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‘The Third’ explores polyamorous relationships

An affair jeopardized by skepticism, jealousy and secrets

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‘The Third’ explores a polyamorous relationship in Palm Springs.

For generations, anyone who identified outside the heteronormative model of sexual attraction has had little opportunity to see the love stories of their real lives reflected in the narratives of our popular culture. Though things have changed in recent years, it’s still comparatively difficult for men or women who identify as gay to find entertainment content that speaks directly to their experience; for those whose sexual orientation is even further outside the expected paradigms of our society, it’s nearly impossible.

Consider the case of the polyamorous “thruple,” a relationship model that has gained visibility within the current generation, who are either more drawn to triangular bonds than ever before or are simply less afraid to admit it; one would be hard-pressed to think of a single example of such an arrangement in film or television, even today, and whenever we see a three-way romance portrayed on our screens, it’s usually in a story of rivalry, betrayal, or worse, and we can pretty much predict that it’s going to end badly.

“The Third,” a new series coming in October from queer streaming network Dekkoo, is hoping to change all that. Created by filmmaker Matthew Lynn, it’s a provocative look at the passionate relationship that develops when 29-year-old Jason (Sean McBride) stumbles into a “triad” relationship with Carl and David (Corey Page and Ryland Shelton), an established gay Palm Springs couple who are on the outs after five years of marriage. Thinking that a third person might spice up their relationship, they agree to move forward with Jason – only to encounter a whole new set of complications.

That’s a premise that’s sure to be met with raised eyebrows and skepticism by a lot of viewers, and that’s exactly the point. From the very beginning of its first episode, the show wastes no time in showing us just how much judgment anyone in a polyamorous relationship must put up with, not just from outsiders, but even from themselves. After an opening sequence in which young Jason buys flowers for his two older paramours (risking the withering attitude of the cashier at the florist) we flash back to the early days of their relationship; even in the intoxicating glow of fresh infatuation, each of the men, for reasons of their own, questions the wisdom of what they’re about to do, but that doesn’t mean any of them wants to stop it from happening.

The debut installment handles the basic set-up for the show’s premise and gets us engaged by introducing us to its three charming and attractive leading men. It also does a great job of using the Palm Springs setting as more than just a backdrop but a condition of the story; it’s a beautiful and vital city that doesn’t get nearly enough attention on film and television, and it’s refreshing to see it given such loving treatment here. In terms of story, it doesn’t give us much beyond establishing the situation between the three lovers and teasing us with hints of serious trouble ahead, but according to the show’s official synopsis, we can expect the central affair will be “jeopardized by skepticism, jealousy and secrets,” as this nervous trio journeys into their brave new world, writing their own rules along the way and trying to figure out the true definition of love. Promising part drama, part comedy and a healthy dose of mystery, “The Third” delivers a sexy and stylish opener that hooks us in and makes us want to keep watching – while also showing that it’s not afraid to cross boundaries.

Show creator Lynn explains the origins of his show by remembering, “When I was 23, I came out to my family and they said, ‘Leave and never come back.’ Soon after, a gay couple took me in and became my surrogate family; eventually, we entered into a triad relationship. These people taught me how to be a gay man and live in this new world I had discovered. My experiences in this relationship provided the initial inspiration for the show.”

Lynn says he feels a responsibility to present his characters and their lives in a positive way. “As a gay creator,” he says, “I want to portray gay relationships without any sensationalism or exoticism. At the same time, I didn’t want to shy away from or be ashamed of what it means to be gay in today’s world.”

That means there are sometimes going to be things onscreen that many viewers will find provocative, even shocking. The first episode alone features several such moments, but the boundaries these push have nothing to do with nudity or sexual content; rather, the things that take us out of our comfort zone are more about attitudes and ideas, challenges to our preconceived – and persistently binary – concepts of what a relationship is supposed to look like. If we’re being honest, there are a lot of us who would have no problem experimenting with an extra partner or two in the bedroom – but expand that experimentation into something that lasts longer than a single night, and even the most permissive of sexual adventurers is likely to become as closed-minded as any prudish church lady.

This might be because “conventional wisdom” usually declares that such relationships are complicated, unstable, and doomed to fail. After all, “adding a third” to an established couple can only bring a whole new dimension of skepticism, jealousy, and secret-keeping to the dynamic, right?

If things get messy, though, is that really any different than any other relationship? And if that relationship is important, isn’t it worth the effort it takes to learn how to make it work? That’s a central idea in a story that Lynn says is not only “very real to me, but to many others as well.”
Elaborating, he adds, “At my production company, Bridge the Divide Media, our mission is telling stories on the fringe of society, and I wanted to show a gay relationship in a way that’s never been shown before. Something that didn’t feel like it was gay first, but human first – but also not shying away from it or being ashamed by it. Many people are now in ‘non-traditional’ relationships and this show is about bringing light to them and their unique stories. All of us are looking for somewhere to belong.”

When “The Third” debuts on Oct. 24, that somewhere just might be Dekkoo.

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Netflix celebrates LGBTQ+ storytelling with releases for Pride Month

The collection features impactful documentaries, dramas, comedies including smash hit Heartstopper (renewed for 2 more seasons) & many more

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HOLLYWOOD – Netflix is slaying Pride Month with a slew of offerings shining a spotlight on the diverse spectrum of LGBTQ+ stories, identities and self-expression with its new collection, Shine With Pride.

With over 460 titles, the collection features impactful documentaries, dramas, comedies including Getting Curious With Jonathan Van Ness, Heartstopper  (just renewed for two more seasons), She-Ra and The Princess of Power, Elite and many more.

Screenshot: ‘Boyfriends’ from the Netflix/See-Saw films series ‘Heartstopper’ by Alice May Oseman

Inspired by the range of color and symbolism present in the Pride flag, illustrator Ben Nichols created the collection artwork to celebrate the uniqueness that makes the LGBTQ+ community extraordinary.

Throughout the year we’ll be unveiling new collections in collaboration with new artists, so stay tuned. Previous collections included Black History Month, Lunar New Year, Earth Month, Asian American American Pacific Islander Month, Global Accessibility Awareness Day and more. 

Additionally, Netflix will have new specials, series and films launching all month. Check them out below: 

Stand Out: An LGBTQ+ Celebration  

Release Date: June 9, 2022 

The largest-ever gathering of LGBTQ+ comics.  The historic celebration featured some of the best in LGBTQ+ comedy legends and emerging talent hosted by Billy Eichner. Highlights included icon Ani DiFranco introducing Margaret Cho, Sarah Paulson introducing Tig Notaro, Lily Tomlin introducing Sandra Bernhard, Lena Waithe introducing Wanda Sykes, and Rosie O’Donnell closing the night and inviting the rest of the performers joining her on stage for a NEW rendition of Cyndi Lauper’s hit Girls Just Want to Have Fun, GAYS Just Want to Have Fun. Other incredible talent who performed throughout the night included Bob the Drag Queen, Eddie Izzard, Solomon Georgio, Sam Jay, River Butcher, Patti Harrison, Matteo Lane, Marsha Warfield, Mae Martin, Judy Gold, Joel Kim Booster, James Adomian, Guy Branum, Gina Yashere, Trixie Mattel, Scott Thompson, and Todd Glass. Stand Out is produced by Page Hurwitz,  Wanda Sykes (Push It Productions), Brian Graden and Dave Mace (Brian Graden Media).

Stand Out: An LGBTQ+ Celebration. Solomon Georgio, Matteo Lane, Joel Kim Booster Patti Harrison, Margaret Cho, Guy Branum, Sam Jay, River Butcher, Rosie O’Donnell, Bob the Drag Queen, Trixie Mattel Todd Glass, Mae Martin, Marsha Warfield, Wanda Sykes, James Adomian, Fortune Feimster, Tig Notaro, Sandra Bernhard, Judy Gold, Gina Yashere, Eddie Izzard at The Greek Theatre for Netflix Is A Joke Fest. Cr. Beth Dubber/Netflix © 2022

First Kill

Release Date: June 10 

When it’s time for teenage vampire Juliette to make her first kill so she can take her place among a powerful vampire family, she sets her sights on a new girl in town named Calliope. But much to Juliette’s surprise, Calliope is a vampire hunter, from a family of celebrated slayers.  Both find that the other won’t be so easy to kill and, unfortunately, way too easy to fall for. 

Created by: From Felicia D. Henderson (EP, Co-Creator, Showrunner); V. E. Schwab (EP & Co-Creator); Emma Roberts & Kara Preiss (Belletrist Productions, EPs) Cast: Sarah Catherine Cook, Imani Lewis, Elizabeth Mitchell (Lost, Outerbanks), Aubin Wise (Atlanta), Jason Robert Moore (The Punisher), Gracie Dzienny (Jupiter’s Legacy), Will Swenson (The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina), Jonas Dylan Allen. 

Halftime 

Release Date: June 14 

Directed by Amanda Micheli, HALFTIME offers an intimate peek behind the curtain revealing the grit and determination that makes Jennifer Lopez the icon she is. The documentary focuses on Lopez as she embraces the second half of her career and continues to inspire with her perseverance, creative brilliance and cultural contributions, set against the backdrop of her groundbreaking Super Bowl performance.

Iron Chef: Quest For An Iron Legend
Release Date: June 15 

Iron Chef. (L to R) Dominique Crenn, Kristen Kish in episode 102 of Iron Chef. Cr. Greg Gayne/Netflix © 2022

The legendary Iron Chef series is reborn with a supersized approach to the ground-breaking culinary competition that started it all. It’s been called the toughest culinary challenge a chef will ever experience. This is where world-class cuisine meets high-octane sports. Five new trailblazing Iron Chefs will welcome brave Challenger Chefs to the reimagined Kitchen Stadium, where they’ll face off and be pushed to the limits of endurance and creativity, as they cook up extraordinary culinary creations. The competition’s most successful Challenger will return to battle in a grand finale for the chance to be named the first ever “Iron Legend.” 

Cast: Hosts – Alton Brown and Kristen Kish;  Iron Chefs – Curtis Stone, Dominique Crenn, Marcus Samuelson, Ming Tsai, Gabriela Camara

Dead End: Paranormal Park Season 1 

Release Date: June 16 

Based on creator and executive producer Hamish Steele’s horror-comedy graphic novels DeadEndia and web short Dead End, Dead End: Paranormal Park  follows the adventures of Barney, Norma and magical-talking-dog Pugsley, as they balance their summer jobs at the local theme park haunted house while battling the totally real supernatural forces that dwell within it. Together with their guide to the underworld multiplane, a sardonic thousand-year-old demon named Courtney, they’ll face zombie mascots, demonic game show hosts, sleep-sucking witches and the scariest thing of all: their first crushes! The series will also feature a special musical episode with songs written by Patrick Stump. 

Cast: Zach Barack, Kody Kavitha, Emily Osment, Alex Brightman, Clinton Leupp a.k.a. Miss Coco Peru, Kenny Tran and Kathreen Khavari; Guest Stars: Alan Cumming, Angelica Ross, C Nelson, Kemah Bob, MJ Roridguez, Patrick Stump, Sam Jay, Taylor “Effy” Gibson, Tom Lenk, Z Infante and more! 

The Umbrella Academy Season 3 

Release Date: June 22 

After putting a stop to 1963’s doomsday, the Umbrella Academy returns home to the present, convinced they prevented the initial apocalypse and fixed this godforsaken timeline once and for all. But after a brief moment of celebration, they realize things aren’t exactly (okay, not at all) how they left them. Enter the Sparrow Academy. Smart, stylish, and about as warm as a sea of icebergs, the Sparrows immediately clash with the Umbrellas in a violent face-off that turns out to be the least of everyone’s concerns. Navigating challenges, losses, and surprises of their own – and dealing with an unidentified destructive entity wreaking havoc in the Universe (something they may have caused) — now all they need to do is convince Dad’s new and possibly better family to help them put right what their arrival made wrong. Will they find a way back to their pre-apocalyptic lives? Or is this new world about to reveal more than just a hiccup in the timeline?

Created for Television by: Steve Blackman Cast: Elliot Page, Tom Hopper, David Castañeda, Emmy Raver-Lampman, Robert Sheehan, Aidan Gallagher, Justin H. Min, Colm Feore, Ritu Arya, Justin Cornwell, Britne Oldford, Jake Epstein, Genesis Rodriguez, Cazzie David, Javon ‘Wanna’ Walton, Jordan Claire Robbins

The Umbrella Academy. (L to R) Elliot Page as Viktor Hargreeves, Emmy Raver-Lampman as Allison Hargreeves in episode 301 of The Umbrella Academy. Cr. Courtesy of Netflix © 2022

Note: Elliot Page’s character transitions in the season and begins using the name Viktor Hargreeves and he/him pronouns. The storyline was crafted by creator Steve Blackman who both consulted GLAAD and enlisted writer Thomas Page McBee’s guidance and expertise to, alongside Elliot Page, help ensure the storyline was told authentically and sensitively. 

Joel Kim Booster: Psychosexual  

Release Date: June 21  

Filmed at Catch One in Los Angeles by Doron Max Hagay, Joel Kim Booster makes his Netflix comedy special debut with Psychosexual. In a uniquely crafted three set act; Booster discusses learning the cultural nuances of being Asian as he gets older, shares his preference for threesomes with tips for successful masturbation and his fascination for human sexuality and much more. 

Joel Kim Booster: Psychosexual. Joel Kim Booster in Joel Kim Booster: Psychosexual. Cr. Terence Patrick/Netflix © 2022.

QUEEN

Release Date: June 23

Sylwester, a retired tailor who now moonlights as a drag queen, left Poland fifty years ago and has been living in Paris ever since. One day he gets a letter, asking him to donate a kidney to his ill daughter, who he left behind all these years ago and has never seen. Reluctant, he embarks on a journey back to his motherland, to the coal mining town he swore never to return to. The journey takes an unexpected turn, forcing Sylwester to confront the past and use his artistic skills to mount a stage production to save this small coal mine town. It is a story of redemption, second chances and love overcoming all differences.

Original idea by: Arni Olafur Asgeirsson. Created by: Arni Olafur Asgeirsson, Kacper Wysocki, Ottó Geirborg. Directed by: Łukasz Kośmicki. Cast: Andrzej Seweryn, Maria Peszek, Julia Chętnicka, Antoni Porowski & Kova Rea. 

The Upshaws (Season 2, Part 1)

Release Date: June 29 

A multi-camera comedy that centers on a working-class African American family in Indiana struggling to make it work and make it right without the blueprints to do it. Bennie Upshaw (Mike Epps), the head of a Black working class family in Indianapolis, is a charming, well-intentioned mechanic and lifelong mess just trying his best to step up and care for his family — wife Regina (Kim Fields), their two young daughters (Khali Spraggins, Journey Christine) and firstborn son (Jermelle Simon), the teenage son (Diamond Lyons) he fathered with another woman (Gabrielle Dennis) — and tolerate his sardonic sister-in-law (Wanda Sykes), all without a blueprint for success. But the Upshaws are determined to make it work, and make it to the next level, together. In Season 2, Part 1, the Upshaws continue to ride life’s ups and downs, including new loves, old flames, big dreams, life changes and the love and drama that comes with family. 

Created by: Regina Y. Hicks and Wanda Sykes; Cast: Mike Epps, Kim Fields, Wanda Sykes, Page Kennedy, Diamond Lyons, Khali Daniya-Renee Spraggins, Jermelle Simon, Gabrielle Dennis, Journey Christine

The Upshaws. (L to R) Wanda Sykes as Lucretia, Kim Fields as Regina in episode 205 of The Upshaws. Cr. Lisa Rose/Netflix © 2022

COMING SOON!

Uncoupled

Release Date: July 29

Michael (Neil Patrick Harris) thought his life was perfect until his husband blindsides him by walking out the door after 17 years. Overnight, Michael has to confront two nightmares — losing what he thought was his soulmate and suddenly finding himself a single gay man in his mid-forties in New York City.

Series Creators / Executive Producers/ Writers: Darren Star and Jeffrey Richman; Cast: Neil Patrick Harris, Tisha Campbell, Brooks Ashmanskas, Emerson Brooks, Marcia Gay Harden, Tuc Watkins 

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Ellen signs off after 19 seasons

In her final monologue DeGeneres reflected on the journey across the years then took a moment to dance through the audience with Twitch

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BURBANK – The lights went dark forever at the Warner Brothers Stage 1 complex on the lot at Warner Brothers Studio, home to the Ellen show, as comedian Ellen DeGeneres ended her daytime talk show after a 19 season run Thursday.

In a highly charged emotional hour, DeGeneres paid tribute to her staff, executive producers and a global audience of loyal viewers. Highlighting the end run of the show DeGeneres brought on guest Jennifer Aniston, the actress having been the comedian’s very first guest on the first show.

In her final monologue DeGeneres reflected on the journey across the years and she then took a moment to dance through the audience with her ‘DJ’ Twitch. During the course of the hour she discussed the progress that had been made since the series premiered in 2003, noting that she “couldn’t say ‘gay’ on the show” when it started or make a reference to her wife, Portia de Rossi, because same-sex marriage wasn’t legal.

“Now I say ‘wife’ all the time,” she said.  Noting that there was resistance to the show and that few gave it a chance of surviving, DeGeneres promised that she wouldn’t be gone for long. “Today is not the end of a relationship, it’s more of a little break,” she said. “You can see other talk shows now.”

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Check out final season of ‘Grace and Frankie’ — it ends well

Groundbreaking show highlights queer, straight elders

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Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin are wrapping their groundbreaking series. (Photo by Melissa Moseley; courtesy Netflix)

They make up a fake Jewish holiday (M’Challah) to avoid seeing their friends, lie to their kids about killing their bunny, obsess over playing John Adams in a (very gay) community theater production of the musical “1776” and create vibrators that glow in the dark. Their children sell their house out from under them and make them wear panic alerts.

These people might well creep you out in real life.

But, thankfully, they’re the funny and engaging characters on “Grace and Frankie,” the series, whose seventh and final season has recently dropped on Netflix.

The  show, starring Lily Tomlin, 82, (Frankie) and Jane Fonda, 84, (Grace) as two hetero elders whose husbands (Martin Sheen, 81 as Robert and Sam Waterston, 81, as Sol) leave them to marry each other, is, deservedly, Netflix’s longest-running series.

In 2019, there were 54.1 million people in the United States over 65, according to a Administration for Community Living of the U.S. Department of Human Services report. Elders, the study says, are expected to make up 2l.6 percent of this country’s population by 2040.

There are nearly three million (2.7 million) LGBTQ people over aged 50 in the U.S. and 1.1 million queer elders 65 and older in this country, according to a 2017 Movement Advancement Project and SAGE report.

Yet aside from “Transparent,” few TV series (broadcast, cable or streaming) have featured, let alone, been centered around, older queers.

“Grace and Frankie” is the rare series that’s focused on the lives of elders (hetero and queer). Unlike some shows that showcase older people, it’s been mostly entertaining, even thought provoking, rather than dull or didactic throughout its run.

Set in San Diego, “Grace and Frankie” throughout its seasons has told the story of how Frankie and Grace have created a life of their own as Robert and Sol have entered a new chapter of their lives as a same-sex couple. 

Frankie, Grace, Robert and Sol, who are in their 70s, are affluent. Robert and Sol are successful divorce lawyers. Grace has run a flourishing cosmetics company. Frankie is a new-agey artist who teaches art to ex-convicts.

When Robert and Sol say that they’re leaving them to wed each other because same-sex marriage has become legal in California, Frankie says she’s done a fundraiser for that.

The beach house where Grace and Frankie live is breathtakingly gorgeous. Yet these characters encounter the indignities and dilemmas of aging from learning about social media to coming out in late life to memory loss to end-of-life decisions.

Grace and Frankie run up against the condescension that older women often face. Yet though these are serious concerns, “Grace and Frankie” hasn’t been a downer. 

In one episode, as I’ve written before in the Blade, Grace and Frankie, though they’re practically jumping in front of his face, can’t get a store’s sales clerk to notice them. Because he’s paying so much attention to a young woman. Frankie gives up and steals a pack of cigarettes. If “you can’t see me,” Frankie says, “you can’t stop me.”

In season two, their friend Babe (Estelle Parsons), who is terminally ill, tells Frankie and Grace that she wants them to help her end her life. Though it’s difficult emotionally for them, the women give their friend Babe a good-bye party that’s joyous without being maudlin.

Robert and Sol deal with Robert being in the early stages of dementia. This narrative is touching, but not sappy. Though you should have a tissue in hand for Robert and Sol’s elevator moment in the show’s finale.

Like many old people, the characters have their ups and downs in relating to their adult children. These off-spring from Brianna (June Diane Raphael), a 21st century Cruella de Vil, to Bud (Baron Vaughn), the often wrong-headed “good son,” would try any elder’s soul. 

The main pleasure of “Grace and Frankie” is watching Tomlin and Fonda. The two forces of nature, friends since their “9 to 5″ days, make you laugh and cry with the BFFs Grace and Frankie.

TV series, like everything, have to end. Check out “Grace and Frankie.” It ends well.

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