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Illinois becomes magnet for trans students seeking protections
Opponents of gender-affirming care say children are too young to make transition decisions and claim medical interventions are not safe

By Max Lubbers | CHICAGO, Ill. – Back in the spring, Kimberly Reynolds stared at a map of the U.S. Each state was filled in with a color gradient: red for those with the strictest active anti-transgender laws, bright blue for those with the most protections for trans people.
Her state, Florida, was awash in a sea of red. The closest state in blue? Illinois.
Reynolds took a breath. And some time to panic.
She had started researching a new place to live after legislators in Florida introduced a slew of anti-trans bills, many targeting transgender youth — including her 11-year-old son.
“Something inside me just broke,” she said. “I’ve dealt with a lot of policies in Florida that are not okay. But now they’re coming after my child. So that’s why we’re done. We’re getting out, one way or another.”
Reynolds asked her son: How do you feel about moving?
“I was like, ‘Yeah, let’s move. Let’s get out of this place. Let’s get out of this climate,’” Joseph Reynolds recalled thinking. “‘Let’s get out of this house. Get away from these people.’”
After Florida’s Republican Gov. Ron DeSantis signed several of the anti-trans bills into law in May, Reynolds again checked the map. This time, her state had a new, special designation, marked in black stripes:
Do Not Travel.
Three months later, the new school year has started, and the Reynolds family remains stuck in Florida. The laws are already deeply impacting her child, Reynolds said. She’s hoping to get her family to Illinois as soon as she can.
Florida is not the only state that has passed or is considering anti-trans legislation. This year, according to a Chalkbeat analysis of data from the American Civil Liberties Union, at least 14 states passed laws regulating bathroom access, sports participation, or pronoun and name changes specifically in K-12 schools. Additionally, at least 18 states passed laws restricting gender-affirming health care, primarily — though not exclusively — for minors.
For many families looking to protect their trans children in school and to preserve control over their medical decisions, moving seems like the only option — and Illinois a safe landing spot.
Restrictions impacting K-12 schools during this year’s legislative sessions
Chalkbeat read and categorized 494 bills from the ACLU’s tracker of LGBT-related state legislation, specifically looking for those that would regulate K-12 schools and students, to evaluate the landscape that trans and nonbinary students face.
About 45% of proposed bills sought to change policies or procedures in K-12 schools.


Notes: Excludes bills that use variations on “parental rights” language, which sometimes would broadly propose restrictions across multiple of these categories. The ACLU’s 2023 legislative tracker includes some bills proposed in 2022 for sessions stretching into 2023.
Source: Chalkbeat analysis of ACLU data retrieved from tracker as of 8/18/2023
Credit: Kae Petrin & Thomas Wilburn / Chalkbeat
Bills impact school policies, sense of safety for trans students
Illinois is a sharp contrast to many states across the nation, where anti-trans policies are playing out in schools. Here, state law protects students from discrimination on the basis of their gender identities. Students must be permitted access to bathrooms, locker rooms, and sports teams aligning with their identities, according to state guidance.
Changes to education policy are a big part of why the Reynolds want to move.
Florida’s board of education prohibits public schools from teaching students about sexual orientation or gender identity. School staff are also not allowed to ask students for their pronouns — or be required to use them — under state law. Another law forces K-12 schools and postsecondary institutions to discipline students who use a restroom that doesn’t align with their assigned sex at birth.
Anti-LGBTQ legislation considered in 2023 frequently targeted school policy
More than 4 in 10 bills identified as anti-LGBTQ by the American Civil Liberties Union would directly alter policies and procedures in K-12 schools if passed.

Such laws threaten to disrupt the lives of thousands of young people in Florida — and across the country. About 1.4% of the U.S. population between 13 and 17 identify as trans, according to the Williams Institute’s 2022 estimates, which are based on analysis of Centers for Disease Control and Prevention youth surveys.
Even before the laws were passed, Joseph had run into discrimination at school. One time, he said, a kid in his class made a cross and screamed “die” while shoving it into his face. Still, he said his elementary school had largely been accepting, and he had a strong circle of friends.
But as Joseph watched the Florida laws come into effect over the summer, he said the idea of starting school there became more and more scary. Ahead of his first day of middle school this month, he had one word for how he was feeling: “horrible.”
At school, he introduced himself as Joseph to his classmates. He said they’ve mostly been respectful. But teachers have been calling him by his legal name, which he no longer uses, and using she/her pronouns to refer to him.
Under Florida law, teachers must use a child’s legal name unless a parent gives consent. After talking to multiple employees at her son’s school just to get a consent form, Kimberly Reynolds said, she’s not convinced that teachers will follow it.
Ultimately, she just wishes her son could have the chance to be a kid.
“He shouldn’t have to even know that there’s so many people against him and out to get him,” she said.
But Reynolds said it feels like there’s not much she can do right now. The timeline for their move is up in the air, since it’s been a struggle to get enough money to leave Florida. A few days after the laws were signed, she set up a GoFundMe to help with moving costs, but donations have slowed down. And Reynolds is concerned about having to leave most of her family behind in Florida, especially because she recently had a new baby.
Though her original plans have been delayed — and these challenges loom — she said she’s still prepared to move as soon as possible. They’ve even already started packing.
As for Joseph? “I just hope that it will be a lot more calm and peaceful than my life here.”
The Reynolds are hoping that the more accepting place could be Carbondale, a town in southern Illinois with a strong LGBTQ+ community, and where residents recently elected the first transgender person to a city council in Illinois.
In the center of town, a rainbow awning hangs above the doors of Carbondale’s LGBTQ+ community center, Rainbow Café. The executive director of the café, Carrie Vine, said that when anti-trans legislation began to increase across the country, a group of advocates got together and decided they should get the word out: Come to Carbondale.
They set up “Rainbow Refuge,” mainly run through a local group, the Carbondale Assembly for Radical Equity. People reach out over social media, and advocates direct them to accepting areas and schools, including Carbondale.
Vine has previously worked to help people in bordering states access abortion care. But she said supporting trans people through moving involves more long-term support.
“They’re not just coming here for one service and going home,” she said. “You’re talking about lifelong support — bloodwork, labs, doctor’s visits. So we decided we needed to make something that would be more sustainable.”
When families make that move, Vine said, it’s important to get them to a safe place for trans people. Though Illinois has statewide legal protections, she said, not everywhere is accepting.
Despite protections, not everywhere in Illinois feels safe
Jay Smith, a trans man living in a small town in rural Illinois, knows that struggle. For him, being openly trans isn’t a safe option.
Shortly after he finished his undergraduate degree, he got a job where his co-workers were openly discriminatory, using anti-LGBTQ+ slurs. To avoid harassment, he decided to keep his trans identity quiet and allow people to perceive him as a cisgender man. Smith is using a pseudonym for his safety in this story.
“I can’t really just exist a lot of the time,” Smith said. “At the same time, it’s nice to not have people policing me.”
Smith is only out to particular people that he’s close with, such as his girlfriend and friends from high school. He used to live in Chicago, where he was openly trans and connected with a LGBTQ+ community. Now, he said, he sometimes feels isolated.
Smith is becoming increasingly anxious about what might happen if he were to be outed — and he and his girlfriend are thinking about moving towns within Illinois or even leaving the country.
He’s not alone. Over half of trans and non-binary adults said they’d move — or already have moved — from a state with a gender-affirming medical care ban, according to a Human Rights Campaign survey.
As an adult, Smith can make that choice on his own. But he said he’s concerned about youth, who must rely on their parents to leave.
For him, he said, school acted as a place of escape against a lack of support he faced at home.
He attended Chicago Public Schools, where current district guidelines state that staff should use the names and pronouns that align with students’ identities. Students can request a support plan between administration and trusted adults — which doesn’t necessarily have to include parents.
That’s a divergence from bills that could “out” students as trans to their parents.
Broad parental rights bills could have wider impacts
These bills are not always explicitly about gender identity, but may include language that could restrict LGBTQ-related curriculum, allow parents to limit student participation in clubs and lesson plans, require schools to seek a parent’s permission to use a nickname or new pronouns for their child, or make it easier for parents to sue schools that adopt trans-inclusive policies.

Smith graduated from CPS in 2017. When he came out as trans in high school, he said he simply emailed his teachers about his pronoun change. For the most part, he said, his school gave him a reprieve.
“It was nice to have that space from home, and know: My parents may not be able to treat me this way, but when I get here, I have that respect, that space, and that support that I just can’t get from home,” Smith said.
But Smith is scared for the kids who don’t have the same opportunity to escape transphobia, whether in school or out of school.
Families seek states that protect access to gender-affirming care
Packing up and leaving isn’t realistic for everyone. For many families, the options are limited to wherever is closest.
That’s the case for Carly West, who lives in St. Louis, Missouri. She is trying to move right across the border to Illinois, she said, in order to protect her trans child, Lisa.
“Sometimes I think that I’m overreacting, because it’s not like they’re banging down the door and pulling her out of my arms,” West said of the anti-trans push in Missouri. “But the reality is that she does need to be safe, and it’s not safe here.”
So much could change for Lisa with a short drive across state lines, West said.
In Illinois, Gov. J.B. Pritzker has spoken out in support of trans children and established a task force to create more inclusive school policy. In Missouri, the governor has signed bills to ban gender-affirming health care for minors and prohibit trans girls from playing on women’s sports teams.
When Lisa heard about the laws, she said she thought to herself: Why? I’m not hurting anybody.
Lisa came out at 6 years old. Now 11 and attending middle school, West uses she/her and they/them pronouns, alternating back and forth between the two. They wear rainbow glasses and like watching dessert decorating videos.
After moving, West said, the family plans to keep Lisa enrolled in the same school district, since Lisa spends half their time with their mom and the other half with their dad, who is staying in Missouri. But if school policies change, Carly West said Lisa may transfer.
The biggest threat right now is to Lisa’s gender-affirming medical care. For young people, such medical care might include puberty blockers — which can delay puberty-related changes such as facial hair growth — or hormone replacement therapy.

(Photo Credit: Max Lubbers / Chalkbeat)
In Missouri, minors who were prescribed puberty blockers or hormones before Aug. 28 will be allowed to continue treatment, but health care providers cannot prescribe treatments to new patients.
Opponents of gender-affirming care say children are too young to make transition decisions and claim medical interventions are not safe. But more than a dozen top medical associations, including the American Medical Association and the American Academy of Pediatrics, support gender-affirming care as evidence-based and medically appropriate and have opposed laws restricting such care.
At least 33 states have proposed bills to limit gender-affirming care, according to a Chalkbeat data analysis of the ACLU’s 2023 anti-LGBTQ bills tracker. About a fifth of bills considered during the 2023 session would restrict gender-affirming medical care for adults, according to a Reuters analysis that identified additional bills not captured in the ACLU tracker. But most policies would specifically restrict children’s medical care.
In Illinois, state law protects health care providers and patients from being targeted by states that have banned gender-affirming care.
Gender-affirming care restrictions considered during 2023 legislative sessions
These bills propose restricting access to puberty blockers, hormone therapy, or gender-affirming surgery for the purposes of transition. Some would restrict or ban this care for minors even with parental permission. Others would restrict it for some adults.

Before the cutoff date in Missouri, Lisa had a consultation to start gender-affirming care.
“I’m feeling great about it,” Lisa said, at the time. “It’s making me feel more like who I am.”
Then the ban went into effect Monday — and Lisa wasn’t able to be prescribed treatment.
Trans students carve out space in new Illinois towns, schools
On Feb. 28, the Nightengale family sat around the dining table in their Iowa home, making pins that read: “We say gay” and “Protect queer youth.” They stayed up late that night, preparing for a school walkout in protest of pending anti-trans laws in their state.
Shigeru Nightengale, 15, pinned the new additions to a vest, not too far from a demiboy pin. Shigeru mostly likes using it/its pronouns — sometimes he/him — because it feels void of gender but male-adjacent. Shigeru’s parent, Sami Nightengale, has a matching pin, for their own identity: genderqueer.

(Photo Credit: Max Lubbers / Chalkbeat)
The next day, approximately 50 students walked out of Shigeru’s high school as part of a statewide protest against anti-trans legislation. Across the state, 27 schools participated in the March 1 walkout, the Quad-City Times reported.
But a bill banning gender-affirming medical care for minors passed the Iowa legislature and headed to the governor’s desk by March 8 — the day before Shigeru was due to receive its first testosterone shot.
Shigeru had been going to a clinic in Iowa City for over a year. Sami Nightengale first remembers Shigeru expressing thoughts about gender as a young child.
“When he was 7, he started to talk a lot about not feeling right in his own body and it would be better if he was just dead. As a parent, that’s not something you want to hear from a little kid,” they said. “Then we went through this whole process, seeing family doctors and therapists and psychologists and finally he figured out what was going on.”
All those appointments led up to the moment of Shigeru getting on hormones. But as the Nightengales made the trip to Iowa City, they had no idea whether the governor would sign the bill into law before Shigeru could get the shot.
“I was so scared that I was going to just touch it and then have it completely taken away,” Shigeru said.
That day, Shigeru got its first T shot, and doctors taught the Nightengales how to administer subsequent doses at home, a standard practice for hormone replacement therapy. What was not so standard: With the legislation on the governor’s desk, Shigeru didn’t know whether future hormone prescriptions would be possible.
The next day, the Nightengales started searching for new clinics in different states. But some places didn’t have availability, and others didn’t know whether they could take on Iowa patients.
Iowa’s governor officially signed the gender-affirming care ban into law on March 22, less than two weeks after Shigeru’s first shot.
“There was just too much going on — the terror of, ‘Oh, God. All of these people hate us, because we are a queer family,’ and also the joy of having my T,” Shigeru said. “It was all so much that I went kind of numb.”
When politicians first started discussing anti-trans legislation, the Nightengale family had loosely talked about moving. But they thought they’d have more time — to save money, to pay off debt, to search for the best home.
Over the course of March, the window to wait seemed to close more and more.
In early April, the family found an Illinois clinic that would take Shigeru. And against the odds, Sami Nightengale said, they were able to move before the start of the school year.

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Now that Shigeru has settled in — and has reliable care — it said it can’t describe the joy it feels.
“It has been a struggle with ups and downs,” Shigeru said. “But I have been way happier than I have been pretty much my entire life.”
Having been on testosterone for a few months, Shigeru said this is its first time going into school “mostly sorted out.” Shigeru had previously come out as trans at school in Iowa, but felt people didn’t take it seriously because it still looked feminine.

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So far, Shigeru said it has run into some discrimination at school, but that students and teachers have been fairly accepting. Looking ahead, Shigeru is staying hopeful — and carving out a space in Illinois.
On Shigeru’s bedroom desk are signposts of a new life: its first bottle of testosterone. A scattered rock collection. And, on top of one stone, a Band-Aid — narwhal-themed — from an appointment at the Illinois clinic.
Little things marking a big move.
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Max Lubbers is a reporting intern for Chalkbeat Chicago. Contact Max at [email protected].
Kae Petrin is a data and graphics reporter for Chalkbeat. Contact Kae at [email protected].
Thomas Wilburn is the senior data editor for Chalkbeat. Contact Thomas at [email protected].
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As governor of Illinois, I’ve made it my mission to make our state the best to raise a family including for our LGBTQ+ community.
— Governor JB Pritzker (@GovPritzker) September 3, 2023
If you’re looking for a place to be authentically yourself, come on up to Illinois. Trans rights are human rights here. https://t.co/quRZWc9NcI
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The preceding article was previously published by Chalkbeat Chicago and is republished with permission.
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Kristie Song joins the team at the Los Angeles Blade as a California Local News Fellow
In her new position, Song will explore the intersections of identity, culture, and resistance across LA’s beautifully diverse queer political scene.

Fresh from the UC Berkeley California Local News Fellowship, Kristie Song has officially found a new home at the Los Angeles Blade, and she’s ready to serve up some top-tier journalism that serves the community.
A queer Asian American journalist with a passion for zines, intergenerational dialogue, and community-rooted storytelling, Song is already making space for voices that are often sidelined and suppressed. Song is here to celebrate joy, resistance, and everything in between. We chatted with Song on what brought her to the Blade, why local journalism is important, and the power of asking the right questions.
What first drew you to the Local News Fellowship, and how did that lead you to the Los Angeles Blade?
Before moving back to Los Angeles for the Local News Fellowship, I’d spent a number of years freelancing and interning at different newsrooms and outlets in the Bay Area. It was a really joyous few years — I learned to carve a niche and develop my voice while traversing this really rich landscape, scoping out stories and voices I wanted to share with readers and listeners.
I spent a morning with a group of Chinese and Latine women in San Francisco’s Mission District, watching as they practiced their march for the yearly Lunar New Year Parade, lifting up flags that represented their migration stories. I spent time with queer zine artists as they organized festivals and workshops to preserve and share accessible artmaking mediums to their communities, expanding a continually evolving tapestry of Black, brown, queer, disabled people finding their footing through art.
I hope to continue doing work like this at the Los Angeles Blade, to uplift community voices and shine light on the challenges local LGBTQ+ individuals face politically and socially — as well as the ways they lean on each other for resistance and solidarity.
How does your identity and experiences impact the stories you’re most enthusiastic to share?
As a queer Asian American journalist, I am most excited to tap into queer diasporic communities and communities of color. What are their histories, and how have they rooted and branched out over time here in Los Angeles? Growing up, I was not exposed to a ton of queer media, education and journalism, especially when it comes to BIPOC narratives. As a young teen, I learned to internalize my questions and confusion around my identity, a habit that planted a seed of shame deep within me.
When I began to find queer community as an adult, so much of this shame was dispelled. I found comfort and avenues for unity, expression, and education by engaging with people who understand and uplift me, and I hope to meaningfully document and report on LGBTQ+ stories that similarly support and inform our local queer spaces and community members.
What is your perspective on the queer community of LA and what role do you feel news and media play in influencing and shaping it?
Right now, I am so excited to explore the dynamic landscapes of LA’s queer communities. Since I’m quite new to living right in the heart of the city, I am trying to soak up as much as I can! Wherever I go, queer spaces and communities have always been instrumental in shaping the local land. I want to tell these stories. For many everyday readers, what they see in the media and news is often identified as what “should” be relevant – even if these news pieces sometimes overlook their voices. I hope to be part of community-oriented journalism that highlights just how instrumental these everyday voices are.
What is one issue or topic that you’re particularly looking forward to exploring as a journalist for the Los Angeles Blade?
I am really interested in exploring the connections between queer elders and youth, particularly in communities of color. How has the queer landscape changed amongst our most marginalized community members? I am interested in exploring the lives and challenges of queer disabled people, the elderly in general, unhoused individuals, and other people who deserve more ample coverage in the media. I am also interested in exploring what issues impact our communities most, especially as it relates to healthcare, politics, violence, and representation.
Local journalism plays an important role advocating for and sharing the stories of underrepresented and marginalized communities. What would you say is the biggest opportunity for positive change in local LGBTQ+ reporting today?
I think with local reporting, there is so much potential to make meaningful connections and tell the stories of the people we are directly in community with. What are the grassroots efforts being led by our neighbors? Where are the places we feel seen as queer people? I think there is so much support abound – but not everybody is aware of where to go to find that. That’s where I hope to come in. I hope to strengthen our community’s access to civic engagement, art, opportunities, resources and more especially as LGBTQ+ rights and lives continue to be attacked.
In what ways do you build trust and rapport within the communities that you cover? What does ethical, community-centered journalism look like to you?
Whenever I report on a community, especially one I am not very familiar with, I usually start by doing deep research. I really try to avoid making people do extra labor in having to explain the parts of themselves, their communities, or their histories that are already readily accessible. Of course, this is unavoidable sometimes — but I want to communicate through my interviewing and reporting that I come with a sense of care. I also try to lead with curiosity and a deep inclination to understand – my job is to step back and create a safe, introspective space where people can express the specificities of who they are and what they have experienced.
Ethical and community-centered journalism provides deeply layered, contextualized, and accurate reporting on important issues and narratives while also minimizing harm to sources and people willing to lend their voices. What do people need to know now, and how do we deliver this information to them accessibly? I also come from a multimedia background, so I hope to provide different mediums for people to engage with their community and local news.
What challenges, if any, do you anticipate in local reporting and how do you plan to navigate these potential obstacles?
I worry, because of the ripe queer networks and communities that exist all around Los Angeles, that I may be leaving something important behind as I try to balance various stories. I plan to navigate these obstacles by forming strong relationships with mentors and community members. I think I need to learn, and remind myself, that I can never do important and meaningful work completely alone.
If you could have a coffee date with any journalist or reporter, past or present, who would you choose and what would you be sure to ask them?
So many! The first person who comes to mind is Emanuel Hahn, who has done a lot of beautiful photojournalism work around different Asian communities across the country. He’s since branched off into narrative film work, which is so cool to me. His book, Koreatown Dreaming, is a project I frequently think of and reference as an ongoing inspiration of mine. In this work, he documents several businesses in Koreatown Los Angeles with lush film photography and tender interviews and profile pieces on the people behind them. I think he wandered into many of these shops asking owners if he could take their photo, which would lead to compelling conversations around their identities, their immigration stories, and the concept of belonging.
I am moved by the stories of everyday people, and this intimate kind of documentation lingers in the back of my mind, always. I think I would ask Emanuel: what is your approach in framing, both visually and emotionally, your source? How do you make people feel comfortable when you photograph them, and how do you make them feel comfortable as strangers to share their most personal moments?
In these particularly trying times, more and more people are opting to tune out the news entirely. What would you say to those who rarely, if ever, follow current events?
I would say, while compassion fatigue is very real, we can’t afford to tune out completely. I think it’s important to take breaks and connect to the people and activities that enrich us whenever we can. However, as our communities continue to be targeted politically and culturally, it is important that we also stay informed and connected. I think it’s also worth pointing out how powerful local and community-led journalism can be. I’m thinking of DIY newspapers, flyers shared between neighbors, zines, and art that provide important resources and perspectives. I understand how traditional journalism and media can feel inaccessible.
Growing up, my immigrant parents were not particularly interested in civic engagement. They were not shown, through broader institutions and media outlets, that their voices mattered. Instead, they relied on their local radio station and community-organized events to learn more about their neighborhoods. With this in mind, I think it is important for journalists to think about the gaps in who they are serving with their reportage. Who is left out from their reporting, and how can we ensure that their stories are heard — and that they are even able to access these works?
What should our readers be looking forward to most regarding your future work with the Los Angeles Blade?
I hope readers can look forward to seeing themselves and their communities reflected in my local reporting. I am hoping to explore queer subcultures across Los Angeles, and dig deeply into how various queer communities have continued to survive and plant deep roots throughout the city. In a personal project I was beginning to explore while I still lived in the Bay Area, I learned about the existence of a support group for queer Mandarin speaking people that was really active in the 1990s. I found an archived flyer for one of their meetings, and discovered that they published a letter book with coming-out letters written by members for their family members. Their relatives wrote back, creating a bilingual back-and-forth preserved forever in these pages. Reading about this was monumental and affirming for me as a young, queer Chinese American person. There are pieces left behind by our ancestors, and we connect to them and each other through this connective tissue. I am interested in these remnants, and what they mean for us today.
Song comes to the Blade courtesy of the California Local News Fellowship
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Leading with leather and love: The heart of Bears LA with Gabriel Green
In a city often obsessed with plastic perfection, Bears LA embraces authenticity, celebrating body hair and bold expression at the core of its fur-filled festivities.

In a city known for its lipo-sculpted abs, $30 Erewhon smoothies, and bleached holes, Bears LA has always offered something on the more authentic end of the man-on-man spectrum. It offers up a space where bellies are celebrated, body hair is currency, and confidence replaces conformity as the sexiest look in the room.
This fur-friendly cornerstone of LA’s queer community has brought together bears, cubs, otters, pups, and the rest of the heavy-petting zoo for parties and pageantry with rainbow-tinted celebration. At the center of it all now stands Gabriel Green, a community leader whose warmth, wisdom, and well-deserved leather cred have helped the organization evolve while simultaneously remaining true to its roots. We got to talk with him about identity, kink, community, and why everyone deserves a seat at the table.
What does Bears LA mean to you personally, and how has it evolved under your leadership?
Bears LA has been around since 1993. It was formed to bring bears together through camaraderie and community events, things like pool parties, picnics, dinners, and of course, our contests.
We currently host two: the Bear LA Contest, formerly Mr. Bear LA, now open to everyone as Mr., Ms., or Mx., and the Mr. LA Leather Bear Contest. One’s more general bear culture, and the other blends in the leather scene.
For me, Bears LA is close to my heart. When I first got involved in the leather and bear communities, I was just beginning to explore beyond what I knew. Growing up in Newport, Rhode Island, and moving to LA in 2001, my entry point to gay culture was West Hollywood, like it is for many of us. I thought, This is gay Mecca! I can hold my boyfriend’s hand in public! But I quickly realized the standards of beauty there didn’t always include people who looked like me, folks who weren’t white, muscled, or twinks.
The bear and leather spaces offered something radically different. I have a belly, and for once, I felt not just accepted, but celebrated. Entering the Mr. LA Leather Bear contest was a whim, honestly, but it ended up being transformative. In bear culture, your body isn’t something to hide or apologize for. It’s sexy, it’s worthy, and you can embrace that fully.
Over the past decade since holding my title, I’ve watched the culture evolve. Bears are more visible, more diverse, and honestly, more beautiful than ever. But at its core, bear culture is still about body positivity, confidence, and joy. You don’t need anyone’s approval to feel sexy—you just need your own.
The title isn’t just a crown, it’s a platform. What kind of bear do you hope takes the throne this year, and what should they bring to the community beyond the sash?
Beyond the sash, the most important quality is unity. We’re living in tense, uncertain times, and unfortunately, that stress trickles down into our community. Especially within LGBTQ+, leather, and kink spaces, conflict can quickly fracture us. Online discourse often becomes a gladiator arena, where people throw flags up in protest instead of sitting down at the table to talk.
Sometimes those grievances are valid. People should speak up when they’re hurt, but canceling each other without dialogue weakens us. We already face enough adversity from the outside. Internally, we should be aiming for understanding, not division.
A titleholder represents more than an event or organization. They become a leader, whether they want to or not. People look to them. And what we need right now is leadership that’s rooted in compassion, empathy, and the ability to hold multiple perspectives.
The best titleholders are ambassadors of love. They make people feel welcome, especially those who feel like they don’t belong. You can be a bear and welcome a twink. Be a pup and support someone in uniform. We’re all different, but we’re stronger when we stand together.
Los Angeles is massive and can be messy, but the leather and bear communities here seem tightly knit. What’s the secret to that strength, especially post-pandemic?
Oh, don’t be fooled! There’s definitely some mess in our community, too! But seriously, I think one of our greatest strengths is diversity. The leather, kink, and bear scenes are full of subcultures, niches, and identities. There’s truly something for everyone, and there’s no “right” way to do it.
There’s acceptance here, whether you’re into hardcore leather protocols or playful pup dynamics. There’s room for husky bears, muscle bears, otters, and every kind of furball. You want to wear gear just for fun? Great. You want it to be deeply sexual or spiritual? That’s valid too.
At its best, this community thrives on open-mindedness. Even when disagreements happen, the unifying factor is that we celebrate freedom of expression, identity, and kink.
As a gay, Black man, how do your cultural identities intersect with your kink and leather identities?
That’s a layered one. I come from a multicultural background: my mother is Black and Cherokee, and my father’s side includes Black, Mexican, Filipino, and Irish heritage. Growing up, I often felt like I didn’t “fit” anywhere- too Black for the white kids, not Black enough for the Black kids.
Eventually, I realized: this is my version of Blackness. All these cultural strands make me who I am. I don’t have to conform to one box.
That outlook shaped how I navigate kink too. Early on, I was drawn to older partners—I wanted mentors, guidance, someone to help me grow. Now that I’m older, I’ve stepped into the Daddy role, and it’s a dynamic I enjoy. That said, even in my current relationship, where I’m “Sir” and he’s “boy,” there’s give and take. He jokes that he’s a “power bottom,” and sometimes he leads, and that’s okay.
It’s all about trust, consent, and mutual respect. You can play with power and still honor each other’s full humanity.
The Los Angeles Leather Coalition recently reaffirmed its solidarity with marginalized and undocumented community members. Why was that statement important?
Because it’s not enough to throw a party and raise money—we have to be of service. The LA Leather Coalition organizes LA Leather Pride, which is a major event, but at its core, it’s about community. That means standing up for the most vulnerable among us.
Immigrants, especially undocumented folks, are often the backbone of our nightlife scene – working food stands, staffing events, and showing up for us. People like Rosie, who’s served food outside the Eagle, the Bullet, and Faultline, she’s a community icon. When she doesn’t feel safe, when people like her are targeted, we have a duty to step up.
That’s why we made the statement, and that’s why we continue to partner with groups like the TransLatina Coalition and Trans Wellness Center. It’s about action, not just optics.
Can you talk about the LALC Community Assistance Resource Service (LALC CAReS) program?
Absolutely. CAReS was born during the pandemic. We couldn’t host LA Leather Pride, so we asked, “How can we still help?” Michael Lara, who owns The Bullet, started a pantry and from there, we expanded into a lifeline hotline and the Helping Hand micro-grant program. We offered $250 to individuals and $500 to small businesses.
Eventually, we renamed it to remove the “COVID” label because we knew the need would continue. And it has. CAReS remains a way we support folks facing hardship with food, money, connection, or just someone to talk to.
What would you say to someone who still feels like they don’t belong in kink spaces, whether it’s leather bars, pup play events, or anything else?
First off, you do belong. If anyone makes you feel otherwise, that’s on them, not you.
Curiosity is your right. Exploration is your right. And your kink, your body, your vibe, it all deserves space. No one else gets to decide that for you.
Yes, some people are insecure and gatekeep-y, especially in gay spaces. But you don’t have to buy into that. Challenge yourself to step into the unknown. That’s how you grow and find what truly speaks to you.
You host Lost Puppy at the Eagle, a party centered on pup play. Why do you think pup play has become so popular, and what’s the psychology behind it?
When I first saw it, I was like, Why would someone want to be a dog? But then I saw it up close, a pup came over and nuzzled me, and I got it. There’s affection, vulnerability, presence.
Pup play is a way to disconnect from stress, from overthinking, from everyday roles. It’s playful. It’s fun. And it’s often a gentler entry point into dom/sub dynamics. It doesn’t have to be hardcore. You can just play, and that’s beautiful.
It creates space for people to be in the moment, something we all need more of.
Can you share a kink or fantasy you haven’t explored yet, but are curious about?
Hmm… I haven’t really explored rope play yet. I’m typically in control. I’m a nurturer, a protector, but the idea of completely surrendering to someone else is still new to me. I’d have to really trust them, but I think there’s power in letting go, too.
Where do you hope to see Bears LA going in the near future?
We’ve already taken big steps toward inclusivity, like opening the contest to all genders and identities. I think the future of Bears LA is even more diversity, even more beauty, and even more radical acceptance.
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Local club Precinct DTLA calls for support amidst financial troubles; Los Angeles Blade investigates
Considered by many to be DTLA’s queer haven, the bar says it is only a few slow weekends away from shutting its doors forever.

Like most evenings at Precinct DTLA, the energy is tangible.
Located in the heart of Downtown Los Angeles, the second-story LGBTQ+ venue has been a mainstay of the area for the past decade. From its world renowned parties to its weekly trivia nights, your average patron will always experience the bar’s trademark sense of grungy solidarity the moment they step into the space. And Saturday, August 2nd, is no different.
It is packed to the brim with queer locals of all identities, with people stocking up on drinks at the main bar, jumping along to music on the dancefloor, and lounging at the breezy patio as they prepare for the 2000s-themed drag show at midnight. But underlying all of this easy excitement is something nobody likes in a gay club: worry.
People didn’t come together just to dance along to classic bops — they’re trying to support their favorite bar, which recently announced it was only a few slow weekends away from closing its doors.
In a message posted last Friday on Precinct’s social media accounts, the venue made the shocking announcement that it was in financial crisis. The statement read, “Like many small businesses, we’ve taken hit after hit — from COVID shutdowns and ICE raids to citywide curfews and the ongoing decline of nightlife. But what we’re facing now is even more devastating.” This post described how the space was contending not only with the issues listed, but also with a lawsuit by a former employee alleging that she was discriminated against due to her status as a White woman. It’s been a taxing legal battle, emotionally and physically, for the bar’s staff; the plaintiff’s attorney has an alleged track record of discriminatory behavior. Each employee is worried not only about their job, but also about losing what has become a true haven for DTLA’s queer community.
“Nightlife has shifted significantly in recent years,” said Precinct’s general manager, Jeremy Lucido, when he took a moment to speak with the LA Blade in the back of the club between boxes of seltzers and rushing employees. “For queer spaces in particular, the decline has been ongoing. Since the rise of smartphones, hookup apps, and social media, the need for in-person gathering spaces has steadily diminished — and with it, the number of queer bars.” It’s a disheartening truth that has been a recurring feature in recent news cycles; Californians were shocked only a few weeks ago when San Francisco’s historic Oasis nightclub announced it would be shutting down due to financial troubles.
When asked about how the increase in ICE Raids and rising anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric may have affected Precinct, Lucido expressed, “These attacks, especially the ones aimed at our trans siblings, are deeply disheartening…there’s a clear effort to erase us, and that makes safe spaces more vital than ever. At Precinct, we’re committed to being a haven for the entire queer community. We need to ‘protect the dolls’ at all costs.” ICE Raids have continued to disproportionately target community centers in DTLA, leading not only to a decrease in patrons, but businesses closing up and vacating the historic area.
These issues and more have greatly affected Precinct, with the ongoing lawsuit only exacerbating them. Lucido was unable to discuss the issue further due to legal liability. But queer Los Angeles remains vocal that Precinct is vital to the community.
“Precinct is one of the more welcoming LGBT places in LA,” said Wilson C., a patron who excitedly detailed how much the bar means to him after moving to California only two years ago. “It attracts a different, more diverse crowd than what I’ve seen in [West Hollywood], and it’s been easy for me to go out on a random night and have a good time.”
Along with attendees, the workers themselves spoke about how Precinct is more than just a job for them. The Blade had the pleasure of chatting with the bubbly Ms. Nicky Jackson, who has spent the past decade managing the door (and everything else necessary) at the venue’s many parties. “Precinct is different because they’re all encompassing and accepting of everyone,” she said, taking a break between warmly greeting and stamping the inner wrists of guests. “It doesn’t matter who or what you are, they’re very, very welcoming [and take] everybody in… a lot of people feel like they have never been accepted before they’ve been here.”
While there has been a resounding worry from Precinct’s thousands of supporters across Los Angeles, there’s also been a shocking amount of hope not only through the many people coming out to fill the space, but in the local celebrities like RuPaul’s Drag Race: All Stars winner Alaska Thunderf*ck who are dedicating their time to help fundraise and keep Precinct afloat. It’s been a heartwarming moment of community, but Lucido reminds potential patrons that even with all of this, the bar is still not safe from shutting down.
When asked what Precinct’s concerned supporters can do to assist, Lucido ended the interview saying, “This isn’t just about Precinct. This is about your local gay bar, your favorite queer venue — whatever space makes you feel seen. Show up. Support. Buy a drink. Tip a drag queen or a go-go dancer. We’re more than just a bar — we’re a queer family, and we exist to create space for connection, expression, and joy. So come by, and keep coming.”
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Still here, still fighting: A trans Latina’s stand against ICE in Orange County
Trans activist Arri recounts her family’s terrifying brush with ICE in Orange County and is channeling her pain into advocacy.

Last Saturday, what began as a routine trip to a local liquor store in Orange County quickly turned into a terrifying encounter with Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) officers, one that left Arri’s entire family rattled.
“We spotted them when we walked out of the store,” Arri recalled. “We all kind of just stopped in our tracks as we were walking.”
The officers arrived in unmarked white SUVs, wearing tactical vests and gear. “They weren’t masked up. You could see their faces.” That’s when things escalated. “They started slowly moving forward as we were leaving… they started following us. And this entire time I could see in the rearview mirror and in the side mirror that they were laughing.”
Although her father has a green card, fear took hold. He refused to drive home and reveal their address. “ICE made the exact same U-turn… my dad started getting scared, so he sped off and went onto the main street… luckily, we eventually lost them.”
But the emotional damage was already done.
“My dad was paranoid the entire time on our way home… he didn’t even want to leave the house after that. He unbuckled his seatbelt immediately, ran inside the house, locked himself in, and was completely shaken.”
Arri’s grandmother, who is undocumented and lives with the family, has a different kind of courage. “My grandma’s very fearless,” Arri said. “She’s strong because of everything that she’s been through in her life… She still goes out every day, takes the bus to work, and faces these risks head-on.”
What struck Arri most was the blatant racial profiling. “Obviously no one has a sticker on their forehead that says ‘we’re illegal,’ but they basically just racially profiled us because we are all darker-skinned. Like we obviously look Mexican.”
Even more disturbing was what Arri learned later. “I checked that Ice Block app later that day. They were taking people off buses just two streets down from where we were.”
Though Arri is a U.S. citizen, she has witnessed this violence firsthand before. “My mother was deported when I was in high school, around Trump’s first term.” That trauma continues to shape her life. “During transitioning, I felt like I needed my mother… to guide me through stuff like womanhood… I still need my mother to this day.”
Now, Arri channels her pain into advocacy. “This isn’t my first time protesting about this matter… I will always stand for my community… I fuel myself with just being fearless. I’m a U.S. citizen. I was born here. I’m able to speak out for immigrants who are scared to speak up out of fear of being deported.”
Her words carry not only personal weight but a fierce demand for justice. “Children have died in ICE custody. Women. Men… treating these people like they’re animals, even when they have no criminal backgrounds.”
Her story is not just about fear, it is about refusing to let fear win. She calls on those with privilege to show up. “We are the voice for those people who are not able to speak for themselves… This should make you want to stand up… Who can look at an innocent child, an innocent family being ripped apart, and not have a heart?”
“An attack on the immigrant community is an attack on all of us. If they get away with this, who are they going to go after next?” Arri warns. She believes the threat extends far beyond immigrant families. “They don’t want to make America great. They want to make America white.”
As attacks on immigrant communities, trans people, and people of color escalate nationwide, stories like Arri’s are a clear warning: these are not isolated incidents. They are symptoms of a coordinated assault on vulnerable communities, and a wake-up call for the rest of us.
Arri’s Call to Action: Organize. Vote. Show up. If you are undocumented or need support, organizations like CHIRLA, RAICES, Trans Latin@ Coalition, and local mutual aid networks provide legal help, housing, food, and resources. If you are a citizen, use your privilege to demand justice, share stories like Arri’s, and protect your neighbors.
Because, as Arri reminds us:
“You’re not alone. Don’t lose hope. Things will get better. There will always be people who will continue to fight for you.”
California Politics
How Triston Ezidore became the first gay, Black board member in Culver City at 19 years old, making history—twice!
At 19, Ezidore felt like it was his responsibility to track the educational movements in the Culver City Unified a bit more closely

While most teenagers are busy playing video games, Triston Ezidore was busy making history.
From high school student to school board member for the Board of Education in Culver City, Ezidore talks with the LA Blade about his unconventional entry into politics with influence from George Floyd’s death and the COVID-19 pandemic, and how he made history twice while he was still a teenager.
In 2021, most of us were still at home and many people unemployed, out of school, caring for loved ones or just merely surviving the pandemic shutdowns and peak infections caused by COVID-19. During this time, many high school students lost valuable time in the classroom, being cut off from celebrating and socializing with their peers. Young Ezidore, rose above that—and more—achieving new milestones within his family and within the entire board of education in Culver City, bringing representation to queer, trans and communities of color.
Shortly after graduation, Ezidore headed to Syracuse University and from afar, he continued to tune into the Culver City school board meetings to track the progress he had made during his time as student body president in high school.
“I was still kind of watching, tuning into everything that was going on in Culver City and we knew that in order to get [the progress] right, we had to have a spotlight over the implementation,” said Ezidore.
It was during this time, that he noticed that all the progress he tried to implement during his time there, was not being implemented correctly, so he felt like it was his responsibility to track the movements a little more closely.
This is when he made the decision to return home and enroll at University of Southern California’s Dornsife College of Letters, Arts and Sciences—where he simultaneously launched his campaign for a seat on the Culver City Unified School District Board of Education.
In 2022—just one year after graduating high school—he won one of three open seats, becoming the youngest elected official in Los Angeles County at 19 years old. Then in 2023, he was elected to serve as School Board Vice President—making history as the first Black, gay man in that position as a teenager.
Though his journey into politics is “unconventional” as he puts it, Ezidore says he was radicalized to go into politics because of George Floyd’s death and the inequities made incredibly obvious by the COVID-19 pandemic.
Ezidore says that being the child of immigrants also inspired him to ultimately look into politics to gain a better understanding of how his perspective can be helpful towards other people’s experiences and educational goals.
His mother was born in Vietnam and moved to the United States after the fall of Saigon, which was the end of the Vietnam war that lasted from 1955 to 1975. Ezidore’s father is from Jamaica, so that gives Ezidore a unique perspective into the challenges and unique obstacles that many students face during their K-12 education.
Ezidore also identifies as gay and has been out since he was 18 years old.
“I find myself identifying as a gay, Black man, and I know that under this administration specifically, there has been an obsession with LGBTQ people and trans people in education,” said Ezidore. “I think historically our [education] system has not supported Black boys in education as a whole, so I find myself often pulling or tapping into those aspects of my identity.”
As a proud, gay, Black man, he felt that it was necessary to implement actual structures to support the most neglected demographic of the education system.
“We instituted the Black Student Achievement Plan that called for specific action goals to implement or to increase achievement,” said Ezidore.
This plan created mentorship and internship opportunities, a Black student council, a Black affinity group graduation and uplifted students in achieving their goals. During that time, former governor Jerry Brown stated that school districts should implement a Local Control and Accountability Plan (LACP). The plan serves as a tool to improve student outcomes with a roadmap that tracks and sets goals and plan actions, and leverages resources to guide students who were foster youth, low-income and English-learners.
“I don’t know that [Trump] is going to withhold the funding, but to me, I don’t know if I could sleep at night if I let him dictate these [educational] outcomes for the students in Culver City,” he said.
The latest update from the Supreme Court is that Trump is allowed to continue dismantling the U.S. Department of Education, worrying scholars throughout the country, with many saying that without an injunction, much of the damage can be irreversible. The Department of Education has already experienced the slashing of over 1,400 jobs and will continue to see more funding cuts due to the Reduction in Force (RIF) plan, implementing Trump’s Executive Order, which he claims will improve education and families by returning education authority to individual states.
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TS Madison Starter House offers a blueprint for Black, trans liberation
When TS Madison cut the ribbon on her Starter House in Atlanta this past Transgender Day of Visibility, she wasn’t just opening a home, she was building a legacy.

When TS Madison cut the ribbon on her Starter House in Atlanta this past Transgender Day of Visibility, she wasn’t just opening a home, she was building a legacy.
Launched on March 31, 2025, the TS Madison Starter House is a re-entry home for formerly incarcerated Black, trans women. The Atlanta-based initiative provides safe, affirming housing for up to five residents at a time who participate in a 90-day program offering job assistance, healthcare, economic opportunities, and holistic support.
Madison shared that the idea grew out of a desire to do more than speak out online. “While getting ready to film The TS Madison Experience season 2, I was talking with my team about what more I could do for my community. I used to feel like everyone else was out marching and being so active, and I was just online talking. But then I started noticing how every time I’d speak out, blogs and media outlets would pick it up… and I realized, wow—I don’t necessarily have to be out in the streets to make change happen. Still, I wanted to do more than just talk.”
That commitment to action led her to turn a personal real estate purchase into a lifeline for her community. “I said, ‘I’m buying a new house… I have this house, can I give the girls housing?’ Because the girls need housing. I remember moving to Atlanta broke and being homeless. I’ve been a house mother—my gay kids have lived with me and thrived. So why not keep doing that? Why not make that intentional?”
The Starter House is powered in part by a partnership with wellness brand Pure for Men and longtime advocacy organization NAESM. As part of its Pride initiatives, Pure for Men donated a portion of June sales to support the house and sponsored attendance for participants at NAESM’s National Leadership Conference on Health Disparities and Social Justice, which took place in Los Angeles from June 25–29.
“We’ve chosen to support the TS Madison Starter House and NAESM because they’re making a real difference in people’s lives,” said Lawrence Johnson, co-founder and CEO of Pure for Men. “With Black trans lives and rights under attack, these organizations are stepping up to amplify their voices, fund essential care and give them the tools to succeed.”
For Madison, the collaboration is rooted in genuine connection. “NAESM is a godsend. It’s a 35-year-old organization with a solid reputation. No scandals. They’re trusted,” she said. “Then there’s Lawrence, the President and CEO of Pure for Men. I had already been using their products before we ever met! We met at a party, just vibing, and it turns out we were already interconnected. We started talking and they shared how they’d been watching me grow and loving my show Phag Talk. And the partnership just blossomed from there.”
The initiative arrives amid rising anti-trans and anti-Black violence, but TS Madison views the Starter House as a political act rooted in love and care. “As a Black,, trans person, I’ve always felt left out by my own Black community. It’s like, once you’re gay or trans, they see you as ‘other.’ Suddenly your Blackness doesn’t count anymore. But I can’t separate the two—I’m Black and trans. I’m both, all the time.”
She added: “When you throw your Black trans child or sibling out, that’s anti-Blackness to me. Because you’re dehumanizing them. My humanity shouldn’t vanish just because I’m trans.”
This work feels both necessary and deeply personal. “I stand on the shoulders of girls who laid down or lost their lives,” Madison said. “And I’m honored to lend my back and shoulders for others to stand on. That’s how we climb—by lifting each other.”
Madison’s message to her younger self is one of strength and perseverance: “I’d tell her: Stay the course. It’s rocky. It’s going to get even more rocky. But stay the course. You are so important, more important than you could ever imagine. Be strong. Don’t be blinded by today. Tomorrow is another day.”
Looking ahead, Madison envisions the Starter House as a model for wider change. “I want it to be the mold for how to give back. Not just one house in Atlanta, but the start of countless starter homes across the nation,” she said. “I want other girls, especially those with privilege or surplus, to see that when you’ve been given so much, it costs nothing to give back. Let this be the example.”
She’s clear on her mission: “This is what I’m supposed to do. And when you’re doing what you’re meant to do, even if there’s opposition, doors will open.”
Watch the full interview:
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Koaty & Sumner: Finding love in the adult industry
This Q&A explores the adult content industry and how this couple is making it work for them

Koaty and Sumner Blayne are not exactly the definition of a conventional relationship. How many couples can say they met during a threesome? It isn’t as lurid as it sounds and it is a sweet story. The couple has been together for six years, got engaged and started planning for a big wedding next year. Whereas most couples clock into work outside of the home, Koaty and Sumner clock in at home, in front of a camera for OnlyFans and social media.
Their lives got national attention as they made their reality TV debut on Tubi’s House of Heat last year, joining other queer and straight OnlyFans content creators in a Hollywood mansion for weeks of filming. The show of course covered the drama of a content creator’s life, including relationship ups and downs, but it also captured the realities of what it takes to be a successful OnlyFans personality. Koaty and Sumner shared the intimate details of their relationship, the exhaustion that comes with the pressure to present the perfect couple day after day and the jealousies that can come with two careers in the adult industry. While Koaty filmed his first adult studio work this year, Sumner has spent a few years working for studio names like Sean Cody, Falcon and Men.com, among others.
Somehow, the two make it work.
The two have become a very popular brand both on OnlyFans and on mainstream social media. It doesn’t hurt that they are constantly coming up with new kinds of content and the fact that they aren’t hard on the eyes at all. This year, they were awarded Best Podcast at the International Content Creator Awards for their debut pod, In Bed with Koaty & Sumner, where they cover all aspects of their lives in the adult industry—the good, the bad, and the challenging.
In this Los Angeles Blade exclusive, we talked to the couple about finding love in the adult industry while keeping the spark alive.
What are some of the biggest misconceptions people have about couples in the adult industry?
People assume we’re either constantly hooking up with others or emotionally detached robots who don’t feel jealousy or connection. In reality, we have boundaries, deep communication and a whole lot of love. We just also happen to have sex on camera. Being in the adult industry doesn’t make us less committed, our job just involves lube.
How do you maintain a healthy relationship—and manage jealousy—in an open relationship?
We’ve had to learn how to have the tough conversations, especially after the honeymoon phase wore off. It’s about recognizing how we each love differently and asking for what we need. Trust and transparency are non-negotiable. We check in constantly—before shoots, after, during dinner—nothing is off limits. We’ve even learned to turn jealousy into compersion. Usually, it just takes a little reassurance… and maybe a snack.
How do you balance your relationship with the pressure of constant content creation?
Sometimes we don’t—and that’s okay. There are days we’re exhausted and need to just be husbands, not performers. We schedule breaks, unplug often, and make time to be us. It’s not always fifty-fifty—sometimes one of us is struggling and the other steps up. We check in, readjust, and give each other grace.
How do you keep the spark alive through the years?
We stay intentional. Too many couples stop talking about sex after the honeymoon phase, expecting it to fix itself. As gay men, we’re often raised without proper sex education and with a lot of shame. We’ve had to unlearn that, be curious and have honest conversations about our needs surrounding sex. The spark stays alive when we keep showing up—and make sex intentional
What have you learned most from each other?
Sumner: Koaty’s taught me patience and how to slow down and feel safe.
Koaty: Sumner’s taught me how to communicate and love without fear.
What do you love most about the other?
Sumner: His loyalty. He shows up for me in ways that make me feel protected and seen—even when I’m chaotic.
Koaty: His vulnerability. He shares his heart so openly. It’s impossible not to fall for him again and again.
How have your families reacted to your careers?
They’ve been super supportive and just want to see us happy—traveling, building a life and doing what we love.
What did you learn about yourselves filming House of Heat?
Reality TV brings out everything—the good, the bad and the unhinged. But it reminded us how grounded we are in each other. Cameras or chaos, what we have is real.
What are some of the biggest challenges you face as a couple in the adult industry?
The constant pressure to perform—on camera, on social media, and emotionally. People project a lot onto us. It’s easy to forget who we are off camera, but we remind ourselves that our relationship comes first—before algorithms, followers, or collabs.
Any sneak peeks for your wedding next year?
We’ve booked the venue! The guest list is coming together… and let’s just say some of our hosts might be from RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 12.
Any advice for other couples in the adult world?
Communicate constantly, keep your ego in check, and treat your relationship like the most valuable thing you have—because it is. The camera should capture your connection, not replace it. Filming can be fun, but it’s still work. Your partnership—the trust, the intimacy, the real love—is what truly matters.
You can follow Koaty and Sumner on Instagram
Check out their podcast, In Bed with Koaty and Sumner
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Salina EsTitties and the power of the queer Latinx community
In this Los Angeles Blade exclusive interview, we chat with Salina EsTitties about the strength of the Latinx culture in the face of today’s political oppression and what we must do to remain strong

National audiences got to know Salina EsTitties during her run on season 15 of RuPaul’s Drag Race, but Angelenos have been witnesses to the star and activist power that is EsTitties for a decade. She’s not just a fierce entertainer, she’s also a leading voice in the queer, Latinx, drag, and sober communities.
This year, she was announced as the winner of L.A. Blade’s Best Drag Performer at our Best of L.A. Awards. She’s appeared in campaigns for Sephora, Pure for Men, Calvin Klein and more, partnering with numerous non-profit organizations that benefit the queer community and beyond. And yet somehow, she still has time to focus on her lucrative drag and music career.
Even with her continually rising star, she remains humble, down-to-earth and makes time to support events and movements that affect her communities.
This Thursday, she will join the Los Angeles Blade, Latino Media Collaborative and CALÓ News for Diálogo – Pride, Power & Progress, an intimate in-person gathering that brings together powerful voices at the intersection of journalism, identity and social impact.
EsTitties is a fierce believer in the power of the queer Latinx community in Los Angeles and knows firsthand the work that is being done.
“There are leaders in the community that people don’t even realize are out there, going to work for the community, for us as a whole and not just Latinos, but for queer people in general, like trans and trans youth,” she said in an interview with L.A. Blade. “When you go to any function that is a Latino function, there are people who are actually in the streets doing the work.”
EsTitties is all too familiar with the struggles that the organizations she supports are going through, especially as the current administration continues to restrict resources.
“There are people losing jobs who are doing this good work. The leaders of the Latin community are the ones out there in the streets who are actually helping the community,” she continued. “They’re my heroes at the end of the day because it’s those kinds of people who helped me when I was 19, 20 years old, running the streets, homeless, on drugs. They were there for me at those times and their resources provided me with a life that I have today beyond my wildest dreams. I get to twirl around in a wig, you know, but they’re the ones who are out there saving the world.”
EsTitties is also changing the Latinx culture from within. Her presence as a drag queen and a queer (as she puts it) cholo, challenges the machismo norms that are expected of men, changing the narrative of through representation. Her work is a direct result of her early experience.
“It was such a struggle for me in the beginning, especially when I started drag when I was 23. I was so insecure and so hyper-fixated on the masculinity of it all. So I cut my hair off and I quit drag,” said EsTitties, adding that she then landed a job at In-N-Out. “The machismo of it all is something that I grew up with, especially growing up in the hood. I had to acclimate — oversized white tee, baggy blue jeans and Air Force [shoes]. That was the vibe — no color, no queerness, no nothing. I had to present as much as I could to not stand out so I wouldn’t get picked on. Internalized homophobia is very real and toxic masculinity is very real inside of me.”
Eventually, EsTitties did return to drag and it gave her confidence and the voice she now uses to fight for her communities. Over the years, drag taught her how to combine both her masculine and feminine traits in a way that was real for her, embracing her full identity. From her vantage point, she views machismo differently now.
“I’m attracted to masculinity. I don’t think it’s something we have to demonize or villainize, it’s about not making it greater than. I think we’re all equal, I think everyone has all shades of the rainbow, right? I can be feminine, I can be masculine, I can present feminine and still be butch as fuck. It’s all sexy at the end of the day, but I think confidence is where you use it for good as opposed to evil.”
The queer voice in the Latinx community grows stronger every day. Younger generations are gaining the courage to be themselves, not worried about the pressures of conforming. EsTitties says that queer people have always been visible in the community and gives credit to the women of the family — the tias, the mothers, the grandmothers — for showing unconditional love and fostering a vibrant queer community.
As EsTitties prepares to join an impressive panel for Diálogo for a conversation that explores the evolving landscape of Latinx journalism and its vital role in advancing equity, representation and social change, she believes that talk of immigration and the current U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) raids be at the forefront of any queer, Latinx talk.
“The reality is that I’m sure you know someone, who knows someone who’s undocumented, but there’s a big stigma around that. We’ve heard it from our President that [undocumented immigrants] are rapists, drug dealers. That’s not the truth,” said EsTitties. “My mom came here, undocumented, got her citizenship, then did everything that she needed to do after the fact. And if it wasn’t for my mom doing those things, I wouldn’t be here for it. I am still learning how to navigate it all. This is a conversation that’s very taboo and people just like to pretend it doesn’t exist. But it’s a very real thing that we’re watching in real time.”
EsTitties stressed the importance of the queer community being involved in these conversations because they are issues that affect communities that intersect with other marginalized communities that are particularly vulnerable right now, such as the undocumented immigrant community.
“At the end of the day, we’re human beings. No one should be treated the way that they’re treating human beings right now. Seeing what’s going on right now with ICE is so scary. I know people who are afraid to leave their homes. I have friends who are dyeing their hair a different color every day, so they seem less brown. I have friends who are covering up their tattoos because they think they’re looking for them. People are paranoid and scared right now.”
EsTitties knows that stigma and racism exist even within our own community. That is a reason she works so hard at being visible and active.
“[We need to have a] conversation of just knowing that we Latinos and queer Latinos are not less than our white counterparts. We see white gays running the world, baby. I just hope that I can be one of those people who is like: ‘I’m going to do it regardless of whether you think I can or not, whether you’re rooting for me or not.'”
EsTitties says that in her experience, the queer, Latinx community is often “the butt of the joke a lot of the time.” She says that her communities often have to work ten times harder to get places.
“We’re having to fight a lot of stigma, fight a lot of prejudice, but the thing with Latinos is that we don’t let that weakness show. That confidence and strength, and our passion and our fire, that’s what continues to keep us here and moving. So I think we lean in and continue to be unapologetic, and I think just be a little louder, especially right now.”
Join EsTitties and the Los Angeles Blade for Diálogo, Thursday, June 26th at 6 pm at The Abbey. The event is free; RSVP here.
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Resist Without Rage: How this LGBTQ leader is fighting ICE’s terror tactics
‘It’s important to know what our rights are and what ICE can do legally and illegally and when we go places — because we can’t just stay shut in’

Richard Zaldivar, a prominent community leader and founder of The Wall Las Memorias, was pumped and proudly walking hand in hand with his husband Joselito Laudencia, waving to cheering bystanders as The Wall Las Memorias contingent marched down Hollywood Boulevard in the June 8 LA Pride Parade. However, Zaldivar says he noticed that many marchers who signed up, didn’t show. He believes they were terrified that uninhibited militarized masked U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) agents might sweep them up and disappear them in an unannounced raid just because they are from the Latin American community being targeted by ICE raids.
According to Zaldivar, the terror is real and warranted.
The same day of LGBTQ jubilation, anti-ICE demonstrators swarmed several streets outside the federal detention center in downtown L.A. where ICE held their loved ones. In fact, many of those unidentified detainees arrested Friday and Saturday were surreptitiously hustled into ICE buses, driven to a private charter airline hangar at the Hollywood Burbank Airport, “immediately loaded onto Saab 2000 planes owned by Freight Runners Express / ACE, a cargo and passenger charter airline,” and flown to San Antonio, Texas, according to the Burbank Leader.
Disappearances have become normal in America despite many detainees having legal status or having lived and worked in a community for years, paying taxes, with no criminal record. The usurpation of the constitution right to due process was apparently ordered by White House Deputy Chief of Staff Stephen Miller, who told ICE officials to detain 3,000 migrants a day or be fired.
On Saturday, Donald Trump figuratively poured gallons of fuel on the small protest fire by federalizing 2,000 California National Guard troops, defiantly ignoring the protocol of first being asked for federal help by Gov. Gavin Newsom, LA Mayor Karen Bass or Los Angeles Police Department Chief Jim McDonald, who said the move was made totally unnecessary by activating L.A.’s mutual law enforcement aid agreement with 88 other cities in L.A. County.
By pretending the demonstrations are riots, Trump called up 2,000 additional National Guard troops and 700 Marines, a ruse to invoke the Insurrection Act and gain unchecked power.
I asked Richard Zaldivar to explain what’s happening and offer advice to LGBTQ activists.
“Originally, Mr. Trump had said he was going after the hardcore criminals who were here with no documentation,” said Richard. “We know it’s not happening because innocent people who may be documented and some people who are citizens have been apprehended by ICE and taken into custody.
“I think that is a problem that has been a catalyst for a lot of the protest,” he said. “This cannot happen in the United States of America. This is very scary. It is scary to me and my husband and to the staff and my community…”
“Be focused in on our freedom to be able to protest and share our disgust and anger with those folks [who] deserve that anger. Call that out. But don’t get involved with the anarchists and provocateurs — and they’re here. They’ve been around for many years. They go from city to city and from issue to issue, trying to disrupt the system, the institutions,” said Richard.
“We know that under this administration, everyone is affected,” said Richard. “It’s important to know what our rights are and what ICE can do legally and illegally and when we go places — because we can’t just stay shut in. That’s what this administration wants us to do. They wanna shut us down. Go with friends. Go outside. Take a walk. Walk the dog. Go to the park. Let’s breathe some fresh air and rejuvenate.”
If that’s our intention on a daily basis, we will get through this. If we act collectively, we will get through this as a coalition.
Please go to the LGBTQ+ Freedom Fighters Substack for more reporting and the full 15-minute video conversation with Richard Zaldivar.
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How influencer Rose Montoya is using her platform to advocate for trans rights
She’s proving that the fight for trans liberation is personal, powerful and political

Fresh off a double win at the Los Angeles Blade Readers’ Choice Awards for Best Local Influencer and Best Local Activist, Rose Montoya is proving that the fight for trans liberation is personal, powerful, and political. Whether she’s educating millions through her “Trans 101” video series or speaking truth to power in meetings with lawmakers like Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, Bernie Sanders, Elizabeth Warren, and Pramila Jayapal, Montoya is redefining what it means to be a digital advocate.
“I imagine a world where trans people aren’t just surviving — we’re thriving,” she said. “A future where we have access to community, economic security, and the kind of care every human deserves.” It’s a vision she’s working to build through storytelling, education, and mutual aid. Most recently, Montoya brought that vision to a national stage with a keynote speech at the Human Rights Campaign’s rally for the National Trans Visibility March, held during World Pride in D.C.
She began her public journey in 2014 when she came out as trans, quickly gaining attention on social media for her heartfelt, vulnerable content. One of her early viral moments — a video sermon on LGBTQ inclusion — sparked transformative conversations within her conservative Christian family. “It wasn’t easy,” she recalled. “But over time, with patience and heart-to-hearts, they became some of my biggest allies.”
Since then her platform has exploded. Her “Trans 101” series, often featured in The Blade, breaking down topics like pronouns, gender-affirming care and systemic discrimination into accessible lessons with compassion. A video about discriminatory treatment at airport security led to consulting opportunities with the Transportation Security Administration (TSA). When her TikTok account got banned during a wave of coordinated attacks in 2021, she fought back — writing opinion pieces, launching petitions and assisting over 100 creators with getting access to their accounts reinstated. “When we organize, we win,” she said. “Digital storytelling is more than content — it’s community, resistance, and survival.”
“I’ve faced targeted media attacks, defamation, even threats on my life,” she shared. “It sharpened my resolve. I know how to advocate in hostile environments and I do it for those who can’t.”
Rose’s advocacy doesn’t begin or end on-screen. She’s opened her home to trans youth, facilitated access to housing and healthcare, donated thousands to gender-affirming surgery funds and supports her community through direct mutual aid.
“I know what it means to have your transition made possible through community,” she said. “I wouldn’t be here without the mutual aid I have received.”
That deep sense of purpose is rooted in legacy. “I’m standing on the shoulders of giants — Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, Miss Major, Cecelia Gentili,” she said. “They taught us that advocacy isn’t just about protest. It’s about building something sustainable.”
Still, Montoya noticed a shift in the broader cultural climate.
“There was a time when brands were eager to work with queer creators during Pride Month,” she explained. “Now, many of those same brands have quietly rolled back their DEI efforts. I’ve had partnerships disappear overnight. It’s become clear that, for some, the support was never rooted in real allyship.”
For her, it’s a reminder that advocacy can’t rely on corporate affirmation. It must be community-driven, values-led, and long-term.
As anti-trans legislation continues to spread, Montoya is focused on action. She urges allies to challenge harmful language — even when trans people aren’t in the room. She encourages donations, voting, petitioning and hiring trans people, especially Black, trans individuals. These aren’t symbolic gestures, she says — they’re essential tools in building a world where trans people can thrive. To learn more, visit her website.
When it comes to healthcare, she’s unwavering. “This isn’t just healthcare — it’s life-saving,” she says, pointing to recent cases like Children’s Hospital Los Angeles denying care to patients under 19, despite legal victories overturning similar bans. “Hospitals fear regret liability. But what about the harm of denying care? What about the youth who suffer, or worse, don’t survive?”
For Rose Montoya, advocacy is more than a platform — it’s a love letter to the future. “Our strength is in our solidarity,” she said. “We’re building a world where trans people aren’t just accepted — we’re celebrated.” Thanks to voices like hers, that world is already taking shape.
Written by Prince Joshua, a talented performer known for his high-energy dance, rap and MC skills.
Upon moving to Hollywood, he built a career as a Go-Go dancer and musical
artist, quickly gaining attention with his bold charisma. He has appeared on OUTtv and
performed at major events like WeHo Pride and Phoenix Pride. Prince Joshua was
named GoGo of the Year and Local Artist of the Year in the Los Angeles Blade’s
Readers Choice Awards, recognizing his impact and popularity in the LGBTQ+
entertainment scene.
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