake” was first performed in 2013, the world was a very different place.

Early in the second term of the Obama administration, the play – about two young Brooklyn parents grappling with the possibility that their 4-year-old son’s fondness for playing dress-up might be an early attempt at alternative gender expression – was met by a progressive and open-minded cultural climate that was ready and willing to welcome it into the growing public conversation about gender identity.

Nevertheless, six years after its initial debut, as Pearle’s re-tooled version is poised to make its West Coast premiere in an IAMA Theatre Company guest production at the Pasadena Playhouse, it’s no longer safe to assume the show will be welcomed with open arms.

That’s not because understanding about gender dysphoria has evolved, although it certainly has; the playwright himself has commented that when he first wrote the script, “it was before ‘Transparent,’ before Caitlyn Jenner and Laverne Cox, before ‘gender expansiveness’ was part of our cultural lexicon.” The changing landscape around the subject, however, was always part of the dynamic that made the play tick, and the rewrites undertaken by Pearle after his work on the film version (which debuted at Sundance in 2018 and went on to a limited theatrical run) presumably bring the conversation up to date for a new production.

What makes its reception an uncertain proposition is the shift that in the culture since 2016, the regressive backlash from conservatives that has reminded us that the struggle for LGBTQ acceptance – especially with regard to trans and other gender non-conforming individuals – is a long way from being over.

Discussion about the issue becomes particularly virulent when it relates, as it does in Pearle’s play, to someone who is underage.

Consider, for example, the case of Desmond Napoles, better known as “Desmond Is Amazing,” the now-11-year-old drag performer who has been in the public eye since an appearance at 6 in a Jinkx Monsoon music video. Identifying as gay and genderfluid, Desmond has gone beyond the fame of his popular Instagram presence and his public performances to become a widely recognized advocate and spokesperson for LGBTQ issues. Yet he has also been met with criticism from social conservatives, who claim that his supportive parents are “sexualizing and exploiting” a minor. Social media is rife with other such cases, where online bullying and even death threats are a daily occurrence, arising from the kind of outdated thinking that conflates gender identity with sexuality, and being queer with pedophilia.

With that kind of heated tempest as part of the social backdrop, it’s easy to imagine that “A Kid Like Jake,” might be returning into a political firestorm of its own. Yet according to director Jennifer Chambers, speaking to the Blade in advance of the show’s October 3 opening, it’s a play that slips past the political to focus on the personal.

“The play is about Jake, but it’s also not,” she explains. “We never see Jake, at all. He’s talked about, but he never appears onstage as an actual character. It’s about his parents, and how they work out where they are with their son.”

She elaborates. “They are considering getting him into special programs for kindergarten, and as they’re going through the school application process, things start being revealed about who he is, or who he might be. It becomes a discovery about gender identity, and how as parents… when you think things are one way, and your child is finding their own self and their own voice… how as parents, you navigate that. And then when that hits upon your old belief systems, your old ways of thinking, how that affects your relationship with your son, and your marriage, and how you navigate through that.”

Reflecting on how the play handles the situation, Chambers adds, “I think these parents really begin from a place of ‘we’re doing absolutely the best things for our son, we know what’s best for our kid and we’re making exactly the right decisions for him’ – and then as things progress, as things get to revealed, that gets called into question. There are the older blind spots, and biases – fears, really – about who your kid is, or might be, and about how because of it he… or she or they… is not safe. You want to protect your kid, but you also need to allow my kid to be who they are. It’s really all about the parents’ journey, and how they open up and fall apart and get put back together inside of that conversation.”

As for many of the hot button-issues surrounding young people who grapple with their gender identity – the prejudice, the bullying, the sexualization – the director says the play doesn’t really go there. “We do touch on a few of those boundaries, of where, inside of our biases, we might go; Alex, the mom, out of her own fear, out of her sense of feeling the ground being pulled out from under her feet – there’s a time when she says things that, if she were thinking and were not fueled by that fear, she would absolutely never say. It touches into that – but otherwise no, it’s very much contained inside the family, and inside of the process of just applying to kindergarten.”

By keeping the focus squarely on the people directly involved in the process of discovery depicted in the play, “Jake” keeps the situation free from the complications imposed by a larger world, allowing its characters to explore the limits of their own boundaries – a process that is complicated enough on its own. It’s this breaking down of what has become a public issue into the private, the setting of the conflict in an intimate arena instead of a social one, that made Chambers – who is herself the mother of two children, seven and nine – want to jump at the chance to direct this new production.

“More than anything I really love Daniel’s writing,” she says, “I love his rhythms, I love his humor. But also, I’m a parent, myself, and my kids are growing. It’s a process – how you support your kids, when they’re your babies and they’re so much a part of who you are, and then they grow and they differentiate. It’s brutal, and it’s beautiful, and it’s heartbreaking – and I don’t think there’s an easy way to navigate it, as they become their own self. The essence of that is what hooked me into this and what keeps pushing me. It’s so simple and so complicated at the same time, which is what is so exciting to me.”

Given the involvement of a director with such a deeply-felt personal connection to the material, working with a talented cast that includes Sharon Lawrence, Olivia Liang, Tim Peper, Sarah Utterback, “A Kid Like Jake,” is likely to carry much of that excitement to L.A. audiences as it continues its Pasadena Playhouse run through November 3.

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Jinkx & DeLa’s latest holiday show has laughs, heart, & guts

“Add supernatural elements plucked from A Christmas Carol, and you’ve got more than enough pop culture references to hang the plot on”



Mr. Babygirl, Shane Donohue, Jinkx Monsoon, Chloe Albin, Elby Brosch, BenDeLaCreme, and Ruby Mimosa. (Photo by Curtis Brown)

NEW YORK – Marking the fourth holiday-themed touring production from Jinkx Monsoon and BenDeLaCreme, The Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Show could do no wrong with the LGBTQ+-heavy crowd, at the first of two sold-out December 2/3 gigs at NYC’s storied Town Hall.

That the show landed at a venue known for hosting progressive organizations and artists such as the ACLU and Bob Dylan was a fitting choice. Although they came to play, not fight, the headliners would cap their wonderfully silly and unabashedly sexual performance with a forceful rebuke of homophobic violence and call for corrective measures powered not by righteous anger, but by radical love.

But enough about the last ten minutes. You came to read about a show by two you know from RuPaul’s Drag Race who’ve used that platform as both springboard and calling card—and that is what you shall get. 

Written by and starring Jinkx Monsoon and BenDeLaCreme, The Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Show takes its rightful place in the ever-expanding canonical universe Big Banged into existence beginning with 2018’s To Jesus, Thanks for Everything and followed by All I Want for Christmas is Attention (2019), The Return of the Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Show, LIVE! (2021), and The Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Special—a one-hour, made-for-TV program that first ran on HULU in 2020 and became an instant classic, with all the line-quoting, repeat viewing appeal of Rankin/Bass at their batshit crazy best. It’s highly recommended at least once a year (handily beating a Hallmark movie for Christmas in July celebrants).

Fans of past Jinkx/DeLa stage shows who crave more of the same while hungering for something new will go home from 2022’s installment feeling as if they’ve eaten the same slice of cake inexplicably cradled in the palm of their hand. In other words, this show takes up residence right along the border separating seen-it-before from ain’t-seen-nothin’-yet. Familiarity shows itself exactly as it should—in the bickering and bonding between two wildly contrasting personality types locked in an eternal struggle to convince the other one they’re going about things the all wrong.

BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon. (Photo by Curtis Brown)

As self-appointed Activities Director of whatever happens to be happening at any given moment, Connecticut-raised BenDeLaCreme is the embodiment of a starchy but well-meaning perfectionist undermined by the very methods she uses to achieve that elusive enlightened state. At the opposite end of the spectrum is Jinkx Monsoon—a booze-swilling, pleasure-seeking, chaos-embracing pagan with a moral code so focused it invites comparison to DeLa’s penchant for extremism. 

That the duo stubbornly travel different roads but somehow end up at the same destination is a frequent narrative motif throughout their work, one that never fails to pay off. Both queens experience an occasional fleeting awareness of this irony, promptly tucking it away until the plot reaches its inevitable point of détente.

And as the rules of comedy fittingly dictate, they do need to be at war with each other, always on the brink of a nuclear option. In that manner, especially when there’s no common enemy to fight, the conflict-prone odd couple milks their classic mismatched comedy team dynamic for all it’s worth. Not that they need to. Sold separately, both can hold their own as artists. Jinkx won RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars 7 this year, and DeLa toured with the immensely satisfying matrimony farce Ready to be Committed.

But when offered as a two-for-one, as is the case with these annual Holiday Shows, the strange brew of charisma, chemistry, and unconventional choices supersizes the well-established personas of each performer while mapping some new terrain in a comedic landscape once surveyed by Burns and Allen, Burnette and Lawrence, Randall and Klugman, and Saunders and Lumley. (Don’t know some or any of these names? One can easily imagine a steely-eyed Jinkx, in her raspy Smoker’s Baritone, growling, “Oh, go look it up.”)

As for the premise: It’s 2022, and DeLa anticipates the impending celebration of Jesus’ birth by working herself into a royal tizzy, having sensed, Princess-and-the-Pea-like, that something isn’t quite right. Observing much “planetary pitchiness” and more eggshells than usual “in the global nog,” DeLa recruits a reluctant Jinkx to time travel with her into past decades, from the 1960s onward—until they will presumably save Christmas by fixing whatever mistake created “the ever-declining Hellscape we once called our world.” Add to that some supernatural elements plucked wholesale from A Christmas Carol, and you’ve got more than enough pop culture references to hang the plot on. (“More than enough” being the only substantial critic’s takeaway: The Dickens classic is such a meaty bone, it deserves its own exclusive piece of satire. The ghosts used as guides to past/present/future could have been substituted by any number of imaginative options, as the writers excel at justifying huge narrative shifts with flimsy, throw-away logic.) 

Of course, the large-looming, increasingly convoluted time travel thread itself is a wonderfully constructed conceit, an excuse for the show to stuff its stocking with every imaginable goodie on a diehard fan’s wish list. We’re talking giant puppets, RuPaul’s Drag Race references, filthy jokes, gasp-inducing wardrobe reveals, cutting zingers, and an all-cast production number depicting the Christ Child’s conception and birth as if it happened in the 1980s—when Journey rocked the top of the charts and everyone went to the gym looking like they had just seen Flashdance at a movie theater right next to a store that only sold headbands and leggings.

For practically every decade visited, there’s an original or parody musical number benefitting immensely from the show’s expertly choreographed dance ensemble. These six players—Chloe Albin, Mr. Babygirl, Elby Brosch, Shane Donohue, Jim Kent, and Ruby Mimosa—are on stage more often than not, and bring an actorly approach to the task at hand, whether it involves playing a candy cane, a reindeer, or sweet baby Jesus—fresh from the womb and already one of rock’s most gifted lead guitarists. (Pay attention, Grindr bottoms: That’s the kind of range expected when your profile says “verse.”)

L-R: Ruby Mimosa, Jim Kent, Shane Donohue, Jinkx Monsoon, BenDeLaCreme, Chloe Albin, Mr. Babygirl, and Elby Brosch. (Photo by Curtis Brown)

That our gals manage to bring the timeline back into acceptable alignment will come as no surprise. The real appeal of the show is seeing the onetime reality TV stars doing their own thing and doing it spectacularly, without manufactured drama and meanspirited betrayals. Fact is, there’s plenty of mud being tossed, but done for the purpose of humor alone, it never lands with much force let alone stains.

What does linger is the potentially jarring—but effectively done—tonal shift during the show’s final 10 minutes, serving as a shot of confidence that sends the largely LGBTQ+ crowd back into a world where the weapons-grade nastiness we’ve laughed at all night long won’t be hurled by a member of the tribe or an ally who’s in on the joke. After calling out the world they just spent two-plus hours fixing for its ever-present homophobia and potential for violence, Jinkx holds DeLa tight and sings Looking at the Lights, a contemplative number that swaddles the jam-packed, 1,500-seat venue in a blanket of radical love. Maybe enough to survive the holidays at an unhospitable family member’s home, or at your own place, all alone. “We don’t need to be okay,” sings Jinkx, to recovering perfectionist DeLa. “There’s no right way to be.”

Composed by Major Scales, Jinkx delivers Looking at the Lights in a hushed manner worlds apart from the assertive vocal stylings she’s been crushing all night. Lyricist BenDeLaCreme has called the 2021 song “the first I’ve ever written that’s just earnest and didn’t break itself with a joke… As someone who’s always struggled with the holidays, this is more than just a song about pandemic loneliness. It’s about friendship and community.”

That sense of kinship is the gift we all hope to get, all year long. As such, it’s one Jinkx and DeLa say they’ll be touring with at this time of year—every year—for as long as the fates allow. Until then, this empowering nugget from the Jinkx/DeLa-written anthem, Everyone is Traumatized by Christmas:

No matter where you come from, no matter who you are
There’s something ’bout this holiday that’s sure to leave a scar
An overbearing family, no family at all
Run over by a reindeer or just working at the mall

But, at least they’re not alone

At least you’re not alone

No, you’re not alone if you’ve been traumatized!

“The Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Show” has sold out its upcoming performances in cities including Austin, TX, San Diego, CA, and the December 18 show at LA’s Orpheum Theatre. Limited tickets remained for the Orpheum’s Dec. 19 show at the time of this article’s publication. 

For tickets, click here. Super VIP and VIP Meet & Greet packages available. The tour continues through Dec. 30 with stops including Seattle, WA, Portland, OR, and Vancouver, BC. For those unable to see them live, highly recommended is 2020’s “The Jinx & DeLa Holiday Special.” Rent or purchase via Vimeo on DemandiTunesGoogle PlayVUDU, and Amazon Prime.

“The Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Show” is co-written and co-created by BenDeLaCreme and Jinkx Monsoon, directed by BenDeLaCreme, and produced by BenDeLaCreme Presents, a company comprised of producers BenDeLaCreme, Kevin Heard, and Gus Lanza. 

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Queer creator blends Shakespeare with iconic musical duo for ‘Invincible’ theatre project

“Invincible” is not the first time “Romeo and Juliet” has been deconstructed & rebuilt as a musical; apart from the obvious example of “West Side Story”



Kay Sibal (Juliet), Khamary Rose (Romeo) star in INVINCIBLE at the Wallis Center for the Performing Arts in Beverly Hills. (PHOTO CREDIT - Jamie Pham Photography)

For millions of GenX-ers, the music of Pat Benatar and Neil Giraldo – Benatar’s longtime lead guitarist, collaborator, and producing partner, and her husband since 1982 – has been an iconic generational touchstone for over four decades. This might be especially true for queer GenXers, who found inspiration during their formative years in the defiant spirit that resonated through many of the duo’s songs.

One of those queer GenXers was Bradley Bredeweg, the out co-creator of another queer touchstone, television’s “The Fosters,” which became a hit for five seasons on FreeForm with its story of a lesbian couple raising five adopted children. Now, Bredeweg – a self-described “theatre kid” – is helping to bring Benatar and Giraldo’s music to a new generation of rebellious youth with “Invincible,” a new musical which intricately weaves the couples legendary catalog with inspired new songs to reimagine Shakespeare’s “Romeo and Juliet” for the 21st century.

“When I got into writing for television, I realized that I missed the equal exchange that happens between the people on the stage and the audience,” explains Bredeweg, who spoke with the Blade ahead of his show’s November 22 opening at Beverly Hills’ Wallis Center for the Performing Arts. “I love film and television, obviously, I’m so grateful for it, but after a couple of years of doing it, I was like, ‘I miss that inner theatre child, so I’m gonna moonlight.’”

The result of his “moonlighting” turns Shakespeare’s classic Verona setting into a modern, war-torn metropolis, and places his timeless tale of star-crossed lovers in a time of great transformation. Love and equality are forced to battle for survival as a newly-elected chancellor works to return the city to its traditional roots and destroy a progressive resistance that is trying to imagine peace in a divided world – and if you think that sounds familiar, it’s by design. It’s current run at the Wallis is its world premiere, but if things go as hoped, this is just the first step toward Broadway.

According to Bredeweg, however, it’s far from the beginning of his show’s journey.

“About twelve years ago, I realized I hadn’t read ‘Romeo and Juliet’ since high school and decided to read it again,” he tells us. “The next day I had to take a road trip – this was back in the era when I still had a CD book in my car – and I came across the “Best of” album of Pat Benatar and Neil Giraldo, so I popped it in and started driving. And because the story was obviously fresh in my head, I was listening to all these songs and realizing that if you line them up a certain way they totally tell the tale of ‘Romeo and Juliet.’ I wrote a first draft a couple of weeks later and then I just put it away and forgot about it.”

Much later, in 2015, he walked into a Los Feliz bar called the Rockwell (“It was this really cool kind of spot that we don’t have a lot of in LA, because we’re not a theatrical town”), where cabaret performances were sometimes mounted by visting Broadway talent and Jeff Goldblum would do a gig every Wednesday night. Inspired by the vibe, he suddenly remembered “this thing I had come up with all those years ago” and impulsively pitched the idea of putting it on to the bar’s manager. I said, ‘I’ve got this crazy idea where I want to combine Shakespeare with Pat Benatar,’ and she said, ‘That’s insane, but I’m a huge fan of your show and I love it, so let’s do it.’”

This early incarnation (then called “Love is a Battlefield”) was an unprecedented hit, enjoying a six-month run to sold out houses – that is, until Benatar and Giraldo’s manager attended a performance and recorded a video of the whole thing on his iPhone. He showed it to Benatar and Giraldo, and they were intrigued; but at the time, unbeknownst to Bredeweg, they were working on developing their own life story as a musical using their songs, so they sent a “cease and desist” letter to the Rockwell and the show was forced to shut down.

“It was heartbreaking, for all of us,” says Bredeweg, “because we knew we had something with real potential.”

Then, a year later, he got a call from a producer who told him Benatar and Giraldo wanted him to come to New York and discuss his musical.

“Of course, I said yes and got myself there immediately. We took a meeting on their tour bus, and we started talking about the musical they were developing, and suddenly we all started to move in the direction of doing ‘Love is a Battlefield.’  By the end of it we were all laughing about how we had started out with a ‘cease and desist’ order and here we were talking about coming together to do a show.”

In part, says Bredeweg, the couple was convinced to change course by their discussion of the proliferation of so-called “jukebox musicals” that have increasingly populated Broadway in recent years. 

“We talked about how they have a shelf life, especially if they’re focused on a specific artist. They have a built-in audience, but beyond that, how can they stand the test of time? The real test of a timeless musical is if, in 40 years, every high school is doing it. I think that’s why we went back to using their iconic music to reinvent this epic, timeless tale.”

Another part of the appeal was how aptly the couple’s songs fit into Shakespeare’s classic – a coincidence, perhaps, but one that might be better described as synchronicity.

“When Pat and Neil met back in the late seventies it was supposed to just be a working relationship, but they fell head over heels in love with each other,” Bredeweg says. “When I got close to them, they told me they had been called the ‘Romeo and Juliet of the music world’ because the labels and managers and PR people were trying to break them up. They wanted Pat to stand on their own and Neil to just be her producing partner, and so much of what the two of them were creating at that time was about that struggle, about fighting that music industry system and saying, ‘let us figure this out for ourselves.’ That’s why so much of their music works inside of this story.”

For Bredeweg, the chance to realize his vision struck an intensely personal chord, too.

“I was always obsessed with the classics, but as a gay kid growing up in the eighties, I knew I felt different from everyone else, and as much as I loved them, I couldn’t really ‘attach’ to any character inside them. Nothing felt familiar to me, everything was from the point of view of a white cisgender person – and I always had these dreams, if I ever had any say, that I would love to tackle these classics in a different way and reposition them for a more diverse audience.”

In keeping with this mission, “Invincible” doesn’t just make Verona into a more modern city, but a more diverse one as well. The Capulet and Montague houses are run by the women, whose husbands are both dead; Romeo’s chum Benvolio is nonbinary, and falls in love with Juliet’s nurse; Juliet’s cousin Tybalt is secretly in love with her would-be husband, Paris; Paris himself is the city’s new chancellor, seeking the marriage as a means to control the vast Capulet fortune and deploy it to shore up his political power. In Bredeweg’s updated take on the tale, it’s a story about powerful men with powerful motives, with a matriarchy fighting against the traditional patriarchy and a younger generation trying to take control of its own destiny – and to ensure that it includes the freedom to love who they want.

“That’s obviously something the queer community can really understand,” says Bredweg. “We’ve been there and done that, the fight for marriage equality is all about that. It’s very much at the center of the show, and it was a big reason why I wanted to tackle the story, why I’ve rewritten so many characters with queer identities – taking these figures we thought we knew and giving them a more modern point of view.”

“Our culture is shifting in such huge ways,” he continues. “It goes back to my experience of not being able to find myself in these old tales. We are looking at our past, and pieces of art or the written world, or things in our politics, and we’re trying to reinvent these pinnacle moments in a way to make sure that history doesn’t always repeat, to move forward in different directions that are better for all of us. Especially the younger generations – they’ve stepped into this word where they’ve had no say in how chaotic things feel, and they are trying to take control of their identities and their path forward. That’s really what’s at the heart of our show.”

“Invincible” is not, of course, the first time “Romeo and Juliet” has been deconstructed and rebuilt as a musical; apart from the obvious example of “West Side Story,” the recent London import “& Juliet,” now a hot ticket on Broadway, presents an alternative version of the story in which the title character doesn’t kill herself, set to the music of pop songwriter Max Martin – responsible for hits from Britney Spears, the Backstreet Boys, NSYNC, and Céline Dion, among others.

Bredeweg isn’t worried about the competition.

“I never think about that kind of thing,” he tells us. “There’s always room for interpretation with classics of this stature. There’s space for both.”

His production, of course, has the added advantage of showcasing the music of two deeply-beloved icons whose recent induction into the Rock-and-Roll Hall of Fame has catapulted their names back into the public arena in a big way – not that they were ever very far out of it.

For Bredeweg, though, the Benatar/Giraldo connection has always been much more than just a way to make his show marketable. It’s the whole reason “Invincible” even exists.

“Pat captured my heart as a young gay kid for obvious reasons. There was something about her music, and her energy and messaging.
“It made me feel that if someone as powerful as her could exist, then I could, too.”

“Invincible” continues its run at the Wallis until December 18. For tickets and more details, visit their website.

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Captivating topic, great cast, but falls short on real issue

Rogue Machine Theatre’s recent run of “A Great Wilderness” is reviewed by the founder of the Conversion Therapy Dropout Network



John Perrin Flynn and Jeffrey Delfin (Photo by Alex Neher)

By Curtis Galloway | LOS ANGELES – Rogue Machine Theatre’s recent run of “A Great Wilderness”, written by Samuel D. Hunter and directed by Elina de Santos, was a harrowing story, to say the least. It explores the complex ideas behind conversion therapy or sexual orientation and gender identity change efforts.

As a conversion therapy survivor, I knew that I needed to see this production as I am always more than happy to see conversations about this topic. While the cast was excellent and the overall theatrical presentation was entertaining and very engaging, I feel that the script itself lacked direction and proper handling of the main topic, conversion therapy.

The show opens in an old cabin, which we will stay in for the duration of the story, with the two main characters, Daniel & Walt, standing off in silent opposition. Daniel, a teenager, has just been sent away to a remote cabin run by Walt, an elderly man that is about to be moved into an assisted living home. We learn quickly that Daniel was sent there by his mother after he was caught watching homosexual pornography, and Walt is known for “helping”  kids change their sexual orientation through religious means. To be plain, Walt is a “conversion therapist” and has been running a conversion camp with his friend Tim and ex-wife Abby. 

Over the course of two hours, Daniel goes missing in the woods, Abby and Walt reveal that their son was gay and committed suicide due to their attempts to have his sexual orientation changed, and Daniel’s mother seemingly prefers her son stay missing rather than face the world that she knows is unkind to “people like him”. 

There is no doubt, that the show had a fantastic cast. The six characters were neatly defined as their own individuals with distinct personalities and lives of their own. Each action was meaningful and thought out, to the smallest detail. The emotion brought through each character enticed you to believe that it was actually happening before your eyes. It was everything good casting should be.  

My main issue with the production sat in the script, specifically the sympathy it garnered for Walt as a conversion therapist.

From personal experience, when talking about conversion therapy and specifically the conversion therapist, we need to be careful not to create a sympathetic tone. A Great Wilderness focused too much on the life and struggles of a conversion therapist that, in his old age, is trying to come to terms with his life, the mistakes he has made, and his past attractions.

This brings feelings of sympathy and emotional connection to the character, that does not deserve sympathy. One character notes that they knew Walt through the community as a weird old man that abuses children in his cabin by trying to make them straight. They noted that as they grew to know him they realized that people will say what they want, but they knew he “never harmed those kids”. 

Toward the end of the show, we get the initial beginnings that Walt is starting to doubt the conversion therapy he has been providing his whole life, but we never really get to him denouncing it or talk directly about it.

At the end, we finally get to see Daniel stumble back into the cabin after being missing in the woods. He describes seeing flames (from a wildfire nearby) and having a revelation from God that he can change and that he wants to pursue what Walt initially set out to do, make Daniel straight.

For me, this left the door way too open for interpretation that, yes, conversion therapy is bad, but what this guy did really wasn’t. It misses the whole point and ideology behind why conversion therapy exists in the first place. Anti-LGBTQ sentiments that something is wrong with the individual are at the heart of all of it, and no amount of feel good cabin, “I just want to help” can cover that up. 

Overall, the production of “A Great Wilderness” was captivating and fantastic. The cast did an amazing job and they should all be proud, as should the theatre. I left having mixed feelings, as you have now read, but I stand by my evaluation that it casts too much sympathy on a character that has spent his life making other’s lives worse and more confusing.


Curtis D. Galloway is the Founder & President of Conversion Therapy Dropout Network in Los Angeles, California. Curtis grew up in a small town in Southern Illinois. When he was 16 years old he was subjected to conversion therapy; an experience he was later able to use to ban conversion therapy in his home state.

Now living in L.A., Curtis has taken his activism to the next level and founded the Conversion Therapy Dropout Network to bring survivors of conversion therapy together in community and solidarity.

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Gender-bending icon takes the stage in LA, but don’t call it ‘drag’

Queer culture may be catching up but don’t expect him to rest on his laurels. Show opens at LA’s Catalina Jazz Club 7pm Oct. 20



Los Angeles Blade graphic/Joey Arias

When you ask someone if they know who Joey Arias is, the answer you get will depend on the person you ask.

New Yorkers will likely be able to tell you he’s a longtime fixture of the Manhattan performance art and cabaret scene who’s been doing his best to make the city queer since the seventies, when he staged and performed fashion shows with his co-workers in the storefront windows at Fiorucci.

Others might know him from his association with queer disco icon Klaus Nomi, or his lengthy stint with Cirque du Soleil in Las Vegas, or from his mind-blowing collaboration show with puppeteer Basil Twist, “Arias with a Twist.”

Many will be aware of him as a pioneering drag artist and a regular performer at Wigstock; and most, though they may know nothing else about him, will at least remember him from his appearance on Saturday Night Live in 1979, when he and Nomi danced and sang backup for David Bowie in three now-iconic musical numbers.

“Imagine spending a week with David,” he reminisced to the Blade during a conversation we had with him last week. “Rehearsing for hours, and talking and having fun with him. And then, right before we were going on for that first song, we were standing there and he said, ‘After today your lives are going to change.’ And then we all laughed and we walked out onto the stage, with me and Klaus carrying David.”

Arias, who performs at LA’s Catalina Jazz Club at 7pm on October 20, is understandably proud of – and still a little starstruck by, perhaps – that experience, but it’s not the definitive moment of his career, no matter how famous it might be. Nor does he think of his reputation as a drag pioneer as his crowning achievement – in fact, he tells us, “I always HATED drag.”

It seems an odd statement from someone who spent his childhood, inspired by the films his parents frequently took him to see and the cartoons, books, and comic books that fed his imagination, dressing up and recreating them when he was left alone in the house.

As an example, he told us of a time he convinced some other boys in the neighborhood to join him for a re-enactment of “Cleopatra,” with him decked out like Liz (with some help from his mother’s makeup kit) and the other boys in their underwear, of course. Mom and Dad came home early, that time, he recalls.

Laughing, he recalls, “My mother was screaming, ‘Oh my God, you look like Cleopatra, what did I do to you?’ And here I am, seven years old, doing all this!”

Dressing up was always – and still is – something he loved to do. “I never thought of it as drag,” he insists. “If I liked something, I would dress like that – it could be a cowboy, for instance, only it would be something like an alien cowboy.”

Years later, in New York, friends would take him to drag bars and he would want to leave (“I’d see a guy on the stage doing Barbra Streisand and I would be like, ‘Let’s get OUT of here!’”), but then an opportunity came that he couldn’t refuse; he was invited to Andy Warhol’s Halloween Party, and the theme was drag.

“My friends helped me get dressed up, and I came up with this character named Justine DeSade. When I showed up, everyone was like, ‘Wow, who are YOU?,” and Andy came up and he was taking pictures, saying “Wow, wow!” He leaned up and whispered to me ‘Who are you really,’ and I told him my name and he said, ‘You need to stay like this all the time.’”

He was still resistant to it, however, but when Lady Bunny persuaded him to do Justine at Wigstock, her appearance there became an annual tradition. That led to more requests, including a drag calendar, Queens of New York (“All the girls were like, ‘What? You put Miss Arias on the cover? She isn’t even a drag queen!”), and bookings to perform his popular cabaret singing act in drag. Realizing, finally, that he was being paid less to perform as a man than as a woman, he deciced, “I think I’m going to be doing drag now.”

“Then drag became like the punk of the nineties,” he says, “and now it’s mainstream.”

That’s why, in the last few years, he’s distanced himself from the word “drag.”

“The minute you say it, people go to RuPaul,” he explains. “They don’t see the image of what I do now, which is more, just, androgyny – otherworldly, beautiful, chic, elegant, silhouette-y, you know? I look at it like a Kabuki actor, or a Geisha. That’s my influence too, I studied Geisha dancing, I did some Kabuki work in Japan – it’s all about beauty, graceful movements, it’s other-worldly, it’s minimal and gorgeous. ’Drag Race’ is incredible, but it’s not me. I don’t do it like that.”

It’s this graceful, other-worldly persona he feels most at home in when he performs – when he sings, really, because he has always thought of himself as a singer more than many of the other things for which he has become legendary. “I feel free, I feel good, I feel high on life and imagery, on making people smile and dream,” he tells us. “I want them to hear beautiful music that makes you think, with smart lyrics, and to look and the stage and say, ‘Look at this beauty, look at this dream!”

When pressed to define this androgynous stage presence as something separate from “drag,” he says he prefers to simply call it “Joey.”

That’s a reflection of the way he’s always felt about gender presentation, a rejection of labels that seems very much in tune with the increasing visibility of the trans and non-binary people as a part of the queer community at large. “All that stuff is right out there now,” he gushes. “It’s right in your face. That’s why all these politicians are freaking out.”

Yet though queer culture may finally be catching up to him, don’t expect Joey Arias to rest on his laurels.

“I mean, I’m older now, but there’s so much more to do,” he tells us. “I’m still on the warpath, performing and expanding people’s minds.”

He ruminates for a moment, then reflects, “I feel like I am part of a new consciousness. We live in a different time, everything is going so fast, there are things we don’t even know about that are there already, waiting for us. I say, ‘Let’s go!’ It’s easy to think about giving up, but there are always more dreams, more hope. Just keep going!

With a sly chuckle, he concludes, “Remember, it’s always the last inch that counts.”

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An ‘Inheritance’ we deserve

What I will say instead is that while watching “The Inheritance” I felt like I was watching my own life being enacted on the stage



L-R- Adam Kantor, Miguel Pinzon, and Tuc Watkins in 'The Inheritance' at Geffen Playhouse (Photo by Jeff Lorch)

Once in a while, a reviewer can find themselves stymied by the sheer force of the impact they felt from the thing they are meant to impartially review.

For one reviewer, at least, “The Inheritance” is just such a thing.

That’s why, in tackling the challenge of communicating my response to this epic play, I have set aside my usual policy of “keeping myself out of the equation” and instead decided to adopt a first-person, subjective voice – for it would be impossible for me to pretend that there wasn’t something personal about my relationship with it. I would argue, in fact, that such a pretense would be impossible for any gay man, because “The Inheritance” is about each and every one of us.

Written by Matthew López and divided into two full-length parts, it’s loosely adapted from – or rather, inspired by – gay author E.M. Forster’s classic 1910 novel “Howards End.” Instead of dealing with the mores and customs of Edwardian English society, it’s a contemporary story set in New York, focused on a group of gay men living in the years after AIDS decimated an entire generation of their friends and elders.

That’s all I knew when I walked in the door of the theatre, apart from its production history – an acclaimed and award-winning 2018 London premiere directed by Stephen Daldry, followed by a multi-Tony-winning transfer to Broadway the subsequent year – and its reputation for inducing a powerful cathartic response from LGBTQ+ audiences. That’s all you really need to know, too.

In the West Coast premiere production staged by director Mike Donahue at the Geffen Playhouse, I worried that the New York setting might feel a little out-of-step with the Los Angeles queer community, but it didn’t take long for me to attune myself to the vast landscape of common ground lying just beneath the surface details.

As I watched actors assuming their positions on the stage before showtime, carrying laptops and books and getting comfortable in a way that evoked a casual afternoon at Starbucks more than an austere theatrical presentation, I was struck by a feeling of being among them, rather than apart.

When someone on the stage finally spoke, that feeling did not disappear; it lingered and remained a part of my perspective even across the lengthy dinner break between the show’s three-hour-plus parts, and even when the players assumed a more traditionally theatrical approach in telling the massive story.

That story, like all great stories, is made up of many smaller stories, each layered and intersecting among the others. Its major figures – long-term couple Eric and Toby (Adam Kantor and Juan Castano), child-of-privilege Adam and down-on-his-luck hustler Leo (both Bradley James Tejada), and older couple Walter and Henry (Bill Brochtrup and Tuc Watkins) – move between past and present, moment and memory, even actor and character, surrounded by an ensemble of others who step in and out of roles as required.

Together, at the prompting and with the guidance of E.M. Forster himself (Brochtrup, again), they enact a sweeping tale that encompasses a hundred years of history and more, in which each of their individual fates is decided by a chain of events and choices that extends far beyond themselves.

To say more about the narrative would be both difficult and unfair. My readers should be afforded the opportunity, just as I was, to let it all unfold as it happens.

When they do, they might find themselves caught up, perhaps even despite themselves. I confess, when I took my seat before the performance, I was carrying a bit of healthy skepticism. Surely, I thought, the play could not live up to all the hyperbolic buzz which surrounded it; after all, hadn’t reviews for the Broadway production been mixed? Hadn’t some critics demerited the piece for being shallow, or for diverging into lengthy debates about queer culture and political ideology?

Cast of ‘The Inheritance’, now onstage at the Geffen Playhouse (Photo by Jeff Lorch)

My skepticism lasted only until the first moment I felt tears unexpectedly welling up behind my eyes. It came remarkably soon, over a simple throwaway line that conjured such a primal response that I reacted to it before my critical brain had a chance to understand why.

This was a phenomenon that repeated itself countless times throughout the play; more than that, there were many moments, cumulatively built, that engaged my intellect yet still overwhelmed me with emotional response. It’s rare for me, as a longtime veteran of watching theatre, to be fully moved in this way – and the fact that it happened not once, but numerous times throughout “The Inheritance,” was an unexpected gift I was grateful to receive.

In expressing that gratitude, I must single out some among the individuals responsible, but it should be acknowledged that, for me, there was not a single weak link in the chain.

Brochtrup, distinctly differentiating his two important roles with the skill of a seasoned thespian, also captures the things which connect them with shimmering clarity; Kantor’s Eric is as endearingly real as the best gay friend you’ve ever known; Castano’s Toby is a dynamo, electrifying to watch and dominating the stage – appropriately so – during every scene he’s in; Tejada (who joined the production as a last-minute replacement after an injury required a previously cast actor to depart the role) is heartbreakingly vulnerable in each of his dual roles, and compelling in his ostensible position as the central voice of the narrative; Watkins’ Henry, who must surmount the challenge of being likable in a role which positions him as an antagonist, succeeds with his understated, close-to-the-chest performance in doing exactly that; and lastly, Indigenous actress Tantoo Cardinal is a blessing in a late-appearing role that gives her a chance to distill the myriad emotions we’ve felt so far into a single, profoundly resonant monologue –delivered without a trace of manipulative sentimentality.

I could talk about more. I could talk about Jamie Todd’s scenic design or Josh Epstein’s lighting or Sara Ryung Clement’s costumes, but my praise for each of these elements can be conveyed appropriately by saying they are executed with elegant and effective simplicity; I could list all the awards the piece has won in its previous productions, but you can easily look that up yourself. I could discuss themes and literary references, or the metaphoric application of the title to the play itself, but that would be pedantic.

What I will say instead is that while watching “The Inheritance” I felt like I was watching my own life being enacted on the stage. I recognized myself and every gay person I have ever known in every character, and my own history and experience reflected in thousands of ways, both large and small, throughout.

This was more than a play, it was a tribal ritual, an invocation of community connection and shared experience that stretches back across millennia and forward into an uncharted and uncertain future. In seeing it, I felt seen – an expression never fully comprehended until lived firsthand.

It made me proud of my queer heritage; it made me feel lucky and honored to be a gay man.

Who can ask for a better inheritance than that?

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Out & About: Performing arts in Los Angeles this weekend

LA’s Theatre scene is back in full swing for fans of queer LA theatre, as Off-Broadway hit “Daddy Issues” plus “(Un)Documents” opens



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Queer LatinX solo show performance ‘(Un)documents’ to receive West Coast premiere

Actor_poet Jesús I. Valles stars in ‘(Un)Documents’ – Photo by Errich Petersen

LA’s Theatre scene is back in full swing at last, and that means fans of the kind of small, independent, and edgy productions that can only be found in a city like ours have plenty of plays to choose when going out to satisfy that theatrical itch.

Fans of queer theatre will want to take note of one such show that is opening this weekend (October 14): the West Coast premiere of “(Un)Documents,” presented by the Latino Theater Company.

Written and performed by queer actor, theatermaker and poet Jesús I. Valles, who immigrated to the U.S with their family at the age of nine. It’s described as “the lyrical tale of Valles’s journey across both sides of a river with two names, moving between languages to find their place in a nation that demands sacrifice at the altar of citizenship. In doing so, they create a new kind of documentation written with anger, fierce love, and the knowledge that what makes us human can never be captured on a government questionnaire.”

The multiple award-winning solo work – which is directed by Rudy Ramirez – was adapted from a series of 20 poems Valles wrote following their brother’s deportation in a workplace raid — poems about their brother, citizenship, identity and the LGBTQ community. premiered at Austin, Texas’ The Vortex Theatre in 2018, as part of “FuturX: A New Festival of Latinx Performance,” where it won awards for original script, lead actor and direction, and was remounted several times before being streamed live by Latino Theater Company as part of “RE:Encuentro 2021,” a virtual, national Latinx theater festival featuring 16 companies and performers from across the U.S. in digital residence at The Los Angeles Theatre Center.

Says Valles, “I learned early on what some people are able to do or unable to do, all based on a few pieces of paper and, you know, some holograms on some plastic. ‘(Un)Documents’ asks the audience to rethink how they watch and talk about migrant communities, queer people of color, systems of oppression – and to ask questions of themselves and those in positions of power.”
Performances take place October 14 through November 20 at The Los Angeles Theatre Center in Downtown LA. Tickets and more information (including up-to-date Covid-19 safety protocols on the day of each performance) are available by calling (213) 489-0994 or visiting the Latino Theatre Company website.

James Seifert and Jonathan Fishman in rehearsal for ‘Daddy Issues’ – Photo by Kayte Deioma

Queer Off-Broadway hit ‘Daddy Issues’ comes to LA

How far will a gay guy go to please his controlling Jewish parents?

Fans of queer LA theatre can find out the answer to this question beginning on October 14, when the Off-Broadway hit “Daddy Issues” opens for its West Coast premiere at the Complex in Hollywood.

Written and directed by David Goldyn, the play – which enjoyed a sold-out fun at the St. Clements Theatre in New York – is an exhuberant screwball comedy which starts our slow before snowballing into an outrageous farce. It hinges a couple (Mr. and Mrs. Moscowitz) who are in denial about their son Donald’s gay lifestyle, disapprove of his career choice, and question his flair for decoration. To get his family to stop kvetching, Donald needs a son – so he enlists the help of his ballsy best friend Henrietta and a rising drag queen named Levi, and hires a ten-year-old kid from downstairs. As the official synopsis asks, “What could go wrong?”

According to Goldyn, his play was inspired by an real-life incident he had in dealing with his own overbearing parents. “All the characters are based on real people,” he adds. “Although many of the most outrageous lines may sound like they belong in a sit-com, they actually came straight out of the mouths of my mother, father and grandma.”

The Off-Broadway production was called by the Huffington Post, “[a] frothy, whipped gelatin dessert of a show,” and the Times Square Chronicles described it as laugh out loud funny.”

Goldyn himself directs the West Coast premiere, which stars James Seifert stars as Donald, a gay “everyman” who can only react to all the craziness going on around him. Donald’s homophobic father, Sid, is played by Jonathan Fishman, while Pamela Shaw takes on the role of Marion, Donald’s funny, somewhat screwy mother who loves to quote Reader’s Digest. Noa Lev–Ari and Josh Nadler play his best friends, zaftig Henrietta and drag queen-by-night Levi. Rounding out the cast are Sherry Michaels as Grandma, Hannah Battersby as Donald’s downstairs neighbor, and Solly Werner as precocious 10-year-old Johnny Walker. The play is presented by Charles Blondeau.
Performances of “Daddy Issues” run from Oct. 14 through Nov. 13 at The Complex (6476 Santa Monica Blvd., Hollywood). For tickets and more info, go to

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“Hamilton” creators donate monetary damages to LGBTQ+ group

A Texas church performed an unauthorized production of the acclaimed Broadway musical with the addition of homophobic content



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MCALLEN, Tx – Capping a three-week conflict that attracted national media attention, the creators of “Hamilton” said they will donate monetary damages collected from a Texas church that performed an unauthorized production of the acclaimed Broadway musical and altered it with the addition of homophobic content. 

A statement published on Instagram Tuesday on behalf of Door Christian Fellowship McAllen Church (“Door McAllen”) and its pastor Roman Gutierrez apologizes to the creator and producers of “Hamilton” for using the music and dialogue and changing them without permission. 

While the post made no acknowledgement of Door McAllen’s choice to liken homosexuality to drug and alcohol addiction in its unauthorized alteration of its unauthorized production on August 5, “Hamilton” affirmed its support for the LGBTQ+ community with the decision to give the monetary damages to the South Texas Equality Project.

The LGBTQ+ group did not immediately respond to requests for comment on its pending receipt of the damages, whose value has not been disclosed. 

“Hamilton” fans discovered the performance after Door McAllen streamed the show on its YouTube channel, where it was subsequently cut into clips that were widely circulated on Twitter and other social media platforms – often accompanied by the hashtag #Scamalton and objections to musical’s adulteration. 

Many of the clips show the scene in which Victor Lopez, another Door McAllen pastor, delivers a sermon in which he says: “Maybe you struggle with alcohol, with drugs — with homosexuality — maybe you struggle with other things in life, your finances, whatever. God can help you tonight.”

In addition to its homophobia, the online attention exposed what theater blog OneStage called Door McAllen’s “perfect storm” of copyright and intellectual property (IP) law violations: “The church did not have permission to perform the show, make changes to its lyrics, use its logo, use copyrighted music as a backing track, advertise the production, and stream it on YouTube.” 

“Hamilton” Creator Lin Manuel Miranda was made aware of the unauthorized production of his musical amid the growing backlash against it, issuing a statement where he said, “Grateful to all of you who reached out about this illegal, unauthorized production. Now lawyers do their work.”

OneStage noted that Door McAllen’s apology on Instagram “does not admit wrongdoing” with respect to the church’s unauthorized stage productions of “Disney’s Beauty & the Beast,” “Despicable Me,” and “Elf: The Musical,” which contained similar anti-LGBTQ+ alterations.  

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Playwright queers a famous president in ‘Lavender Men’

If you’re one of those hardcore LA theatre aficionados who truly love unique & intimate live productions it’s time to consider diving back



Roger Q. Mason Alex Esola and Pete Ploszek in 'Lavender Men' (Photo by Jenny Graham)

LOS ANGELES – While you may have noticed that theatre venues like the Ahmanson and the Pantages have made a triumphant return from the COVID shutdowns, LA’s smaller theatre spaces – those who managed to make it through without closing permanently, that is – are still struggling to rebound. If you’re one of those hardcore LA theatre aficionados who truly love the kind of unique and intimate live productions one can only find in our fabulous city, it’s definitely time to consider diving back in – and fortunately, the historic Skylight Theatre has something on its stage right now that should be considered a must-see for any LGBTQ+ theatre fan.

Produced by Playwrights Arena and the Skylight Theatre Company, “Lavender Men” is a brand-new “historical fantasia” which re-imagines one of America’s most beloved historical icons, President Abraham Lincoln, through a queer lens. It’s not the first time Lincoln’s alleged non-heterosexual leanings have been the subject of speculation – or even of speculative dramatization – but this is not merely a historical drama attempting to make a case for the Great Emancipator’s queerness. Directed by Lovell Holder, it instead bridges over a century and a half of history by focusing on an outside observer – Taffeta, a queer and plus-sized person of color who invades Abe Lincoln’s private world to confront issues of visibility, race, and LGBTQ+ inclusion that still challenge us today.

Taffeta, like “Lavender Men” itself, is the brainchild of playwright Roger Q. Mason, who (appropriately enough) plays the character in this premiere production. She’s a figure that represents Mason’s own experience of American culture, springing from their own thinking “about the ways in which people of color, plus size, expansive, are often left out of American romances.”

Roger Q. Mason as Taffeta in ‘Lavender Men’ (Photo by Jenny Graham)

The Blade recently had a chance to chat with Mason about the play, and our conversation is below.

LA Blade: It’s interesting that you chose to address our current vision of the American narrative, particularly regarding queer and non-White European experience, with a play about the Civil War era. Can you explain why you made that choice?

Roger Q. Mason: For me, the Civil War was the time in which our current notions of race, politics, history, and memory were first codified. We are still living in the aftermath of the divides formed during that period. It’s no coincidence that, shortly after the war (in 1868, to be exact), the word “homosexual” first appeared in scientific literature. It is not a coincidence that the backlash of the Emancipation Proclamation (and Juneteenth) was Jim Crow – whose insidious ideas we are unfortunately having to relive in our country today. Therefore, the play HAS to return to the Civil War to disrupt our notions about our cultural and historical narrative and start healing, through calling out the ills that divide rather than unite us.

LAB: Lincoln’s sexuality has long been a point of contentious debate, which is not surprising, considering he is obviously an iconic President – and an iconic Republican, too, although the party of his day was arguably more aligned with values generally attributed Democrats, today. Is that part of the reason you decided to explore it in your play?

RQM: Well, the play was first born from working in the brilliant queer arts community of Chicago. At that time, there was a play going around called “Lincoln was a Faggot,” which pondered the 16th President’s queerness. I was intrigued by the premise. I thought that Lincoln was an American historical god – almost impenetrable and beyond notions of the flesh. So, the possibility of his queerness humanized him in a way. And if I can humanize him, then I can interrogate the world in which he lived and the values which we have inherited from that world. Emerging from a place of humanity, change and growth are possible; healing is possible.  Exploring Lincoln’s queerness became, for me, the first step in healing my own Black, plus-sized queer heart now – a heart which oftentimes feels invisible to my white cisgender queer male counterparts.

LAB: Is that how Taffeta came into the picture?

RQM: Taffeta evolved into the center of “Lavender Men” because of a challenge from Skylight Theatre Company. When we were preparing for the Skylab readings, Producing Co-Artistic Director Gary Grossman posed the question, “Why does Taffeta need to be in the play?” In that early draft, she didn’t have the dominant presence she has now, but I knew she needed to be at the center of the work. She was its heartbeat. So, in many ways, Taffeta’s evolution and growth was a reply to Gary’s question.  

LAB: How did writing “Lavender Men” contribute to your own “evolution and growth?”

RQM: The development history of “Lavender Men” is the story of my own growth as a person and a writer. Growing up, I wanted to be a “man of letters” – with an emphasis on the masculine respectability and the intellectual prowess of that phrase – but what I am is a gender expansive story conjurer! I’ve learned through the process of this play to embrace those beautiful aspects of who I am. 

And I must give credit to Playwrights’ Arena for allowing me the space in which to experience that process. My affiliation with them has been one of admirer and devotee. Jon Lawrence Rivera has championed the works of two very important Los Angeles-based playwrights, Boni Alvarez and Donald Jolly, and they are guiding lights to me as a writer – so when this opportunity to collaborate with Jon and his crew came along, I was excited.  

LAB: What points in the play are most significant to you? What do you hope the audience will take away?

RQM: One of my favorite moments in the play was added in previews. It’s right before the last scene, where Taffeta finally admits the conflicted mission of her voyeurism: she is retelling Abe’s story to identify how his queer white male love excludes her as a black, plus-sized person; and she wants to tell it because it is the closest she’ll ever get to romance in her loveless life. As a writer, that kind of dramaturgical clarity is GOLD. 

I hope that audiences relish in the specific and universal truths that my castmates Pete Ploszek, Alex Esola and I are mining through the show, including the hurt that bias reaps on “the other,” the power of second chances, and the eternal search for self-love. Working with my creative other half Lovell Holder, director on this project, has deepened these themes through embodiment in production. We have all had a lot of fun making the show! So, ultimately, I hope audiences learn something new about themselves and their history, while having a fabulous time along the way.

“Lavender Men” performs at LA’s Skylight Theatre, 1816 1/2 North Vermont Ave (in Los Feliz), through Sept 4. For tickets and more information visit the Skylight’s website.

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“Hadestown” now at LA’s Ahmanson Theater

It’s a retelling of the myth of Orpheus, who in Ancient Greece became renowned for making music so beautiful it moved the stones to weep



Photo by T. Charles Erickson

LOS ANGELES – By the time “Hadestown” won the Tony for Best Musical, it had already been around for more than 13 years. Conceived, created, and composed by singer/songwriter Anaïs Mitchell in 2006 in what she describes as “a D.I.Y. theater project”, it passed through several iterations (including a concept album and a New York Theatre Workshop production) in a lengthy development process before finally emerging as the Broadway Production that debuted in 2019.

Its story, of course, has been around for much longer. It’s a retelling of the myth of Orpheus, who in Ancient Greece became renowned for making music so beautiful it moved the stones to weep; when his beloved wife Eurydice was bitten by vipers and died, he descended into the underworld and used his musical gifts to persuade Hades himself to let her return with him to the world of the living – though with a condition attached to make the hero’s triumph less a victory than a Devil’s bargain, as anyone who knows this familiar tale will surely remember.

And it IS a familiar tale, one which spawned an entire religion in the Ancient Mediterranean world and has gone on to inspire countless artists – for reasons which are perhaps obvious, it’s a story with particular significance to artists, of all kinds – to express it through works of their own over all the centuries since. Why, then, does it need to be told again?

“Hadestown,” now arrived at LA’s Ahmanson Theater, endeavors to answer that question – but it also stands, in all its infectious and transfigurative excellence, as answer enough in itself.

Reimagining the story from its classical origins into something more resembling a rustic American folk tale, Mitchell’s musical transplants it into a New Orleans-esque setting somewhere on the Road to Hell, where Hermes may still be messenger of the gods, but is here a master-of-ceremonies, too.

It’s a place where the times are definitely hard, but Hermes’ ward Orpheus claims to be writing a song to set the world right again. Eurydice is a hungry drifter who falls for the youthful bard even though he’s clearly a simple-minded dreamer with nothing to offer her but his love; the Underworld is a factory, where workers labor eternally under the promise of freedom which never comes, and Hades is its powerful owner; his wife Persephone (per agreement) lives half the year with him down below and counts the hours until she’s free to live the other half having fun and spreading sunshine in the world above.

With the principal characters recast in this way, the show is free to weave their tale through a rich and imaginative blues-and-jazz infused musical score and the simple-but-ingenious theatrical trickery of its scenic design – and the result is two-and-a-half hours of high-spirited, irresistible enjoyment that’s guaranteed to deliver a deeply satisfying emotional catharsis but never once feels like just another version of a stodgy old myth.

There is not much a review can convey about the experience of “Hadestown” that comes close to capturing it. The best one can do is say you will certainly laugh, probably cry, and unquestionably be humming the songs for weeks to come. Beyond that, we can only encourage our readers – enthusiastically –to go and see it, and assure them it will be a rollicking, rousing good time. It is, and we do.

That said, there are a lot of things about it to appreciate – the sense of magic that pervades the entire show, for instance, bringing us into a realm where reality and metaphor blend, and the literal and the poetic become one and the same.

In this “world of gods and men”, summer can be both a season of the year and a feeling of being in love, Hell can be a dead-end job or a troubled marriage, and a wealthy industrialist with Fascist leanings can be the Devil himself. Reading those statements alone is enough to recognize the truth of them; living them through “Hadestown” is enough to stamp that truth indelibly into your memory.

A great deal of the magic that makes that happen comes from the show’s score, performed with relish by an onstage show band that is as much of a character as any of the other people on stage. It disarms us with its feel-good sound, a classic blend of elements from gospel to Dixieland to zydeco, and artfully deploys harmonics and melody with scientific precision to transport us into the esoteric mindset where all myths take place.

In other words, the power of “Hadestown” comes from its music – which, perhaps not coincidentally, is about as true to the spirit of Orpheus himself as you can get.

That spirit clearly inhabits the show’s cast, as well. Tony-winner (for “Million Dollar Quartet”) Levi Kreis steps into the unenviable task of filling the shoes of the regal Andre De Shields – Broadway’s Hermes – and makes the role his own, bringing a crooner’s voice and a “good-time Charlie” flair that lend a poignant edge to the hard-won wisdom it is his assignation to dispense.

As Orpheus, youthful Nicholas Barasch endears himself with a comedic red-headed “mooncalf” persona, while contrasting it with a voice that sounds as if it really was a gift from the gods; Morgan Siobhan Green’s Eurydice is a perfect yin to his yang, as grounded in practical reality as he is adrift in the clouds of his imagination and his art, but with a soulful voice of her own.

Keyvn Morrow brings imposing presence, a powerful deep bass voice, and just enough empathy to Hades, while Kimberly Marable’s Persephone, equally compelling as sun-drenched summer goddess and day-drinking neglected wife, is the natural center of attention whenever she appears onstage.

Capping the main ensemble off are Belén Moyano, Bex Odorisio, and Shea Renne as The Fates, who taunt the characters – and the audience – throughout with tight harmonies and choreography that practically stop the show every time they take the spotlight. And as praiseworthy as all the leading players are, their talents are matched by the entire ensemble.

Add an ever-metamorphosizing scenic design by Rachel Hauck and electrifying choreography by David Neumann, and “Hadestown” becomes an unforgettable trip to the Underworld and back that will leave you wanting more for a long time to come. And if all that is not enough to convince you that it’s the biggest must-see musical of the year so far, then just remember what we said about words not being able to capture the experience – and go to see it anyway.

“Hadestown” continues through May 29 at the Ahmanson, but if you can’t make it by then you can catch the same production when it takes the stage at the Segerstrom Center for the Arts in Costa Mesa from August 9 to 21.

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Barrier-breaking lesbian does a ‘Death-Defying Escape’ in her new play

Carter was the first woman to ever play the Close-Up Gallery at the Magic Castle, LA’s famed club frequented by celebrity magic lovers



Judy Carter (Photo by Jenny Graham)

HOLLYWOOD – Quick, name a famous female magician. Don’t worry, we already know you probably can’t – not even if you use Google. That’s because, as Judy Carter puts it, “There aren’t any. They’re all men. The idea that a woman can manipulate reality is really terrifying – I mean, we used to get burned at the stake for it, right?”

Judy herself, however, is proof that her statement is not entirely true. Though hardly a household name (not in most households, anyway), she broke gender barriers by performing magic on TV on the likes of The Merv Griffin Show” and “The Mike Douglas Show,” before an impromptu performance necessitated by missing equipment launched her into a second career as a stand-up comedian, public speaker, and author (“I wrote the BOOK on being gay!”, she jokes, in reference to her Lambda Literary Award-winning humor book, “The Homo Handbook”). She’s since appeared on over 100 TV shows and four comedy cable specials, as well as opening for Prince and playing in Las Vegas.

Now she’s playing the Hudson Guild Theatre in Hollywood, with her play “A Death-Defying Escape.” Presented by Comedy Workshop Productions, it’s described as “a darkly funny, inspiring new comedy about one woman’s miraculous escape from the secrets of her past.” In it, Carter weaves together stories from her life with “jaw-dropping, audience-interactive on-stage magic”, and takes audiences through a unique narrative that features something for everyone: Jewish humor, lesbian romance, a disability awareness — and world-class, never-before-seen illusions designed by Vegas pro Craig Dickens.

“He did it because he loved the script so much,” Carter tells us.

Speaking with the Blade during a break from the rigors of last-minute rehearsals, the verteran performer shared some of the experiences – not all of them wonderful – that culminated in her decision to tell her life story in a play, starting with a not-so-obvious explanation about the connection she feels between magic and being a lesbian.

“I think there’s a big correlation between us gays and magicians,” she told us. “Especially those of us who came out in the eighties – and that’s keeping secrets. 

This play is about revealing secrets. We had so of them many growing up in the Fairfax district of LA – we weren’t the fancy Beverly Hills Jews, you know, we were the low-end Jews who still had our original noses. My older sister was disabled, and she was given away to an institution, that was a secret. And then I turned out to be gay, and that was a secret. And then guess what? Grandma’s having electro-shock treatment, and that was another secret!”

During those early years, Carter found refuge and release in comedy, overcoming a speech impediment so she could do funny magic shows for birthday parties. She even ended up being written up for it in the Los Angeles Times, launching her on a career that would ultimately take her across barriers no woman had passed before – though it wasn’t always an easy passage.

“I was the first woman to ever play the Close-Up Gallery, in the card room at the Magic Castle,” she remembers, meaning Los Angeles’ famed private club frequented by celebrity magic lovers ranging from Orson Welles to Neil Patrick Harris since its founding in 1963.

“Anyway, what happened was, I was physically picked up by this real ‘macho’ magician, and he threw me over his shoulder, and carried me out of the Castle, and he threw me down into the parking lot. And he said to me, ‘Women don’t belong here, honey, stick to bunnies and rabbits, cards are for men.’ And I thought, ‘Why? Because they’re so heavy?’

And so, in my play, I have that scene, and I think it will open up some things… I think it will really resonate.”

Still, her show is not just dedicated to the professional hurdles that she had to leap.

“I wrote this play because it also surrounds something that happened to me later in life, and that is that I fell deeply in love,” she explains. “It was almost like the first time. I was married to another woman for sixteen years, and we got divorced, and even though I had given up on finding love – I mean, I know getting older is not big turn on for a lot of people – suddenly I was falling in love with a woman that was considerably younger than me. Forty years younger! And it blew my mind.”

While the new love in her life might not seem related to the stories of her earlier trials, it’s more than just a convenient “happy ending” – there’s a point to be made.

“No matter what trauma has happened to us in our past, love is possible,” Carter says. “Escape is possible. It’s possible to leave behind these things that have happened to us and make ourselves vulnerable to love.”

As for the magic, she won’t reveal too much.

“I can’t give any spoilers, but I will tell you that I do a death-defying escape from heterosexuality, right in front of people’s eyes! It’s going to be amazing!”
Directed by Lee Costello,A Death-Defying Escape!” features Carter alongside actors Kevin Scott Allen and Lyndsi LaRose, and will “disappear weekly” at the Hudson Guild Theatre Saturdays and Sundays from April 2 through May 8. In addition, the production will be made available to streaming audiences worldwide beginning on April 9 – so even if you’re reading this from outside of Los Angeles, you’ll still get a chance to experience it.

Tickets to both are available via

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