This Monday, Governor Newsom issued a legislative update on over 150 bills that had passed legislation and were waiting on his decision on whether or not they would be chaptered into law. 11 of these bills advocated for queer community members, including their improved access to healthcare, more privacy rights, greater ease in changing their name and gender markers, as well as the expansion of adoption rights and the inclusion of two-spirit individuals into important funding and resource opportunities. 

Two were vetoed. 

AB 554: Greater access to HIV/AIDS preventative medicine (Vetoed)

First introduced in February, AB 554 was co-authored by local Assemblymember Mark González and San Francisco Assemblymember Matt Haney. Also known as the Protecting Rights, Expanding Prevention, and Advancing Reimbursement for Equity (PrEPARE) Act of 2025, the bill intended to expand patients’ access to various forms of FDA-approved HIV/AIDS preventative medication. It would have prohibited health insurance plans from subjecting these forms of medication to prior authorization, step therapy, or cost-sharing. It would have also required the state to reimburse local agencies for administering this medicine, alleviating the strain on small clinics to meet the demand of community members in need of PrEP. 

Though LGBTQ+ civil rights groups like Equality California rallied support for the bill, it was returned by the governor without a signature. In a veto memo, he wrote that he “wholeheartedly [supports] efforts to ensure affordable and accessible prevention and treatment of HIV/AIDS” but questioned whether the bill would actually increase the affordability of and access to necessary preventative treatment. “By exceeding the cost-sharing provisions under the ACA [Affordable Care Act], this bill would result in increased costs to health plans, which would then be passed on to consumers.” 

In response, Assemblymember González wrote to the Blade about his disappointment. Still, he remains hopeful about the state of PrEP access. “I’m deeply grateful to Governor Newsom for his continued partnership and for standing with us in protecting access to PrEP through this year’s budget.”

SB 418: Stronger access to gender-affirming care without discrimination (Vetoed)

Authored by Senator Caroline Menjivar, SB 418 would have required a health care service plan to cover up to a 12-month supply of FDA-approved prescription hormone therapy and the supplies needed by an individual to self-administer this medication without being subjected to utilization management methods like prior authorization.

The bill was also intended to prohibit health insurers from denying a patient the ability to enroll in or renew their health insurance plans based on factors like sex characteristics, intersex traits, and gender identity. 

In late January, President Trump released a statement that the federal government would “not fund, sponsor, promote, assist, or support the so-called ‘transition’ of a child from one sex to another.” As healthcare for trans, gender-expansive, and intersex (TGI) individuals becomes increasingly unstable under the current administration, SB 418 aimed to protect TGI community members and their ability to access critical and necessary hormone therapy and gender-affirming care. 

In the governor’s veto memo, he wrote that he was “concerned” about the bill’s limitation on utilization management methods. For him, it’s an “important tool [that ensured] enrollees receive the right care at the right time. Prohibiting this cost constraint strategy is likely to result in an increase in enrollee premiums to offset costs incurred by health plans and insurers.” 

For Senator Menjivar, this decision was “heartbreaking” as TGI individuals continue to face barriers to vital care. “SB 418 was the most tangible and effective legislative tool introduced this year to help TGI folks weather this political storm,” Menjivar wrote to the Blade. Still, she says that she is committed to continue fighting to secure health care access for TGI community members.

The vetoing of these two bills was a major blow for LGBTQ+ civil rights organizations and advocates. Equality California executive director Tony Hoang wrote about his disappointment in a recent press release. “These bills would have guaranteed that transgender people and their families could continue to access essential medications without disruption and that people at risk of HIV could obtain PrEP quickly and affordably,” wrote Hoang. “The Governor’s decision to veto these measures undermines California’s longstanding leadership in advancing health equity and protecting the LGBTQ+ community.”

But with these setbacks came a number of wins. Governor Newsom passed nine other bills advancing the rights of LGBTQ+ individuals. 

SB 59: Confidentiality protections for trans and nonbinary individuals

This bill, authored by Senator Scott Wiener, will ensure that when someone files a legal petition to change their name or their gender marker, these court records are kept confidential. Additionally, SB 59 will prohibit people other than the petitioner to post these confidential records online.

AB 678: Creating an LGBTQ+ inclusive council on homelessness

Created by Assemblymember Alex Lee, AB 678 will require the governor to build an Interagency Council on Homelessness that will form relationships between federal and state agencies with local, on-the-ground coalitions and nonprofit organizations that focus on working with unhoused communities. Together, they will work on creating strategies to end homelessness.

The bill also specifically requires this council to actively work with LGBTQ+ leaders and community members to ensure that the strategies it develops are inclusive and culturally competent. 

AB 1525: Restricting disciplinary action against attorneys on the basis of “sensitive services,” which includes gender-affirming care 

The California State Assembly’s Committee on Judiciary created this bill to prohibit disciplinary action against attorneys who receive, advocate for, recommend, or enable “sensitive services,” which include health care services for sexual and reproductive health, sexually transmitted illnesses, and gender-affirming care. 

AB 1084: Streamlining court processes for name and gender marker changes 

Created by Assemblymember Rick Zbur, AB 1084 aims to quicken the process and limit barriers transgender and nonbinary individuals face when filing to change their name and gender marker. The bill will require courts to issue orders within six weeks from when a petition is filed, and without a hearing. The bill will also prohibit others from being able to file an objection to a petitioner’s name or gender marker change.

SB 450: Protecting adoption rights for LGBTQ+ parents and families 

Authored by Senator Menjivar, SB 450 will allow queer parents from other states to claim parentage rights to their adopted children born in California. “The signing of SB 450 is a win for LGBTQ+ parents who want what every parent wants, the protection of their legal rights as the parents of their children,” Senator Menjivar wrote to the Blade. “SB 450 clarifies California’s longstanding jurisdiction for adoption proceedings, including confirmatory adoptions, in cases where the families no longer live, or never lived, in the state but the child was born here. This means LGBTQ+ families, who are weighing the options of potentially leaving an affirming state to a Red state for financial reasons, can at least now feel confident that decision won’t cost them their parental rights.” 

SB 497: Protecting right to gender-affirming care from out-of-state law enforcement

Authored by Senator Wiener, SB 497 is another bill focused on providing protections for transgender and nonbinary individuals. It will prohibit healthcare providers and service plans from releasing medical information related to gender-affirming care for a patient who is being pursued by out-of-state law enforcement officials. SB 497 would also generally safeguard against out-of-state subpoenas that would prevent a person’s ability to access gender-affirming care.

SB 590: Including chosen family members in paid family leave laws

Authored by Senator Maria Durazo, this bill would alter existing laws around paid family leave, which currently provides wage replacement benefits for up to eight weeks for workers who take time off work to take care of seriously ill family members. SB 590 will expand this definition of family members to include “designated” persons. For many queer individuals, their “chosen family” members are often just as crucial, if not more than, their blood relatives. This bill opens up the scope of what is considered a family member, allowing LGBTQ+ individuals wage protections if they take time away to care for these loved ones.

AB 1487: Expanding equity fund to include two-spirit communities 

Co-authored by Assemblymembers Dawn Addis and Mark González, AB 1487 will rename the existing Transgender, Gender Nonconforming, and Intersex Wellness and Equity Fund to the Two-Spirit, Transgender, Gender Nonconforming, and Intersex (2TGI) Wellness and Equity Fund. This will enable the fund to grant financial support to organizations that serve two-spirit and LGBTQ+ tribal community members in a number of services, including: workforce development training, resettlement and social integration programs, youth outreach, healthcare support, and more. 

AB 82: Confidentiality protections for patients and providers of reproductive and gender-affirming care 

Authored by Assemblymember Chris Ward, this bill will allow reproductive or gender-affirming health care patients and service providers who face violence and harassment because of their association with such care to request that state and local agencies protect the confidentiality of their identities and addresses. 

Introduction: From Glitter to Grounding

West Hollywood has long been a symbol of queer resilience, joy, and liberation. But beneath the rainbow lights and endless champagne toasts lies a quieter truth: many LGBTQ+ individuals are struggling with depression, alcohol dependency, and anxiety. The party culture that once felt like freedom can slowly turn into a trap.

Today, a new wave of healing is taking root—one that blends cutting-edge science with compassionate care. Instead of another night numbing pain at the bar, thousands of queer residents are choosing sobriety, finding purpose, and embracing innovative treatments like at-home ketamine therapy and low-dose naltrexone (LDN).

At the heart of this movement is Better U, a mental wellness company disrupting the status quo with discreet, science-backed solutions that bring healing into your home.

The LGBTQ+ Mental Health Crisis: More Than Just Statistics

The numbers are sobering: LGBTQ+ adults are twice as likely as heterosexual adults to experience depression, anxiety, and substance use disorders. In West Hollywood, where nightlife thrives, alcohol often becomes a coping mechanism—until it becomes a chain.

Alcohol use disorder affects up to 25% of LGBTQ+ adults, compared to about 10% of the general population. LGBTQ+ youth are four times more likely to attempt suicide than their peers. Despite these disparities, most treatment options still revolve around daily antidepressants or 12-step programs that don’t address the root causes of pain.

The truth? Traditional mental health care is falling short for queer communities.

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Why Daily Pills and Party Culture Aren’t Enough

For decades, the standard treatment for depression and anxiety has been daily antidepressants. But LGBTQ+ patients often report:

• Unwanted side effects (weight gain, sexual dysfunction, emotional numbness).
• Low effectiveness rates (many report little to no relief after years on medication).
• Stigma around seeking help that discourages follow-through.

Add to that the cultural reliance on alcohol as a form of connection, and many people find themselves in a cycle of numb → escape → crash → repeat.

This is where ketamine therapy and LDN step in—not as escapism, but as tools for healing, sobriety, and self-discovery.

The Science of Ketamine Therapy: Rewiring the Brain

Unlike recreational use, ketamine therapy is a safe, low-dose, medically guided treatment that targets the root of depression and addiction.

• Neuroplasticity boost: Ketamine stimulates glutamate receptors, helping neurons form new connections. Think of it as opening “windows of change” where stuck thought patterns can be rewired.
• Rapid results: Unlike antidepressants that can take six to eight weeks, ketamine therapy often reduces depression and suicidal ideation within hours to days.
• Emotional reset: Patients report profound shifts in perspective, allowing them to process trauma without being consumed by it.

For LGBTQ+ patients who’ve lived with rejection, shame, or identity-based trauma, this reset can be life-changing.

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Low-Dose Naltrexone (LDN): A Little-Known Ally Against Alcohol

While ketamine works on depression and anxiety, LDN quietly helps tackle alcohol cravings and inflammation.

• How it works: Naltrexone blocks opioid receptors, reducing the rewarding effects of alcohol. Over time, drinking loses its grip.
• In low doses: LDN also calms inflammation in the brain and body, which researchers link to depression, chronic pain, and autoimmune conditions.
• For sobriety: Thousands in recovery use LDN to ease the process of quitting drinking without feeling deprived.

When combined with ketamine therapy, LDN addresses both the emotional and physical roots of addiction.

Better U: Healing at Home, Without the Stigma

Here’s what sets Better U apart in West Hollywood’s crowded wellness landscape:

1. At-Home Treatment – No fluorescent clinic lines, no judgmental waiting rooms. Medication is delivered discreetly to your door.
2. Remote Accountability Coaching – Licensed integration coaches guide you through your journey, helping you stay accountable while building new habits.
3. Holistic Healing – Ketamine therapy, LDN, and psychiatric support are all combined into one seamless program.
4. Community Impact – Better U has already helped tens of thousands nationwide, including thousands in West Hollywood, find freedom from alcohol, depression, and anxiety.

“Our mission is to help people come home to themselves—to finally feel at ease in their own skin. To soften the noise of depression, addiction, and anxiety, and replace it with clarity, connection, and love. Every person deserves more than quick fixes or endless prescriptions.

With Better U, we’re offering a path to real healing: the freedom to let go of what no longer serves you and the courage to step into the world as your truest self—living with compassion, spreading love, and inspiring others to do the same.”

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Escaping the Party Culture: Stories of Change

Imagine Marco, a 34-year-old gay man living in West Hollywood. For years, weekends meant endless drinking, hookups, and waking up Monday feeling emptier than before. Therapy helped, but not enough. Antidepressants dulled him.

After starting Better U’s at-home ketamine therapy with LDN, Marco noticed:

• His cravings for alcohol decreased.
• His depression lifted in weeks, not months.
• He started running again, something he hadn’t done in years.
• For the first time, he felt hope—not just distraction.

His story is not unique. Across West Hollywood, queer residents are realizing: healing doesn’t have to happen at the bar. It can happen at home.

The Neurobiology of Sobriety: A Closer Look

Why does this approach work so well?

• Ketamine + Glutamate: Increases BDNF (brain-derived neurotrophic factor), helping the brain rewire out of depressive loops.
• LDN + Endorphins: Increases endorphin release in low doses, stabilizing mood while reducing alcohol cravings.
• Alcohol-Free Brain: Within 30 days of sobriety, dopamine receptors begin to recover, improving motivation and joy.

When you pair all three, you’re essentially retraining the brain’s reward system—away from alcohol, toward healthier sources of meaning.

From Isolation to Community

Sobriety can feel lonely, especially in queer spaces where nightlife dominates. But Better U builds community in new ways:

• Integration groups (virtual safe spaces to share experiences).
• Accountability coaching (so you’re never alone in the process).
• Pride in healing (reframing sobriety as strength, not deprivation).

The result? A new queer culture that celebrates authenticity, connection, and healing—not just another round at the bar.

The Bigger Picture: Disrupting a Broken System

The current mental health system is broken. Long waitlists, rushed psychiatry appointments, and overprescription leave too many LGBTQ+ people slipping through the cracks.

Better U’s model challenges that:

• No more waiting weeks for a refill.
• No more hiding your healing.
• No more daily pills without progress.

Instead, queer residents of West Hollywood can access care remotely, discreetly, affordably—and effectively.

Call to Action: A Better U, A Better WeHo

Healing doesn’t have to mean isolation. Sobriety doesn’t have to mean loss. With at-home ketamine therapy and low-dose naltrexone, LGBTQ+ individuals are finding freedom, joy, and purpose again—without leaving their living rooms.

If you’re in West Hollywood and struggling with alcohol, depression, or anxiety, know this: you are not broken. You are not alone. And a better you is possible.

Visit BetterUCare.com to learn more about at-home ketamine therapy, low-dose naltrexone, and how you can begin your journey today.

Kindness is the best medicine.

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If you’ve watched reality television at all in the past two decades, odds are you’ve been graced by the onscreen presence of Tiffany ‘New York’ Pollard. 

Few people have conquered the reality TV landscape like New York; starting off as a contestant on the infamous The Flavor of Love, she went from finding romance to hosting and appearing on some of the best programs this genre has to offer. Queer audiences have always adored their boisterous personality and uncanny ability to verbally eviscerate others—and the feeling is mutual. Whether it’s appearing on RuPaul’s Drag Race, partying it up at gay clubs across the country, or leading her own programs with OUTtv,  Pollard has never been shy about showing how much she loves her LGBTQ+ fans. And now, proudly wearing their own LGBTQ+ identity and more committed to queer storytelling than ever, she’s ready to once again revolutionize the medium by hosting OUTtv’s latest competition series: Slayers: Wheel of Fate. The Los Angeles Blade sat down with Pollard to discuss this new reality adventure, what it means to truly support the LGBTQ+ community, and why we always need real stories like these — not just when people are threatening to take them away. 

“I’ve always wanted to host a big competition like this,” explained Pollard, on what drew her to Slayers. “Reality TV is in my veins, so I knew I had something special to add to [the show].” It’s a flair that the performer has brought to every project she’s been a part of; from villainous competitions to dating shows centered around her, audiences always enjoy seeing the dynamic authenticity that is Tiffany Pollard. She’s been featured in every kind of reality show imaginable, yet even with such an expansive filmography, she’s never been a part of anything like Slayers. 

The series follows a group of LGBTQ+ contestants living together in a mansion and facing a series of brutal competitions, with each episode seeing someone get eliminated through a ‘Main Slay’ challenge. Its contestants span a myriad of gender identities and sexualities, with the series offering them a chance to be their most-real selves. “We need stories that center LGBTQ+ folks…but not just when times are bad,” Pollard explained, on how, while she’s thankful the series focuses on authenticity, similar shows need to similarly let people be themselves, no matter what’s happening in the world around them. “I’ve been around a long time—and I expect to start seeing people stand with us when things are good again, too! Sometimes folks wait until everyone is in danger to give a damn. Support queer people ALWAYS.” It’s an important message now more than ever, and it’s conveyed in the most intense format through Slayers.

Themed around a medieval setting and an illegal ‘dragon-betting’ ring, the players are fighting to unseat the unseen ‘Queen Karen’ in a hilariously campy, shockingly pulse-pounding format. It’s a kind of thrilling fun that so many LGBTQ+ viewers need right now, with the series purposefully spotlighting the identities of its all-queer cast… including the host herself. 

In a recent interview with PinkNews, Pollard stated that she ‘resonates with non-binary,’ explaining that her gender identity and expression are very fluid. It’s what made the chance to lead a show of only LGBTQ+ competitors so affirming for her, with the host saying, “As a member of the community with a platform, it’s important to show up and be visible for people. To remind folks they’re not alone.” 

Seeing Pollard come out has been a heartwarming experience for her countless fans — and it couldn’t have happened at a better time. While coming out has never been easy, it’s particularly hard for people ‘in the closet’ today; rising anti-LGBTQ+ discrimination nationwide has led to many worrying that accepting their identity openly will label them a political target. Pollard understands this, and it’s why she made sure her competitors felt respected and affirmed at every step of the filming process (when she wasn’t trying to feed them to a dragon, of course). She hopes that her coming out will inspire others to do the same, and she empathizes with those nervous to live their truths today — but assures them that hiding is never the answer. 

“I want to remind [everyone scared] that we’re not going anywhere and that we’re stronger as a group,” Pollard said vehemently, imbuing each word with their trademark brand of unflappable confidence. “Put down the petty dramas with each other for right now and let’s just focus on pushing through this.”

It’s slightly ironic to hear a call to unity from New York; most people know her from the many legendary scenes of her tearing others apart (ol’ maiden type of shoes, anyone?). Yet any look at the star’s history will showcase that, while her onscreen career has been built by jaw-dropping chaos, her personal life has always seen her as an advocate, bringing queer folks the joy they need and calling out bigotry across the country. 

Tiffany ‘New York’ Pollard hopes that Slayers: Wheel of Fate will not only provide LGBTQ+ viewers a break from the stress of today, but also inspire them to live as passionately free as the people they’re watching onscreen. Throughout the interview, she expressed how she understands why so many are scared, but that finding a safe, affirming way to express one’s pride is more important for our communities than it’s ever been before. She’s grateful for a career that has given her such a big platform to broadcast this message — and detests the way similar stars are rolling back on publicly supporting their LGBTQ+ fans when they need it most.

To these other celebrities, ones who are scared that being anti-hate might lose them some fans, she has one thing to say: “You should be more scared of what happens if you don’t. Period.”

On Wednesday afternoon, art critic and curator Anuradha Vikram strode across the wide main room of the Advocate and Gochis Galleries at the Los Angeles LGBT Center, pressing neon labels onto walls covered with newspaper clippings, pamphlet pages, protest photos and flyer printouts from the peak of the national AIDS epidemic that began in the early 1980s. 

These documents hold fragments of the lives of artists, activists and supporters of the AIDS Coalition To Unleash Power/Los Angeles (ACT UP/LA), a group that organized various non-violent protests, community meetings, vigils and other demonstrations to bring attention to harmful and ineffective government policies around HIV/AIDS; advocate for better healthcare access, hospital conditions and resources for PWAs (people with AIDS); and shine light on communities who were sidelined in HIV/AIDS research and care, including women, incarcerated people, and communities of color. 

“The Sky is Always Falling: HIV/AIDS Activists Unleashing Power in Los Angeles Then and Now” is a new exhibition opening on September 28th that preserves tangible records of ACT UP/LA’s existence and resistance. Much of the media included in this show is a remnant from when the group was active, from its formation in 1987 to its eventual disintegration in the late 1990s. The various pieces on display are reproductions of historical files and records collected and preserved at institutions like the ONE Archives and the June L. Mazer Lesbian Archives, two major repositories for LGBTQ+ historical materials.

“Since this is primarily focused on the 1980s and ‘90s, so much of the material was printouts, faxes, photocopies, and computer graphic design setups. Reproducing it all made material sense,” Vikram told the Blade. 

“If this was a show about the 1940’s or the 1890’s, it might not feel so authentic to have copies of things. But here, even the original materials were copies at one time, so they’re the copies that survived. We’re working with the idea of the copy being the original — which is a very 90’s kind of zine, community-organizing approach that also then applies here for ACT/UP.”

Since April, Vikram has been planning, researching and organizing the exhibition as part of the local Circa: Queer Histories Festival. Now in its third year, Circa was created by One Institute, a long-standing LGBTQ+ organization that amplifies queer histories through educational programming. Their festival runs through October 31st, and includes a panel on the history of sex work in NYC ballroom culture, a South Asian dance and drag performance, a workshop on trans history and reclaiming origin stories, a screening of 1972 Japanese “pink film” Shinjuku Midnight Story: Man and Woman, and several other lectures, readings, and gatherings.

“The Sky is Always Falling” is the opening event of Circa’s packed calendar this year, and offers attendees a chance to become part of an intergenerational conversation around queer solidarity in the face of public health, social, and political crises. The show highlights key actions organized by ACT UP/LA members, including a 1990 protest at Frontera women’s prison that was organized by the coalition’s Women’s Caucus. Over a hundred supporters protested the prison’s handling of its AIDS ward, criticizing its lack of proper nutrition, care, and qualified staff. 

In June of 2020, an urgent memo was released by public health experts, stating that San Quentin California State Prison was being impacted by a rapidly developing COVID-19 outbreak and had “profoundly inadequate resources to keep it from developing into a full-blown local epidemic.” 

Vikram says it is important to highlight how systemic issues and failures create cycles of violence for marginalized populations. “These issues haven’t gone away in any way. They’ve just kind of rolled forward,” Vikram said. “In each of these topics and panels, the goal was to connect it, ultimately, to something today. So you would understand that it’s not just a historical phenomenon, but rather like a guide, a little bit of a roadmap for how to deal with stuff now.”  

A self-proclaimed “baby teenager” during the height of ACT UP activations, Vikram is grateful to the queer elders who welcomed her into their spaces and shared their stories with her. These connections informed her own journey as a queer South Asian person growing up in New York, carving out a space for her own voice and identity in contemporary art criticism and curating.

Vikram hopes that — through this exhibition, her lecturing, and her community work — she can “repair” ties between queer adolescents today and queer people of older generations. The knowledge, guidance, and joy she received from relationships she formed with older queer people in her youth provided a model with which she could navigate the world: with fervor and with bravery.

“Now I feel that young people really have very little connection to elder generations — even middle generations like mine. And so that knowledge is not being continuously passed on in the same way,” Vikram said. “This is actually what anthropologists say makes us human: the ability to have that intergenerational transfer of knowledge without having to fight the same battles every generation. And, at this moment in time, that’s being severed because of the fascist turn in our culture, really. So the goal of this project was to help young people who are trying now to organize around a number of issues against this government — for gay rights, for trans rights, for Palestine, for their own health and welfare — to help them get that information in some form.” 

“The Sky is Always Falling” opens on Sunday, September 28th with a reception from 4-7 p.m. at the Advocate and Gochis Galleries at the Los Angeles LBGT Center. 

Within Riverside County, in the San Jacinto Mountains, lies the charming community of Idyllwild, known for its beautiful scenery, artistic vibe, and recreational activities. Located just an hour from Palm Springs, it also boasts a growing LGBTQ contingency.

Idyllwild captured the hearts of couple Jeremy Taylor and Niels Kosman, the owners of PS Homeboys, one of Palm Springs’ top interior design and art boutiques. Frequent visitors to Idyllwild, Taylor and Kosman began to wonder why the town never held its own Pride. Taking matters into their own hands and partnering with business owners in the city, Pride Under the Pines debuted on October 23rd, 2021, with over 800 attendees.

Not only was the event a success in terms of LGBTQ representation for the community, but local businesses reported a boom in sales and customers. Pride Under the Pines has since become one of the most anticipated Idyllwild events of the year.

This year, the event celebrates its 5^th year with a bang, turning up the glam. The day’s festivities will feature headliners Janice Robinson (“Dreamer”, “There Must Be Love”) and West Hollywood’s Prince Joshua, go-go studs, DJ Galaxy (courtesy of KGay), Congressman Candidate Brandon Riker, and community health partners, with a drag line-up that includes Mayhem Miller, Violeta, and Abigail Beverly Hillz. Los Angeles Blade publisher Alexander Rodriguez will serve as the day’s emcee.

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This year continues ahead, full force, despite social media backlash for the event’s signage, hanging smack dab in the center of town. Pride Under the Pines founders Taylor and Kosman are unwavering in their mission to bring queer representation to “The Hill.” They chatted with us as they put the final touches on next week’s programming.

What was the inspiration behind creating Pride Under the Pines?

We wanted to create something truly grassroots and community-driven—a Pride that felt intimate, authentic, and rooted in love. Idyllwild is a magical mountain town that has always embraced diversity, and we thought it was the perfect setting to bring people together in celebration of LGBTQ+ pride, visibility, and joy. We were the first Pride Festival since the pandemic, and it all started when we used Idyllwild as our lockdown escape. We fell in love with the town and its community. Through conversations, we learned there is a large LGBTQ community that also feels the need to be heard and seen. This Pride was started to shine a bright light on the local queer community and to bring awareness to everyone else.

What makes Pride Under the Pines different than other Prides?

Unlike many large-scale city Prides, this event has an intimate, small-town charm. You’re surrounded by nature, pine trees, and a community that genuinely rallies together. It’s not about corporate floats—it’s about neighbors, friends, and allies lifting each other up. That balance of heart, inclusivity, and stunning mountain setting makes it truly one-of-a-kind.

What is your mission in producing Pride Under the Pines?

Our mission is to create a safe, joyful, and visible space where the LGBTQ+ community and our allies can come together. We want to celebrate diversity, promote equality, and strengthen connections in a way that uplifts both the queer community and the town of Idyllwild.

What have been some of your biggest challenges in establishing this event over the years?

Permitting, logistics, and funding have always been challenges for grassroots organizers like us. Each year, we navigate county regulations, rising costs, and unexpected hurdles. And of course, building something from scratch in a small town takes time and persistence. But the love we receive from attendees makes every obstacle worth it.

What have you loved most about working on this project?

The connections. Seeing people who’ve never been to Idyllwild fall in love with the town. Watching LGBTQ+ youth feel seen. Hearing allies say this is their favorite event of the year. And, most of all, the joy of building something meaningful together as a couple, a team, and a community.

What can we expect from this year?

Our 5th anniversary is the biggest yet! A brand-new location at the Idyllwild Town Hall, incredible headliners like Janice Robinson, fabulous drag performances, DJs, live music, a beer garden, delicious food, and a VIP experience with open bar and meet-and-greets. It’s going to feel like a full festival while still keeping that warm community spirit.

Your sign is in the middle of town. Why is it so important to grow visibility in today’s climate?

Visibility saves lives. At a time when LGBTQ+ rights are under attack nationwide, putting a Pride banner in the center of town says: We are here, we are proud, and we are part of this community. It’s a statement of resilience and hope—for queer people in Idyllwild, for visitors, and for anyone driving by who needs to feel seen.

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You have received hateful social media comments. How does that make you feel? What is your first reaction?

Of course, it stings—but more than anything, it strengthens our resolve. Hate is loud, but love is louder. Our first reaction is to lean on our allies, our friends, and the outpouring of positivity that always follows.

Did you ever consider cancelling Pride because of hateful comments? What makes you continue to put it on?

Never. If anything, the hate shows exactly why this Pride is needed. We continue because the LGBTQ+ community deserves visibility, joy, and safety in every town—not just the big cities. We continue because love is stronger than hate.

What do you want to say to those who want you to shut down Pride Under the Pines?

We’d say this: Pride isn’t about you. It’s about love, equality, and visibility for people who have historically been silenced. No amount of hate will stop us from celebrating who we are.

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On a fun note, how did you two meet, and how long have you been together?

We met years ago in Palm Springs—two creatives who bonded over design, humor, and a shared love for community. We’ve been together for over a decade, and every year just gets better.

You also own and run your business together. How do you maintain a healthy relationship while working so hard together and putting on events?

We laugh. A lot. We balance each other’s strengths and give each other space when needed. We’ve learned how to divide and conquer, but also when to come together. At the end of the day, we love what we do and we love each other—that makes even the hard days easier. We say if you can run a business together and produce a Gay Pride for 5 consecutive years, we must be doing something right.

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What do you love most about the queer community in the Coachella Valley?

The diversity and resilience. Our community here is vibrant, creative, and unapologetically itself. Whether in Palm Springs, Idyllwild, or beyond, there’s a sense of family that’s deeply inspiring. We all support each other, whether we patronize each other’s business or we lift each other up through conversation and showing up. It is truly an amazing feeling, that sometimes we feel people forget to remember.

What is your message to the community?

Stand proud, stand visible, and stand together. We need each other more than ever. Come to the mountains, celebrate with us, and remember that Pride isn’t just a party—it’s a powerful act of love, resilience, and community.

The event will be held at Idyllwild Townhall / 25925 Cedar St, Idyllwild-Pine Cove, CA 92549

Tickets available here

It’s often forgotten how integral cannabis culture has been to Queer liberation, a little-known aspect of our LGBTQ+ history that August 28th’s Loud and Proud event worked hard to spotlight. 

Co-sponsored by the Los Angeles Blade, Culture Machine, and Last Prisoner’s Project, this evening of discussion brought vital knowledge to West Hollywood’s The Abbey. Beyond an invigorating ambience — due largely to stellar performances by Maris and S.I.A.T. — the event was something that most attendees didn’t expect: a call to action. Loud and Proud’s goal was to do more than just inform them about what the marijuana industry looks like in LA. It charted the intricate ways that the advancement of cannabis has been tied to the fight for LGBTQ+ rights. And, by helping fight for its decriminalization, folks can assist thousands of unjustly imprisoned people all across this country. 

“Our history as queer people is directly tied to the cannabis industry,” explained West Hollywood City Councilman John Erickson, a member of the event’s all-star panel (moderated by LA Blade publisher Alexander Rodriguez). In tandem with fellow cannabis advocates Maha Haq and Andrés Rigal, the speakers explained how not only has marijuana been used globally for centuries, but in the U.S., it was vital in helping survivors during the AIDS crisis. This time saw the earliest instances of weed being used medically, helping those struggling with the nausea of HIV treatment actually want to eat the food their bodies needed to heal. It proved integral in abetting the suffering of countless patients — so what made politicians decide to launch entire media wars against its usage? Along with the corporate greed of billionaires, Erickson clarified exactly why so many lawmakers were scared of queer folk using marijuana: “Cannabis [always broke] through the ‘medical glass ceiling’ — and it was criminalized because you fear the things that you can’t control.”

Loud and Proud attendees were lucky to hear from Steven Post of Last Prisoner’s Project (TLPP), a nonprofit dedicated to freeing the people still incarcerated due to marijuana in the U.S. “This is something that has been going on for over 50 years,” said Post, when breaking down how Ronald Reagan — a President whose discriminatory policies prolonged the lethal AIDS crisis — escalated the “war on drugs” as an excuse to increase policing against Black and Brown communities. He describes how, even though cannabis has not only been legalized in many states but is now a booming industry, there are still thousands of folks in prison for these crimes that are no longer illegal in the U.S. This is a criminalization that has disproportionately targeted queer and Black communities, leaving the populations that revolutionized this drug to suffer while primarily White, cisgender owners profit through their own dispensaries. But though this history is extremely disappointing, Post reminds guests, “There’s a lot of work that still needs to be done….anything you can do, whether it’s sharing a social media post, donating or taking action in your own community, [anything you can do] is really important.” Organizations like TLPP are fighting every single day to free folks imprisoned for cannabis and make it legal for all, a fight that the panelists remind everyone they can join right now. 

Cannabis has always been utilized not only to help queer folks but give them the wellness tools they need in the ongoing fight for liberation. It’s a usage that isn’t often discussed, but these panelists raise awareness of through their work. “We’re showing consumers that there’s a beautiful, conscious way to understand cannabis,” said Vanessa Oliver, whose company Cloud9 Studios works to inform people about the benefits of cannabis in a wellness-focused, educational way. Along with Luke Anderson, creator of the innovative cannabis company Cann, they emphasize that guests shouldn’t be defeated by the many ways cannabis criminalization is used against their communities. Rather, they should learn from cannabis pioneers like Dennis Peron and Brownie Mary — those who recognized the benefits of this drug and how it could help bring health equity to the communities that so often are denied this human right. 

The Loud and Proud panelists made it clear: the fight for queer liberation through cannabis is still alive and strong. Whether it be through nonprofits like The Last Prisoners Project or inclusive business models, these advocates work to free those in prisons and ensure there won’t be any others who face unjust policing due to cannabis.  “We’re building off of these stepping stones because we believe this is compassionate care,” clarified Oliver. She and the rest of the panel encourage everyone listening to spread this message, to get involved in the local politics that often determine cannabis laws, and help create a culture where people can benefit from its use safely. 

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And, most of all, whether it be through community events like Loud and Proud or other ways of community education, to learn about how marijuana usage has always been essential in the fight for queer rights. Because once people understand that, they’ll realize that by fighting to uplift queer Cannabis culture, they’ll be fighting to uplift the entire LGBTQ+ community today. 

A special thank you to the staff and event team at The Abbey for hosting us, our presenting sponsor, Emerald Village, and contributors TreeXLines and BEBOE.

As ICE raids intensify across Southern California and anti-immigrant sentiment resurfaces in Orange County, trans and immigrant communities are once again being targeted. These crackdowns go beyond enforcement—they’re designed to instill fear. At the same time, a coordinated right-wing smear campaign is attempting to discredit the very organizations working to keep these communities safe.

Last month, the TransLatin@ Coalition (TLC), a cornerstone in the fight for trans, queer, and immigrant rights in Los Angeles, was publicly named by members of Congress. But this was no recognition. It was a calculated attack.

“They’re calling us a radical organization,” said Bamby Salcedo, President and CEO of TLC. “They’re spreading lies, saying we’re using government funding to abolish ICE and the police and to provide abortion access. We do believe in those things—but the funding we receive is used to serve our people.”

Now, that funding is being stripped away.

In the face of state violence, political backlash, and economic sabotage, TLC is responding the way it always has: by organizing, celebrating, and building a better world. Because when our communities are under attack, we show up—stronger, louder, and more united than ever.

Salcedo, herself a proud trans Latina immigrant, has spent decades fighting for those living at the margins. “I always say I am an intersection walking,” she said with a smile. “Our organization is made up of the people most impacted—and we are the ones leading the work.”

In Los Angeles County, roughly one-third of residents are immigrants, the majority of whom are Latino. Unsurprisingly, trans Latinas represent the largest segment within the local trans community.

Yet even within immigrant justice spaces, trans people are often sidelined. “It’s a very hetero-centric space,” Salcedo said. “Most of the time, they don’t even consider the lives and experiences of trans and queer immigrants.”

The TransLatin@ Coalition is actively changing that. As a key member of a broad alliance of more than 100 immigrant-serving organizations across Los Angeles, including CHIRLA and the Filipino Workers Center, TLC helped secure over $160 million in American Rescue Plan funds for immigrant housing, internet access, and legal services.

They also co-created the groundbreaking TGIE (Transgender, Gender-Nonconforming, Intersex Empowerment) initiative, which allocates $7 million in Los Angeles County’s annual budget to support trans-led service providers. “We don’t just want symbolic policies,” said Salcedo. “We fight for resources. We analyze the budget. We make it real.”

Despite these victories, TLC is now confronting devastating federal cuts.

“Our work has been defunded,” Salcedo said bluntly. “Multiple programs are gone. And we’re not alone—trans-led organizations across the country, especially in the South, are facing the same.”

She pointed to a broader backlash against anything associated with Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI). “The private sector is pulling back. Philanthropy is scared. Even the same corporations that fund us during Pride are investing in our opposition the rest of the year. It’s hypocrisy.”

Rather than retreat, the TransLatin@ Coalition is calling for bold, collective action.

“Now’s the time for people to step up,” said Salcedo. “We have the strategy. We’re doing the work. But we need resources—and we need real solidarity, not just statements.”

To respond to the crisis and raise urgently needed funds, TLC is organizing its Walk for Humanity on Saturday, August 24. The event will begin at 9 a.m. in Silver Lake and march to Sunset and Western, featuring live performances, a resource fair, and a unified call for justice.

And yes—it will be joyful.

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“This is a call for all people to stand in solidarity with one another,” said Salcedo. “We want to bring together 1,000 people, each raising $1,000. It’s going to be a beautiful day of community and resistance.”

In a surprise announcement, Salcedo also revealed she will debut her first single—a cumbia track inspired by the movement. “It’s about movement in both senses: our political movement, and moving our bodies,” she laughed. “We can’t let them take away our joy. Joy is how we survive.”

When asked what more local leaders can do, Salcedo didn’t hesitate. “Elected officials are public servants. That means serving all people,” she said. “We may be a small population, but we are deeply impacted—and we contribute so much to this city.”

She pointed to data from LA’s most recent homelessness count, which identified over 2,000 trans and gender-expansive people experiencing homelessness. That number exists thanks in large part to years of advocacy demanding the city count and name trans lives. “We have the data now. There’s no excuse not to invest in our people.”

She also uplifted allies like LA County Supervisor Lindsey Horvath and newly appointed City Councilmember Isabel Urado, the first openly LGBTQ+ person to hold her seat. “They’ve seen our work and are fighting to invest in it,” Salcedo said. “We’re hopeful we’ll see another $10 million in city funding. But we need the community behind us.”

At the end of our conversation, I asked Salcedo what she would say to undocumented, queer, and trans Angelenos who are feeling afraid right now.

Her answer was clear, powerful, and full of love:

“You are a divine creation. You deserve to exist in this world. Walk your path with dignity, love, and respect—for yourself and for others. You belong. You are part of me. You are part of us.”

If standing with trans immigrants, resisting federal rollbacks, and dancing in the streets sounds like your kind of solidarity, join the TransLatin@ Coalition on August 24. Because when we show up together, we protect each other. And when we dance together—we win.

Watch the full interview with Bamby Salcedo:

President Donald Trump is making good on his threat to punish California officials for allowing transgender female student-athletes to compete with cisgender girls in school sports. 

On Wednesday, the U.S. Department of Justice announced it is suing the state’s Department of Education, claiming California’s policy to allow trans students to compete with other girls violates Title IX, the federal law that bans discrimination in education based on sex. The DOJ’s suit says California’s rules “are not only illegal and unfair but also demeaning, signaling to girls that their opportunities and achievements are secondary to accommodating boys.”

As the Washington Blade reported in June, this lawsuit follows a warning by the Trump administration to end the trans participation policy within 10 days or face referral to the DOJ as well as the loss of federal education funding.

And California may merely be the first to face legal action, according to U.S. Attorney General Pam Bondi, who warned that the 21 other states which permit trans girls to compete in female athletics could also face challenges by the federal government.

“If you do not comply, you’re next,” she said in a video posted on the DOJ website. “We will protect girls in girls sports.” Bondi was joined by Secretary of Education Linda McMahon. 

The DOJ suit named California’s Education Department and the California Interscholastic Federation, the governing body for high school sports. A spokesperson for the CIF told the Associated Press the organization would not comment on pending litigation.

A spokesperson for Democratic Gov. Gavin Newsom deferred to the CIF and the Department of Education in declining to comment on the lawsuit since the governor was not named a defendant. But Newsom’s office told the AP that the Trump administration’s attacks on its policies protecting transgender athletes are “a cynical attempt” to distract from the federal government’s withholding of funds for all students who benefit from after-school and summer programs.

Newsom, however, has come under criticism — most notably by the Human Rights Campaign — for remarks he made in March, that allowing transgender athletes to compete in women’s sports was “deeply unfair,” as the Blade reported. 

For more than a decade, California law has allowed students to participate in sex-segregated school programs, including on sports teams, and use bathrooms and other facilities that align with their gender identity.

But headlines about AB Hernandez, an out trans female high school student-athlete who won titles in the California track-and-field championships last month, drew condemnations from Assistant U.S. Attorney General Harmeet Dhillon, and President Trump himself. 

Following the meet, Dhillon wrote in a letter to the California Interscholastic Federation that it violated the Equal Protection Clause of the Constitution by allowing trans girls to compete against other female athletes.

As for the lawsuit, DOJ claims California’s policies “ignore undeniable biological differences between boys and girls, in favor of an amorphous ’gender identity.’”

“The results of these illegal policies are stark: girls are displaced from podiums, denied awards, and miss out on critical visibility for college scholarships and recognition,” the suit says.

Last week, the U.S. Supreme Court agreed to hear two cases challenging state bans on trans student-athletes, as the Blade reported. More than 20 states have limited trans girls from participating on girls sports teams, barred gender-affirming surgeries for minors and required parents to be notified if a child changes their pronouns at school. More than two dozen states have laws barring trans women and girls from participating in certain sports competitions. Challenges to some of those policies are still being decided by courts across the country. 

Back in February, the president signed an executive order that bans trans girls and women from participating in sports that match their gender identity, as the Blade reported.

Supporters of banning trans girls and women from competing include the conservative California Family Council, which has posted a petition online, arguing a ban would restore fairness in athletic competitions. Opponents like Equality California say bans are an attack on transgender youth.

“Local schools and athletic associations are the ones who should be handling these issues, and they are already creating policies that protect transgender youth and ensure a level playing field for all students. A federal ban that overrides those rules could require young girls to answer inappropriate personal questions or even be subjected to genital inspections by strangers if they want to participate in sports,” the organization said in a statement in February.

“The head of the NCAA, himself a former Republican Governor, recently told a U.S. Senate panel that he knew of less than 10 out transgender athletes among the 510,000 currently competing in college sports—less than .002 percent of all NCAA athletes.

“Studies confirm that participation in sports provides kids with invaluable life skills such as teamwork, leadership, discipline, and cooperation—fundamental lessons that every young person deserves the chance to experience. Beyond the field, sports also contribute significantly to students’ overall well-being, fostering better mental health, boosting academic performance, and enhancing self-esteem and confidence.”

Thorgy Thor is reimagining what a symphony concert can be – queerer, louder, and way more fabulous. Classical music has always been a little gay; Thor is just making it official.

This July 10th, the Hollywood Bowl will be shaking things up with something a lot more fabulous than their usual line-up: Classical Pride, a star-studded celebration of queer excellence in classical music. Conducted by Oliver Zeffman, the program fuses Bernstein and Tchaikovsky with the glittering premiere of Pride Songs, reminding audiences that even the most straight-laced and serious-faced composers had secrets, some of which wore capes and wrote love letters to their (clears throat) roommates.

Enter Thorgy Thor, violinist, drag icon, and reigning monarch of orchestral mischief. Known from RuPaul’s Drag Race and her genre-busting “Thorchestra” shows, Thor is not only crashing the classical music party but redecorating it as she does. Armed with a Juilliard-level command of the violin and a wardrobe that would make Marie Antoinette feel modest, Thor’s been turning symphony stages into something that looks a lot like Studio 54 with better acoustics.

Ahead of her Hollywood Bowl debut, our publisher Alexander Rodriguez caught up with Thor to talk about shattering stereotypes, confusing classical purists, and why drag queens might just be the saviors of a dwindling symphony scene. Spoiler: there will be feathers, fan clacks, and at least one moment of unexpected depth. Because when Thor shows up with a violin and a vengeance, everyone listens, whether they planned to or not.

Some people associate Pride with dance and club music—but not classical. Why do you think that is, and why is it important to change that?

There’s a lot to unpack there. First off, I’m one of those people who definitely associates Pride with music – club music, dancing, parades, rainbow colors, joy. But not many people think of classical music in that context. I’ve been a classical player my whole life, and I’ve also marched in Pride parades. I celebrate both.

The truth is, a lot of people just don’t have access to the history of queerness in classical music. But it’s there. Some of the most prolific composers and conductors – Copland, Tchaikovsky, Bernstein – were gay. Back in the day, let’s be honest, probably everyone was a little bit queer. And since they’re not here to argue it, we get to speculate.

Classical Pride shows are important because they start to bridge that gap. It’s about giving people – especially younger folks – access to stories and voices that have always been part of this tradition but were hidden or unspoken.

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How did growing into your identity affect your relationship with music and performance?

I was always immersed in music. My parents supported me with lessons, and I played in orchestras all through school – concertmaster, regional competitions, all that. I was always in the front. But something felt incomplete.

Coming into my queerness, I realized sitting quietly in an orchestra just wasn’t enough. My mind always imagined more – characters, colors, lights, theatrics. I’d be playing Tchaikovsky and thinking, “What if there was a drag artist miming with fans right now?” I needed more than just the music; I needed performance, spectacle, fun.

So I started pushing the dress code. I once showed up in a tux with the pants cut into shorts and bright magenta socks – and the orchestra was not into it. I’d say, “Why do men have to wear stiff bow ties when women get to wear flowy chiffon?” I wanted to challenge tradition, even if it meant getting in trouble. And I often did. But I realized that standing out was inevitable – so I decided to embrace it.

Now, funny enough, Thom Browne and Tom Ford are putting out tuxedos with shorts and high socks. I was just ahead of the trend. You’re welcome.

Why do you think celebrating classical music is important to the queer community right now?

Honestly, orchestras are struggling. Some are shutting down. Audiences are aging. There’s a perception that classical music is stuffy or boring, but it’s not. It’s powerful. It’s emotional. It moves people.

When I perform my “4G” show with symphonies, I always have to win over the orchestra first – they’re incredibly disciplined and talented, but also very skeptical. They’re like, “We just played with Hilary Hahn and Renée Fleming… now who’s this?” But then the show starts, and they see how serious I am about the music and the drag. And afterward, they often say, “That was the most fun I’ve had in 15 years.”

I ask the audience, “Who’s here because of RuPaul’s Drag Race?” Half cheer. Then I ask, “Who’s here because they have season tickets and don’t know who I am?” The other half cheers. That’s the goal: to bring these two very different groups together, laughing and feeling something powerful – together.

What’s your approach to blending these two audiences, drag fans and classical music fans, in one space?

I break the fourth wall. I talk to the audience. I do the first-ever live symphonic walk-off competitions – with Beyoncé, Lady Gaga, feather boas, and fans. I ask, “Who’s 65 and wants to werk?” I get kids up there. I give people drag names. It’s fun, inclusive, and unexpected.

A lot of classical audiences aren’t used to being asked to breathe, let alone unwrap a lozenge. So I set the tone from the top: “Relax, this isn’t that kind of concert.” It creates a space where different generations and communities can laugh together. That’s what I’m proudest of.

Has the current political climate affected your work?

Definitely. Just last month, I was scheduled to perform with the International Pride Orchestra at the Kennedy Center. Then, suddenly, we got dropped – after our president publicly tweeted that he didn’t want any “gay shows” at the Kennedy Center. He threatened to fine them something like $400,000.

Now, he doesn’t run the Kennedy Center, but the pressure worked. They canceled us. It was heartbreaking. Did I respect the decision? Not really. But I understood – they had a whole season to think about. Still, it hurt.

The good news? We moved the show to the Strathmore Theater, and it was incredible. Sold out. The audience showed up, loud and proud. The press was global – Germany, Italy, everywhere. That was beautiful and sad at the same time. That this is what’s making international news. But the show was triumphant.

Tell us about your new show, “Music and Fashion.”

It’s a wild ride – from Bach to Beyoncé. It’s funny, visual, historical, and super interactive. I do about 15 costume changes, some on stage, some on video. We start with a caveperson banging sticks and move through every decade – 1920s, Beatles, Taylor Swift, you name it.

It’s about moments where music and fashion collided and changed everything. From Marie Antoinette to Madonna, and how that relationship evolved. It’s smart, it’s campy, and I’m incredibly proud of it.

What can we expect from your appearance at the Hollywood Bowl’s Classical Pride show?

I’m one part of a bigger lineup that includes Anthony Roth Costanzo, Jamie Barton, Pumeza Matshikiza – some amazing talent. I’ll be performing a cheeky and sexy tango on violin by Jacob Gade, with a little twist in the middle.

I’ll also be doing a live on-stage interview with conductor Oliver Zeffman. Usually conductors show up, wave the baton, and vanish. But I want people to know who’s up there. I warned Oliver I’ll be asking him some left-field questions—and I’m not telling him what they are. It’s going to be fun, a little uncomfortable, and very entertaining.

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What does the future look like for queer artists in the arts under this administration?

I’m going to keep doing what I do – being visible, being joyful, and doing it all with color, humor, and discipline. Just existing in this space is an act of rebellion. I don’t need to be political in every show. The work speaks for itself.

Queerness has always been in classical music. I think hundreds of years ago, people were more open than they are now. Today, it’s wild how threatened people get by others simply being happy. I don’t know what’s coming in the next ten years, but I’ll be here, still playing, still dressing up, still making people laugh.

What’s your message to the community this Pride season?

Dare to be different. I get kids coming up to me saying they never thought they could love classical music and be queer at the same time. But they can. You can love two seemingly unrelated things – and do them both fully.

Usually the people who are “too weird” or “too different” are the ones who change the world. And eventually, everyone copies them anyway.

Catch Classical Pride at The Hollywood Bowl Thursday, July 10th at 8 pm. Tickets here.

As a matchmaker who’s supported thousands of gay, bi, queer and trans people nationwide, I can say with confidence that this city is full of options, but few are looking for something serious.

The swiping culture and the constant search for “the next best thing,” paired with the fast-paced, image-focused energy of L.A. can make finding a genuine, grounded connection feel nearly impossible. 

That being said, for those of us who are ready for committed relationships, there’s loads of opportunity. Let me share a few tips on how to best capture the love you’re looking for.

Everyone says they want love, but are they ready for it?

Saying you want a relationship and being ready for one are two very different things. A lot of people in our community don’t get to date openly when they are younger. Many of my clients—typically between 30 and 60—came out later in life. They didn’t get to be queer teenagers or young adults in love. So now, in places like West Hollywood, they’re finally living out that chapter.

What that means is that a lot of emotional maturity happens “later”. Some are still exploring, experimenting and trying to figure themselves out and what they seek in a life partner. And while there’s absolutely nothing wrong with this path, it does make it harder for those who are ready to settle down to find someone on the same page. What to do? Be crystal clear on dates and on dating apps. If your intention is long-term commitment, be upfront. If you’d like to date and see what’s out there, share that. As a matchmaker, I deeply believe this there’s someone out there for everyone.

The Culture of Constant Options

Los Angeles is a city of abundance and in the dating world, that’s not always such a good thing. With endless apps, parties and pretty faces, there’s always the temptation to keep looking, keep swiping, keep chasing. I hear it all the time: “he was great, but what if there’s someone even better?” That mindset sabotages so many real connections before they even have the chance to grow.

How to overcome this?

Get intentional. Ask friends to set you up. Tell people at work that you’re ready to settle down. Edit your app profile to say you’re looking for commitment. Weed out the men who aren’t aligned with what you ultimately want. 

The rise of speed dating and matchmaking

Since the COVID-19 pandemic began, interest in speed dating events have surged. People are craving real-life, organic connections again, but they’re burned out by dating apps due to ghosting, fake profiles and endless small talk that goes seemingly nowhere.

For men in their  50s, 60s, and 70s, online dating can feel downright hopeless. Many have been catfished, misled, or targeted by people who just want financial support and it’s heartbreaking. These men want something real—a partner, a teammate, a best friend. Speed dating and matchmaking services typically single out (pun intended) those ready for a relationship. Be sure to consider getting offline and meeting someone through these methods.  

Dating in LA is not hopeless—it’s just complicated. But with the right mindset and sometimes the right support, real love is possible. 

Daniel Cooley, LGBTQ+ Matchmaker & Co-owner of Best Man Matchmaking – California’s premier service for queer and trans men seeking emotional connections. Learn more here.

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